Brain Vs Heart Vs Sexual Urges

[mistere57]

i think its not a question of the Brain vs the Heart vs Sexual Urges to determine whether you are in love or not... it should be the Brain + the Heart + Sexual Urges!!!

 

if all 3 exists then you have a winner (weaner??? )... sex will always be a part of any intimate relationship... love is the most intimate relationship of all kasi it transcends the physical.... goes into the emotional... and crosses over to the spiritual....

 

remember... sexual incompatability is grounds for annulment... so make sure you got all the bases covered or uncovered.... :cool:

[iwalkalone]

it must be the cycle of the moon...the cycle of my bills...and the cycle of my period...

Edited October 2, 2007 by iwalkalone

[chelly]

biologically, when your body releases endorphins (hormones secreted by the brain) you will feel the sensation of "falling in love" such as euphoria (happiness, giddy, light). whenever you feel this sensation...you most often would say "im in love" with whomever you are associating those sensations with.

 

emotionally, whenever you feel a sense of "attachment" to a certain person...you begin to equate that with falling in love with that person. You begin to want to be with that particular individual more than others.

 

sexually, you feel attraction for the person...a strong urge to swap fluids. Hahahhahha. sexual attraction could happen without emotional attachment thus some people could just walk away after the act of coupling has taken place since the sexual urge has been satisfied.

 

so how do most people determine if they're in love? it should really a battle between the brain and the heart. Personally, I have been relying on my heart to help me decide on how i handle relationships in the past. Does it work? For me...sadly it does not. Now im approaching relationships ...and potential relationships...with both my brain and heart. As for the sexual urges...those come and go but once i start feeling a sense of "attachment" to a specific individual...i now consciously stand back a bit and listen to what my brain is telling me before i take a plunge. So far, my brain has kept me from making the same mistakes i have done in the past.

[princeal007]

interms of love, I want my brain to function, but usually what happens is that my heart overcomes logic >_<

Edited October 3, 2007 by princeal007

[TonyLeung]

Sometimes it's really hard to differentiate.

[DonImus]

The heart usually tells the brain and tames the urges

[pointzero]

so basically... anu nga? is it the brain? the heart? or just plain sexual urge?

[LawKo]

 

it depends... ikaw na bahala...

sometimes your mind say no but your body is telling you yes...

or the other way around...

[TheIceMan]

The Brains tells you what's right from wrong, the body satisfies your sexual urges, but only the heart can tell you your in-love. :heart:

[bc917]

i've gotten to that point in my life where the main driver is the urge. once i get connected and intimacy sets in, the heart takes over. finally the brain when it starts asking if the relationship, which started with urge in the first place, is worth going the distance. usually, in my case, the brain kicks in when i start feeling the urge for somebody new

 

it is regrettable because i used to be driven by heart

[frankiboi]

its always the heart... you dont think when you are inlove... you feel...

[yellowmoon]

heart... :heart: :heart: :heart:

 

and it's the only one who can feel the excitement of being inlove... and the pain... :cry:

[mysogynist1020]

scintifically speaking its ur brain that tells u ur inlove its just hta yung heart ang naging symbol nung love....

 

now the sexual urges pops up pag love mo n yung tao...well wait kahit di mo pala love e my sexual urges ka pa din ...

[ilb4u2nyt]

lately my brain then my heart :heart: ... urge has come and gone

[blow_gobi]

It's the heart. But the brain tells me how to handle it while the sexual urge keeps the flame of passion alive.