ligtasan Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 My ex said she was a virgin so we waited for 6 months before we went all the way. Before that, all I ever did was oral on her. As long as she came I was happy. It is NEVER a good thing to force a girl. You have to wait until she feels she's ready to make that one big step. Once she does, you have to take it really slow (do not ram yourself inside). It's all about making her feel comfortable. If you see that she's still scared about you going in; you have to calmly reassure her that you will be as gentle as possible. If she has second thoughts, respect her wishes. If she's willing to continue, foreplay is very important. Don't go in all the way, and before you actually do enter try distracting her by nibbling her ear (or something else) at the moment of entry. Remember that this is her FIRST time. This will be a flood of new sensations and emotions for her. You have to be able to talk to her afterwards (pillowtalk); hold her in your arms and lay all her fears and concerns to rest. Don't just turn over and start snoring. NEVER forget that she's giving you something that's precious to her and she feels you are the person most worthy of receiving her gift. No "wham bam thank you ma'am here". It's going to get very emotional so be prepared for that. Quote Link to comment
pat123 Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 i forced her but not sex but foreplay and all that guess how we are now...pinagsisihan daw niya la na kami im trying to get her back even without sexy time! Quote Link to comment
rgx621d Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 my gf is still a virgin. i dont force her, but i play a little bit on the side. mahirap pigilin ang tawag ng laman eh. hehe. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 dont force her. let her look for the urge hehehe Quote Link to comment
jojobata Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 after a lot of thinking and I still decided to stick by her....then I would wait for as long as it took for her to fully give herself to me Quote Link to comment
eyeinthesky Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 Doesn't really matter although it might take a while longer to build on the relationship. Quote Link to comment
wOwShakes Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 bakit, SANTO hanap nyo sa babae? :hypocritesmiley: :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
lankaface Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 Parang brand new na kotse, at low mileage pa. Quote Link to comment
kingjackass Posted May 29, 2008 Share Posted May 29, 2008 RESPECT :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Quote Link to comment
roughashlar Posted June 7, 2008 Share Posted June 7, 2008 for as long as it takes... Quote Link to comment
chimobato Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 dahan dahan lang...wag biglaan. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
gilghost Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 oh I can wait... besides there are others things we can so aside from actual penetraton diba.... :evil: Quote Link to comment
jason_ang Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 If you really love her, wait. Wait for her to be the one who wants it. Quote Link to comment
danimott Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 by not forcing your partner into giving up her virginity to you shows that you respect her and that you love her truly Quote Link to comment
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