quadricorrelator Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I have been obsessed, obsessed and in love, but never just in love. In one case I was obsessed with a girl that I hated, and I wanted to break up with her. But, I was afraid that I couldn't handle the pain of the separation eventhough I hated her. I stayed with her just to avoid that possibility. But, in the end, I couldn't stand it anymore, and I did end it. The separation was not as bad as I expected,or as bad as it had been in the past. I feel excrutiating pain as a result of romantic separation. I think I become deeply attached during the relationship. I experience terrible guilt after the separation. I feel that I never should have started the relationship in the first place if I couldn't carry through. I blame myself for causing unnecessary pain. But, I also miss the person. My post-breakup obsession expresses itself as panic attacks. It takes quite a bit of time before the panic attacks go away completely. -q Quote Link to comment
multisarap Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 obsessed me?... siguro at the initial stages of the courtship (which is usually normal for guys trying to court a girl) but then i easily get over it... i always believe that a relationship is about helping each other grow than trying to control the other person... a man and a woman is nature's great miracle when united in love as long as that love helps them evolve into better than themselves... Quote Link to comment
mannyger Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 Ako, hinde! Baka sila obsessed sa kin! Quote Link to comment
QTkolehiyala Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 cgro wd my x bf bfore.. tagal n nun... sbrand lge ko cya hnhanap ...... Quote Link to comment
QTkolehiyala Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 cgro wd my x bf bfore.. tagal n nun... sbrang lge ko cya hnhanap ...... Quote Link to comment
penshoppe_kira Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 me rin cguro sila obssessed sa akin kc binigay ko naman lahat and lahat ng ex ko minahal ko Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 Obsession, that is more than a tad unhealthy. That said, yes, twice too boot. Quote Link to comment
RubberDucky Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 Oo naman, lalo na pag gusto mo sya... You just can help but think of her all day..all night Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 Ako mismo.. I feel I'm obsessed when I'm in love.. I think of him 24/7 eh. Quote Link to comment
^bhang^ Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 nah... sya po ang nabaliw sakin eh.... ngaks!!!!! Quote Link to comment
E. Fitzhume Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 So any tips for those who are currently obsessed with their SO's right now? No text muna? No communication? How do you stop the madness? Quote Link to comment
Saeki® Posted June 24, 2006 Share Posted June 24, 2006 guilty.... I think I'm quite obssessive... right now..... pero parang... ewan ko... Quote Link to comment
Aquaenigma Posted June 25, 2006 Share Posted June 25, 2006 well..when i love someone.. i show it..and im proud of it..when i love, i give my all yet i still keep something for myselfcoz always believe that nothing last forever.. i do hope for the best but i also prepare myself for the worst i do know how to control myself and set my own limitations whenever im in a relationshipna kahit mahal ko sya and he is world.. i will still live my life whether hes w/me or notcoz if i didn't i may not survived w/ all the pain of losing them in the end Quote Link to comment
BiTcH GoDDeSS Posted June 25, 2006 Share Posted June 25, 2006 ako never pa pero saken meron. lol . Quote Link to comment
superkikay Posted June 25, 2006 Share Posted June 25, 2006 yeah, with my ex-bf and he's not even worth it. :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
athleticse7en Posted June 25, 2006 Share Posted June 25, 2006 still >> with my fiancee.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted June 26, 2006 Share Posted June 26, 2006 So any tips for those who are currently obsessed with their SO's right now? No text muna? No communication? How do you stop the madness?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Keep yourself busy. Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 pa up lang p0 ha... Quote Link to comment
lordraven12 Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 sa wife ko, kaya kahit mag hubad ka pa sa harap ko, tatawanan lang kita eh, nyahahah, joke lang, hindi naman ako pupunta sa lugar na ganun, pero before talaga, obesessed ako sa asawa ko, ngayon konti na lang, kasi dun nagsisimula ang away, at walan ng tiwala, kaya maganda yung mahalin na lang sya kaysa obsession dba??? Quote Link to comment
BEaST-RiPPed Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 naalala ko pa rin sya..... at gusto ko syang bitayin sa garote Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 yup, with her Quote Link to comment
big-poppa-pimp Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 yup with my wife ...haaaaay Quote Link to comment
Chi-Chi Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 When I really love the person I want him to be with me as much as possible. After work, weekends, etc. I want ME to be the centre of his world because he would be the centre of mine. When the latter doesnt happen, I get really mad & emotional.. so yes I am very immature sometimes. But I've never been 'obsessed'. But my ex bf was obsessed with me.. and man.. it was the worst relship ever! Quote Link to comment
Leonardo007 Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Hmmm.. i'm really not sure... would thinking about her most of the day, since a lot of things remind you of her, count as an obsession already? Quote Link to comment
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