_Steroid_ Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 i hurt people unintentionally when i cant give the love they deserve to give when they love me... i blame myself at times for not being able to reciprocate, but ill just hurt them more if show and say things i dont really mean instead of saying wat the real score is.. truth hurts. reality bites.. nakasakit ako sa pagsabi at pagpaparamdam ng totoo. but i know that this will make them happy in the near future.. Quote Link to comment
~sexy_gurl~ Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 yes... with my ex-bf.. i fell out of love... i cheated on him because of that then when we broke up i told him the truth about my other guy.. Quote Link to comment
wandering_mind Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 yes how - i have a way with words that stabs to the bone why - to drive a point Quote Link to comment
tsunade Posted April 10, 2006 Share Posted April 10, 2006 physically?? hehehe... :evil: What hurts are words that sting really... words that will change you as a person and how you perceive love... Quote Link to comment
beelee Posted June 18, 2006 Share Posted June 18, 2006 Yes... the situation is breaking up with my GF :cry: Quote Link to comment
sexythang Posted June 18, 2006 Share Posted June 18, 2006 me and mah bf of 2 years broke up when i got here in japan. i was under stress and can't take his complains bout not gettin the job he wants. he was talkin bout engagement by the time i get home but i felt scared cuz he always change his mind when he has a job. it took several months before he's able to get over me. his dad been wantin to have us get back together and he too was hopin for the second chance. i get sad everytime i see his blog entries, talkin bout our past and him bein hurt...but i wasn't feelin the same way anymore. so as not to hurt him more, i stayed away from him for a while. i stopped communicatin wit him until he fessed up he has found someone new to love. Quote Link to comment
beelee Posted June 18, 2006 Share Posted June 18, 2006 sometimes being honest can hurt people who is important to you "Truth does not always hold happiness, and happiness does not always hold truth." Quote Link to comment
mustang_ride Posted June 18, 2006 Share Posted June 18, 2006 yes... with my ex-bf.. i fell out of love... i cheated on him because of that then when we broke up i told him the truth about my other guy..<{POST_SNAPBACK}> tsk tsk tsk...for some reason, the exact same thing happened to me...seryoso, no bullshit! now that's gotta hurt, big time, kahit alam mo na 'di mo na mahal 'yung tao, masakit pa rin na malaman mo na she cheated on you. even the ladies would probably get hurt when their exes tell them that they cheated on them just to break up with them Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted June 18, 2006 Share Posted June 18, 2006 I've hurt a girl once. A very sweet young woman. I have a girlfriend who i feel like she's not the one for me until i met this young lady. We did so many crazy and fun things together until the time that she's pressuring me to break up with my girlfriend and give her the title that she deserves. I almost give up my Gf when i asked my Gf to meet me in Glorietta. While am waiting am really trying to state thing that i will thell her to part ways but when i saw her coming i feel something that knocks my head and telling"Pagpinakawalan mo yang babaing yan,Pagsisisihan mo habang buhay"! Di natuloy yung break instead i realized that my girlfriend is worth loving and caring. I broe up with this young girl by telling her the truth...I cant leave my gil for you...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> y0u did the right thing pare!!! salud0 ak0 say0. i had this friend who's always texting and calling me from my cel,he's from batangas,so far from manila where i stayed for many years.we've occationally had some 'friendly dates' ika nga,which i'm telling him.i never expected that between those months he'll be lovin me much further...he spend too much just to talked to me...he told me he love me and want to marry me...but i keep on tellin him that my love for him is just like a brother-sister relationship.he's been expecting that sooner or later i would develop the feelings he wanted...he's mistakes,he told all of his friends,relatives from u.s. about us and he's so proud.one day,i tell him the truth,i keep on tellin him that im already taken...he cant understand and accept it...he keep on crying and calling me...but i can never love him more.i never lied to him and i found not guilty for anything...but what i cant forget is that i've hurt him. :cry:<{POST_SNAPBACK}>been in an alm0st same situati0n but ak0 yung guy... kn0w wat??? napakasakit nun!!! during th0se times I cant help but cry... til n0w hindi na kami friends nung girl may iba l0ve na siya i've tried t0 be friends but maybe she just d0esnt have time f0r me..... para d 0t... yeah I did sa lahat ng gf k0 but n0t intenti0nal and et0 iniwanan ak0... :cry: :cry: :cry: namiss k0 tul0y ang babes k0...... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: Quote Link to comment
sulatanmoko Posted June 18, 2006 Share Posted June 18, 2006 during the times na nag cool off kami ng bf ko, i told everyone na wala na kami, so i'd be looking "single" again. i dated lots of guys during those times. had an MU, done crazy things, etc. later, i was told, he got hurt when he knew i was telling everyone that we already broke up. sa kanya pala, cool off lang kami. another hurtful thing I did was i never told him i entertained suitors and done some crazy stuff nung magkahiwalay kami... Quote Link to comment
st.anger Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I have hurt someone by being way too honest .... She asked me about my past .... i made the mistake of telling her ... Now I can't pull it back .... It's so confusing .... I want to be honest with her, but then i ended up hurting her more .... what is the right thing to do in a situation like this?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> we're in the same boat. by being too honest i hurt someone dear to me. all i can do is wait for her to "forgive" me. :cry: Quote Link to comment
nansky Posted June 19, 2006 Share Posted June 19, 2006 I'm scared that I might end up hurting the person I have spent almost half of my life with. Quote Link to comment
S\\m//T Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Yes. I've hurt her when she found out that I have a new GF already... I could've settled it much earlier then we would still be in good terms up to now but it didn't turn that way... So sad... :cry: I felt guilty... :cry: :cry: :cry: Quote Link to comment
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