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Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?


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Back when I was about 15 y/o there's this Pinoy guy that courted me but

 

he was 25 y/o na. My parents let him court me inspite of the age difference since

 

he was really nice but he couldn't go any further than make ligaw.

 

Although maybe in his eyes, we were a couple.

 

We got stationed somewhere else and he would

 

still communicate with me. Then after 3 or 4 years, he went to visit me. At this time

 

me masugid na manliligaw din sa akin noon na ka MU ko na. I had to explain to the

 

guy naka-MU ko that he has to lay low for awhile until this other guy leaves (sa bahay pa

 

namin kasi siya nag-stay..I slept beside my parents the whole time).

 

At the end of his vacation and his last night, he asked my parents for my hand in

 

marriage ...ngeeee...you'd think he would discuss this with me first.

 

Talk about putting me on the spot and surprising me! Needless to say, we had to

 

have one emotional serious talk...yun even sa airport he was so emotionally distraught.

 

Tingin nang tingin ang mga tao sa amin... even our barkada we're uncomfortable with his

 

emotional outburst sa airport.

 

Muntik na akong pumayag kahit hindi ko siya mahal. For years, pinagsisihan ko na nasaktan ko

 

siya thinking na karma yun and I would have my heart broken like that too. But it's taught me

 

that you can't really teach your heart to love someone kahit gusto mo. And when that time came

 

na someone broke up with me, naintindihan ko and made the break up more amicable.

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during my first relationship, my ex had already set her mind that we would end up together as a married couple. i wasn't ready back then since we were still young. until there came a time that we had an argument and things became serious. she decided that we go our separate ways. i agreed. i knew she still was expecting me to apologize and get back to her but i didn't. months passed by, and everytime she called she would cry her heart out for us to be back together and settle things once and for all. but i didn't want to see her anymore. i guess deep down i didn't have strong feelings for her after all. i just knew later that she carried that burden for around a year.

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I ALREADY HURT SOMEONE MY EX GF FOR ALMOST 5 YEARS....I CHEATED ON HER....I DECIDED TO CUT THE TIE BETWEEN US....BECAUSE THE REASON WHY IM CHEATED IS THAT THE LOVE I HAVE FOR HER IS GONE....I KNOW IVE HURT HER TOO MUCH TO THE EXTENT THAT SHE WANT TO STOP LIVIN....BUT FOR ME IT IS MORE DEVASTATING IF I GO ON PRETENDING THAT I STILL LOVE HER... :mtc:

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i had this friend who's always texting and calling me from my cel,he's from batangas,so far from manila where i stayed for many years.we've occationally had some 'friendly dates' ika nga,which i'm telling him.i never expected that between those months he'll be lovin me much further...he spend too much just to talked to me...he told me he love me and want to marry me...but i keep on tellin him that my love for him is just like a brother-sister relationship.he's been expecting that sooner or later i would develop the feelings he wanted...he's mistakes,he told all of his friends,relatives from u.s. about us and he's so proud.one day,i tell him the truth,i keep on tellin him that im already taken...he cant understand and accept it...he keep on crying and calling me...but i can never love him more.i never lied to him and i found not guilty for anything...but what i cant forget is that i've hurt him. :cry:

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yes, i believe I've hurt a few people especially those who have loved me truthfully.

 

one was the "man who got a way" in my life. i shoooed him away before. i know i have hurt him then and he has not moved on till now. i'm just glad he still tries to communicate with me at the minute instances he can.

 

another was my 2 past boyfriends, i knew i hurt them and their great intentions to me when i broke up with them. 'till now, i feel bad i devastated their lives. they would have gone a long way only if i was more considerate. more understanding. but that was just me. i've had enough. :(

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meron na akong nasaktan. you see, i almost cheated. i said ALMOST because naisip ko na mali ang ginagawa ko. alam ng ex ko na may crush ako and i was talking about her whenever me and my ex would talk over the phone. sakit noh? who am i kidding? napakainsensitive ko and i really paid dearly for it. iyak ako ng iyak when i was making a gazillion of apologies. in the end naging okay din kami sa isa't isa and because of what happened, i spent more time with her

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before i met my husband, may bf ako for almost 5months then i join in a beauty contest sa skul dun ko nkilala ung husband ko. nkipagbreak ako sa bf ko bcoz of my husband so ngdadate kmi 4 almost 1 months then one day my ex-bf confronted me and with matching shout shout pa sa stairway kung ung husband ko ba daw ung pinalit ko sa knya so wla na kong ngawa... cnbi ko na ung totoo na ung husband ko nga ung pinalit ko sa knya.... after nun ngwalk out cia at tawa kmi ng tawa ng husband ko...

 

sabi nga ng mga barkada ko underdog at obsessed na daw skin ung ex ko... biruin mo bang mghintay sa labas ng bahay nmin habang umuulan ng mlakas mkausap lng ako....

 

pero ngaun naawa ako sa knya kc ngmukha ciang tanga in many people kc buong block nila eh ngalit skin dahil sa panlolokon gnwa ko sa knya pero we are both happy na ngaun sa mga buhay nmin pero hindi kmi friends hindi din kmi mgkaaway....

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