How Would U Know If He/she Is Cheating?

[babymaker]

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As for men?

 

Monogamy is fiction and should never be implemented on men.

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[Kritpa]

Hindi ito kumpleto pero ito mga good indicators na nawawalan/wala nang interes sayo/nangangaliwa ang syota o misis mo:

 

1. Witholding ng intimacy- ang babae gusto magpahiwatig ng nararamdaman para lumalim bond niyo. Kasama ang totnak at sharing ng mga ganap o buhay dito. Kung walang intimacy sa inyo, baka sa iba binibigay o naghahanap ng bibigyan.

 

2. Sarado ang katawan sayo- di ka kinikibo o di humaharap o tumitingin ng deretso sa iyo. Ang babaeng may pagmamahal o respeto sayo titignan ka at di isasara ang sarili sa mga piling mo.

 

3. Nagsisimula ng away sa maliit na mga bagay- ay nako. Mabigat to. Tinatapatan na niya ang pagiging lalaki mo, hindi ka pwedeng matalo dito. Kung matalo ka dito, patuloy-tuloy ito hanggang lubusang mawalan ng respeto sayo. Hindi mo mamahalin o magpapatotnak sa lalaking wala kang respeto kung babae ka. (Syempre maliban nalang kung trabaho mo yun.) hahaahah.

 

4. Nakapaste sa telepono at ngumingiti- madalas pero hindi palagi, ibig sabihin nito naghahanap na siya nang kapalit mo. O nawalan na ng respeto at pagmamahal sayo.

 

5. Palaging may girls night out o lakad kumare- see number 4. Plus, kung bumibili to ng bagong damit o underwear (sana hindi mo pera) may posibilidad na nagpapaganda to para sa iba.

 

6. Wala ako sa mood may lagnat ako pagod ako- katarantaduhan. Walang babae ang tatanggi sa totnak, magkasinlibog lang tayong lahat. Kung ayaw magpahawak sayo baka posibleng galit sayo, may iba, o tinetesting ka, pero syempre posible rin na baka wala nga talaga sa mood, pagod, o may sakit.

 

7. Nagbabanggit na ng ibang lalaki- alam ng babae to, kung may gusto sila sayo di nila iririsk na mambanggit ng ibang lalaki, o baka nilalaro ka. Either way, di yan maganda para sayo.

 

8. Hindi na siya gumagawa ng mga bagay na ikinakasaya mo- pakialam niya sayo?

 

9. Hindi na siya nagpapaganda para sayo- posibleng naging kaibigan ka nalang sa tingin niya, o kaya nagpapganda para sa ibang mga lalaki kung saan kayo pumupunta.

 

10. Di na malambing sayo- di na naghahanap ng dahilan na manatili ka sa kanya.

 

Madaming factors pero ito mga madalas ko mapansin/makita. Ingatan lang ang puso mga pards.

 

Para sa lalaki, mahirap gawan kasi kadalasan nag-iisip ang lalaki. Kung lantaran na nangangaliwa ang lalaki, baka tanga yun o walang respeto.

 

Kaya wag papasok basta basta sa mga relasyon. Mangyayari ang mga mangyayri kung mabgyayari.

 

Kung ang isang tao gusto mangaliwa, kahit wala yung mga nabanggit ko, kusang mangangaliwa sila. Lalaki man o babae. O sige Sogie na; maging lalaki, babae, bakla, tomboy, tranny.

 

At kung mangaliwa, wala kang magagawa

[Daddyfinger]

Cold, mainitin ang ulo... yung tipong pati trapik sa edsa isisisi sayo.

[9zkals]

Nakikipag chat pa with a guy hanggang madaling araw

 

nag sesend ng photos nya to a guy

[t0ya]

Ayaw magpaheram ng phone. Privacy daw. Yan yun

[rimururu]

there will be signs and you'll feel something's not right

[Führer]

1.Cautious sa cellphone, ayaw pasilip/ipahawak.

2.A little less time with you.

3.You no longer know what she's doing or where is she, who is she with.

4.Privacy matters to her in so may different ways.

[Supa.Chill'n]

How would u know if he/she is cheating?

I think it depends on the person cheating, who they're chetatin with, and how they're doing it. Also, what do you consider cheating. Some people think looking is cheating, others worry more about emotional cheating (like, "are you considering leaving me because of that person"), while others (a rare breed) are perfectly fine with giving up the physical for the emotional (f#&k as much as you want, but love only me)

 

I've heard of people that cheat a lot and never get caught. People that keep getting caught. People with elaborate schemes and "diskarte". People that keep insisting that the other is cheating despite no evidence.

 

Basically, don't judge too hard, don't be blind, and ask yourself if your insecurities make the relationship not worth it.

 

Sometimes they're not cheating, but just falling out if love. They're about to leave you, but haven't messed around with anyone, yet. (I've heard that's rare, but then again, people only talk and gossip about the juicy cheating stories)

 

Otherwise the only way to "know" is to see it. Remember that your partner is an individual and that they might show all of the signs of cheating and never cheat.

 

Also, if a person is caught cheating, usually you should break up with them. Forgiving cheaters makes them more confident that you won't leave.

[davidbakeham]

If she cant look you straight in the eye.

[Memphis Raines]

Pag nanlalamig na xa at Wala nang pakialam sau.

[#Lovey]

Pag nanlalamig na xa at Wala nang pakialam sau.

Yes

[Cathlebas]

Nararamdaman talaga. deviation from routine starts to appear..

[DeeZee]

Minsan kailangan i-double check din kung tama nga hinala.

 

Di ba pwedeng dahil naging busy lang o may pagbabago sa work or job assignment at kasalanan naman pala ni boss lang at di naman cheating?

 

Mag-"connect the dots" dapat than rely on single evidences. Communicate well with your partner and (lovingly) bring up straight and openly to him/her your suspicion. If indeed he/she is truly cheating yet denies it, there will always be something inconsistent that will come out. And if you remain faithful, chances are he/she himself/herself will be compelled or revealed by his/her own guilt or the the consequences of cheating.

[PlainJane]

Nanlalamig, busy sa cellphone kaka viviber, aligaga, hindi mapakali alis ng alis sa bahay

[sirdalandan]

When text messages and conversations gets shorter.