Batabatuta™ Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Stupid question but do remember that the wisest of men ask the stupid questions bwahahahha :boo: Be Honest, Have you hurt someone? Why? How? Quote Link to comment
alphatetano Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 I have hurt someone by being way too honest .... She asked me about my past .... i made the mistake of telling her ... Now I can't pull it back .... It's so confusing .... I want to be honest with her, but then i ended up hurting her more .... what is the right thing to do in a situation like this? Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 Stupid question but do remember that the wisest of men ask the stupid questions bwahahahha :boo: Be Honest, Have you hurt someone? Why? How?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i guess yes ... especially when i said goodbye to my first boyfriend because i am in love with somebody else... karma played and the second relationship was not successful. I have hurt someone by being way too honest .... She asked me about my past .... i made the mistake of telling her ... Now I can't pull it back .... It's so confusing .... I want to be honest with her, but then i ended up hurting her more .... what is the right thing to do in a situation like this?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> bottomline is you were honest to tell what happened....she should accept what happened especially if it happened in the past when you were still not with her. if she can't accept it....well..painful but you have to move on. Quote Link to comment
simpatiko Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 I've hurt a girl once. A very sweet young woman. I have a girlfriend who i feel like she's not the one for me until i met this young lady. We did so many crazy and fun things together until the time that she's pressuring me to break up with my girlfriend and give her the title that she deserves. I almost give up my Gf when i asked my Gf to meet me in Glorietta. While am waiting am really trying to state thing that i will thell her to part ways but when i saw her coming i feel something that knocks my head and telling"Pagpinakawalan mo yang babaing yan,Pagsisisihan mo habang buhay"! Di natuloy yung break instead i realized that my girlfriend is worth loving and caring. I broe up with this young girl by telling her the truth...I cant leave my gil for you... Quote Link to comment
cleveR_daphne Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 yes.... This poem is merely one of many attempts to convey and express the longing for the one man who has touched the anatomy of my soul. A man I call ----; yet, with a soul that reaches far beyond my own. Only through the grace of God, will we ever meet... Thoughts of you illuminate my spirit; Never a flicker of flame, but with Arching bolts which strike with a force That disturbs my equilibrium. My mind races as waves of passion flush over My pale skin, causing me to gaze upon visions Of impossible romantic possibilities. Pathetic is this woman who anticipates the True rhythm of love, with a man she will never hold. My imagined discourse of thoughts leave me suffering, As my lips quiver with the words I shall never speak to his: "I have loved you more than anybody in this world." Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 I believe the saying goes something like ... "we always hurt the ones we love." Or words to that effect. Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_tinA Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 (edited) yes he cried eh but as heavygatin said " karma " talga... the next one isn't successful & so on... It took me 3 yrs to get a serious relationship again.. Edited January 28, 2006 by simply_tinA Quote Link to comment
TidusJanus Posted January 29, 2006 Share Posted January 29, 2006 ahahaha...no,not yet. or maybe not ever. I really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I believe in karma...or bad-karma which comes with you doin something really wrong. I just don't understand though why I'm the one he keeps ending up getting hurt. dang. Quote Link to comment
gerber4adults Posted January 29, 2006 Share Posted January 29, 2006 i'm sure i've hurt my friend even a bit when I turned her down when she tried to tell me indirectly that she liked me and she's starting to care for me deeply more than as a friend... i don't actually turn her down like a slap on the face and give her false hope but instead, i act like her bestfriend and make her realized that we're only up to that level and nothing more. 'coz i know the feeling of turning somebody down, I've been on that kind of shoes many times and also I don't wanna experience the guilt feeling that may arise from this kind of situation. Quote Link to comment
Batabatuta™ Posted January 29, 2006 Author Share Posted January 29, 2006 ako eto i didnt really hurt her in the direct sense pero i knew i hurt her..... Nung 2nd year college ako, may tropa akong babae na naging kaloveteam yung isa ko ring tropa.....so it was a rainy september evening nung nagusap sila at binasted nung guy si girl.....so eto ako to the rescue.....so blah blah blah out of nowhere....I blurted the words mahal kita sa girl....itong girl medyo nabigla....sabi sa kin "ha?" sabi ko "Mahal kita!" tapos the torpe in me came out sabi ko "nde kalimutan mo na lang yung sinabi ko" sabay walkout..... from then on we never discussed it as if it never occured.......naging magbestfriends kami and kahit ngayon we still keep in touch.....everytime nagpaparamdam sya....ako ang umiiwas sa isyu...it came to a point pa nga na yung mga parents pa nya ang pumapadrino na para sa kin....... Would you believe na mula nung 2nd year college up to this day, nde pa sya nagkakasyota as in nada talaga.....ako din nakarma, i never had a successful relationship......i still think about her every now and then, i know by this time nasaktan ko sya kahit di nya sinasabi sakin kasi i know na naghintay sya sa kin.....i feel guilty talaga pero i just dont have feelings for her anymore....gusto ko friends na lang kami.....or kung pwede business partners hehehehe Quote Link to comment
Sin™ Posted January 29, 2006 Share Posted January 29, 2006 "we always hurt the ones we love." ..and we love ourselves most. The only reason one could get hurt is becauseone cares. And when you hurt someone who caresfor you, you hurt yourself because you forfeit all thegood that that caring could provide. Yes I did hurt some people. Nag-disappearing act ako,kaya 'yun disappear rin lahat ng perks. -Sin™ Quote Link to comment
zipzamzowee Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Yeah - myself, all the time. Quote Link to comment
Phrozhen.Khold Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Yes... coz I had to let her go... good thing about it is we still remained friends Quote Link to comment
gr82d8 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Best friend ko na girl nung college. I had a girlfriend at that time and I started having feelings for my bestfriend and I din't want to cheat so I just stopped talking to her. After 10 years nakita ko sa friendster and I added her to YM got to chat with her at masama pa rin ang loob sakin for dropping her without explaining kahit na nag apologize ako at sinabi ko yung totoong reason. Sent her a dozen roses at hanggang ngayon wala pa rin reply sakin. :cry: Sad part about it is all these years naiisip isip ko pa rin what might have been. Quote Link to comment
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