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How Would U Know If He/she Is Cheating?


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  • 2 weeks later...

you will never know...

 

same with women... people have different styles... some are obvious some are not...

 

you can have access to his/her cellphone but who knows he/she might have other secret cellphones...

 

some people are secretive... some are open to everything...

 

you will never know until you found out...

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you will never know...

 

same with women... people have different styles... some are obvious some are not...

 

you can have access to his/her cellphone but who knows he/she might have other secret cellphones...

 

some people are secretive... some are open to everything...

 

you will never know until you found out...

 

I somehow subscribe to these idea with reservation to the word "never." I have posted something similar earlier. Usually, when you get a suspicion, the cheating has already been happening for quite sometime.

 

However, I believe there are times when the victim never knows. There are instances when a person dies, and all of a sudden, 2 or 3 spouses appear claiming for legal rights (take note: legal rights! That means, they were even married) for the deceased.

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You can never know until you cast the net real wide. Anyone can fake anything and still be broken inside. Until it just crashes.

 

Many patterns change, like more times spent outside, or even new people being invited right in your house. It also helps to have many eyes looking around (parents, friends, the househelp) to validate assumptions, and that you're more technologically-adept.

 

The partner's history too can also help - if they've done it before you came around, they can do it again.

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If the ordinary & routine activities goes ABNORMAL for at least 1 week (or more). This is a sign of something going in the background. But to be fair with the person, you must give the benefit of the doubt and talk it over in a nice way. Like cooking the person his favorite food or having a steamy sex. ^_^ ^_^ ^_^

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1. They Take Longer and Longer to Call or Text You Back:

Taking their privacy away is something you shouldn’t do, but if they take advantage of your trust on them then they are either a terrible person or they think you are stupid enough to trust them blindly. If they take too long to text you back or return a call, then there are chances of them cheating on you. It does not take too much time to reply to a text and even if they are actually busy, it won’t be once or twice. Repetition of late response is a sign for you. Adding a screen lock to their phone is another sign. If you have never tried to unlock their phone to read their conversations and check their call logs, why is it that they suddenly felt the need to lock their phone? They clearly want to hide something from you, and that ‘something’ can be a ‘someone’ they are fooling around with behind your back.

 

2. They Take a Shower As Soon As They Get Home:

Their sudden habit of getting into the shower as soon as they return from work or somewhere else may be because of the new person they are spending time with. This sign may not be very common but if you notice them becoming a shower-freak, then there are chances they want to get rid of the smell of the person they slept with or anything else that will get them caught, like a kiss-mark. If not going into the shower, it can be running into the bathroom as soon as they get home, for many reasons. If you want to make sure that this habit of theirs is not because they are sleeping with someone else, but just because they prefer to shower first, then try to test them by either hugging or kissing. See if they hesitate or resist and tell you that they will be out from the shower in minutes and then catch you.

 

3. They Get You Presents Without Any Occasion:

This one can be a little tricky. It can be difficult for you to tell if they are getting you presents out of love or if they want to cover their guilt. Even if they are being dishonest and sleeping with someone else, they might feel the guilt at times and try to cover it up with some extra gifts out of occasion. It is one of the possibilities; do not always be doubtful. It is your task now to decide whether they are being generous out of love or if their behaviour has changed in the last couple of weeks. If there is something you caught them with and now they want to make you believe that it was all a misunderstanding, they actually may be trying to cover it up by those gifts.

 

4. They Pay More Attention to Self-Grooming:

If your partner is usually not too interested in looking good, but they suddenly starting paying too much attention to their looks, maybe they are either trying to impress someone (which maybe you or) other than you or have already impressed someone. Self-grooming is a normal thing to do for anybody, but if they never had a problem going out with a gray shirt and blue jeans but perfectly dress up now before going out, there is some place for planting your doubt. If not dresses then it can be anything new they start doing that they never did before, like using a deodorant or caring too much about their hair. These are all signs for you to only be suspicious and make sure that whether they are doing it for themselves or for someone else. Facial changes or grooming below the belt can be big signs that they are sleeping with someone that is not you, because you are used to the way they are and do not demand a change.

 

5. They Bring New Moves to Bed

If they adopt a new position or kiss you in a different way, be alert. New moves can be a sign of new se-x partner in their life, although it is not necessary. They may have learned it from a friend or read about it on the internet and brought it to bed to impress you and have a good time with you. But, on the other hand, it can also mean something else too. They may be sleeping with someone else where they used those new techniques and now confusedly brought it to you. You can ask them where they learned it from in a way that does not imply that you doubt them. If you see them hesitating while answering it then maybe they did learn it by experimenting on another person.

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