Jealousy. Selos. Sino ang Seloso / Selosa Dito???

[simpleme]

Im not seloso, basta kung saan sya masaya suportahan ko sya.

 

It hurts knowing na di ka mahal but I accept it openly, walang samaan ng loob.

basta masaya sya masaya na rin ako para sa kanya. Mas gusto ko pa na ako ang masaktan kaysa ako ang makasakit.

 

I always trust a person i'm be with.

[puresoul]

meron bang tao na di marunong mag selos

[acesx31]

seloso ako pero not to the point na mag-aaway kami. I'll just tell her na I feel that way already.

[CoTTonCanDy]

i am the jealous type pero super quiet. good thing about this is that most of the time, the reason of my jealousy is valid. i won't nag you just because im jealous but i have this subtle way of letting you know that i am jealous and that you better stop.

Edited May 30, 2007 by CoTTonCanDy

[ultraelectrocute]

yes, yes and yes... pero tingin ko may reason nman sya.

[phaulgas]

yes I am seloso before.. pero ngaun, hindi na tulad ng dati, medyo medyo na lng

[Guest louventoe]

i tend to be jealous if and only if there is a valid reason to such action. its important that we need to keep that level of trust to avoid jealousy coz once you've break that trust, its really hard to recover.

[coolitz07]

seloso ako pero nasa tamang lugar ang pagkaseloso ko...

 

ganyan talaga kapag nagmamahal...

[simpleme]

meron bang tao na di marunong mag selos

yah, honestly speaking lahat ng toa seloso/selosa. but if you open your mind and understand them, I think you don't have to worry about. Trust your partner ika' nga.

 

Pero if that girl/guy ay nagloko, ah, wala tayo magagawa don kagustuhan nya yun. let her/him go, marami pa dyan.

 

somehow, somewhere makakita ka rin na tapat magmahal where you can trust her/him.

[13Nails]

I am the jealous type... enough said. :thumbsdownsmiley:

[tsinita]

yeah.. yun na siguro yung isang bagay na di ko maiiwasan kahit pinipigilan ko.. and i don't like the feeling kasi kapag nagseselos ako sinasabi ko talaga and it end up to argument.

[trophyboy]

para dein selos.. hanap ng panget

[cheex10]

hindi ako ung tipong selosa, pero halos lahat ng naging bf ko sobrang seloso!

 

yung 1ng ex ko, kasama ko cya tas may nag-hi lang sa kin na friend din nya, sobrang nagalit! sa sobrang irita ko, binigyan ko cya ng pen and paper at pinalista ko lahat ng pwede ko lang kausapin o batiin.

[lomex32]

We can not control our emotions .... only our actions

 

yeah.. yun na siguro yung isang bagay na di ko maiiwasan kahit pinipigilan ko.. and i don't like the feeling kasi kapag nagseselos ako sinasabi ko talaga and it end up to argument.

[FINGERZAP]

I think everyone can be jealous to a certain extent. We cannot be 100% selfless. I am the jealous type. When I feel jealous I tell her right away. Pero simple lang, di naman ako mag-a-amok no?

 

Goes a lil something like this:

 

Me: Looks like you and _____ are getting a little too close?

Her: Really? Di ko napansin. He's just really friendly I think.

Me: Do you think he likes you?

Her: I don't know. How would I know? Why are you worried?

Me: Well, I'm not really worried. It's just that you're an attractive woman and he might be testing the waters. I just don't want you to give him the wrong impression, that you're still open to suitors. Has he made any advances on you?

Her: Not really.

Me: I trust you, but if you could just keep enough distance so that him and other people won't get the wrong notion.

Her: Ok.

Me: (Magdarasal na lang mamayang gabi na sana nga ay gawin nya yun hehe!)

 

You can't really control your GF. Mas maganda if you only give suggestions. If she agrees with them, nasa sa kanya na yun if she'll follow them. Usually the reason why I have these conversations with women is not so much because I'm worried that someone might steal her from me (kung mawawala yan, mawawala yan, di mo mapipigilan) but because I don't want people to get the wrong impression about her. You wouldn't want other people to call your gf "slutty", would you? Unless of course she's really a slut, which explains (ahem!) why you're with her in the first place.