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This Hell of a situation happened to me way back August last year..

 

Its has been 4 years that we were together and i thought she's already the girl that i will be spending my time till end. She lives in the province, somewhere in north and im here in manila working ( though i always find a way to be with her every week).

 

Things change during the 1st quarter of the month last year. For some reasons we felt that the relationship was a bit cold, we argue most of the time ( pero ganun talaga siya..selosa kasi ). She was always complaining na wala na daw akong time sa kanya. For four years na umuuwi ako ng province every week para sa kanya noon niya lang nabanggit sa akin un, however we still try to work everything out..Masaya ako sa kanya. Then duamting birthday nya which was June and i was not able to attend on the exact day..I told her na babawi na lang ako once na umuwi ako ulit ng province.

 

Then days pass through and i felt something different to her..that was august. Feeling ko parang nilalayo niya sarili niya sa akin.

 

Its friday night and nasa bus ako pauwi ng province again..I ask her bakit lately hindi siya nagtetext or nagrerespond sa mga messages ko?? She just told me " I have a problem and you cannot help me " which really bothers me a lot from the time i red the message.

 

I really love her and everytime na may problema siya or nasasaktan siya ay nahihirapan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya na sabihin niya sa akin kung ano ba ang nangyari or ano yung problem niya?...ilang oras ko siya kinukulit and finally here it comes..I opened my inbox and the message said " Im 2 months pregnant and hindi ikaw ang ama"

 

F*CK, PI at lahat ng mura na pwede ko sabihin gusto ko sabihin from the moment i got that message. I cant fully express myself nung mga oras na iyon kasi nasa bus ako..Deep inside umiiyak talaga ako and kahit anong gawing kong tago sa nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko kinaya at lumuha ako sa sobrang sakit.

 

I texted her back and asked her " Bakit mo nagawa sa akin ito?"..then she replied back saying "sorry pls layuan mo na ako at malaki ang prblema ko ngayon and ayaw ko na makadagdag ka pa or madamay ka" I tried calling her pero hindi niya sinasagot phone ko..

 

I immediately text my friend para may masabihan ako ng problema dahil mahirap itago sa sarili ung nararamdaman ko..

 

I can sense na nahihirapan ang girlfriend ko and she is deep saddened too..Hindi ko alam kung ano ang irereply ko sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko..nag isip ako ng mabuti...

 

Hindi ko magawang magalit sa kanya kahit na gusto ko. I love her so much that i cannot hurt her even though may nagawa siyang mali sa akin..Sabi ko sa sarili ko nandito na ito eh..kung magalit man ako wala din ako magagawa at lalo lang siya mahihirapan. She was crying on the time na pinagtapat nya sa akin yun..

 

So I ask her kung sino yung guy pero ayaw niya sabihin at baka lalo lang gumulo...Sad thing is ayaw siya panagutan ng guy..Call me stupid bro's pero hindi ko na inisip sarili ko noon at hindi ko inisip galit ko and i was even the once who comforted her na kaya niyang lampasan yan. ( pero as i said sobrang sakit tlaga at tinatago ko lang )

 

We ended the relationship on the same day and we are good as friends right now.. Nagtetext kami once in a while at nagkakamustahan( mahal ko pa rin siya until now and ganun din siya ) . Pero we know within ourselves na hindi na pwede.

:goatee:

 

Bro, I give you much respect, wish i was a better man like you.

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This Hell of a situation happened to me way back August last year..

 

Its has been 4 years that we were together and i thought she's already the girl that i will be spending my time till end. She lives in the province, somewhere in north and im here in manila working ( though i always find a way to be with her every week).

 

Things change during the 1st quarter of the month last year. For some reasons we felt that the relationship was a bit cold, we argue most of the time ( pero ganun talaga siya..selosa kasi ). She was always complaining na wala na daw akong time sa kanya. For four years na umuuwi ako ng province every week para sa kanya noon niya lang nabanggit sa akin un, however we still try to work everything out..Masaya ako sa kanya. Then duamting birthday nya which was June and i was not able to attend on the exact day..I told her na babawi na lang ako once na umuwi ako ulit ng province.

 

Then days pass through and i felt something different to her..that was august. Feeling ko parang nilalayo niya sarili niya sa akin.

 

Its friday night and nasa bus ako pauwi ng province again..I ask her bakit lately hindi siya nagtetext or nagrerespond sa mga messages ko?? She just told me " I have a problem and you cannot help me " which really bothers me a lot from the time i red the message.

 

I really love her and everytime na may problema siya or nasasaktan siya ay nahihirapan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya na sabihin niya sa akin kung ano ba ang nangyari or ano yung problem niya?...ilang oras ko siya kinukulit and finally here it comes..I opened my inbox and the message said " Im 2 months pregnant and hindi ikaw ang ama"

 

F*CK, PI at lahat ng mura na pwede ko sabihin gusto ko sabihin from the moment i got that message. I cant fully express myself nung mga oras na iyon kasi nasa bus ako..Deep inside umiiyak talaga ako and kahit anong gawing kong tago sa nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko kinaya at lumuha ako sa sobrang sakit.

 

I texted her back and asked her " Bakit mo nagawa sa akin ito?"..then she replied back saying "sorry pls layuan mo na ako at malaki ang prblema ko ngayon and ayaw ko na makadagdag ka pa or madamay ka" I tried calling her pero hindi niya sinasagot phone ko..

 

I immediately text my friend para may masabihan ako ng problema dahil mahirap itago sa sarili ung nararamdaman ko..

 

I can sense na nahihirapan ang girlfriend ko and she is deep saddened too..Hindi ko alam kung ano ang irereply ko sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko..nag isip ako ng mabuti...

 

Hindi ko magawang magalit sa kanya kahit na gusto ko. I love her so much that i cannot hurt her even though may nagawa siyang mali sa akin..Sabi ko sa sarili ko nandito na ito eh..kung magalit man ako wala din ako magagawa at lalo lang siya mahihirapan. She was crying on the time na pinagtapat nya sa akin yun..

 

So I ask her kung sino yung guy pero ayaw niya sabihin at baka lalo lang gumulo...Sad thing is ayaw siya panagutan ng guy..Call me stupid bro's pero hindi ko na inisip sarili ko noon at hindi ko inisip galit ko and i was even the once who comforted her na kaya niyang lampasan yan. ( pero as i said sobrang sakit tlaga at tinatago ko lang )

 

We ended the relationship on the same day and we are good as friends right now.. Nagtetext kami once in a while at nagkakamustahan( mahal ko pa rin siya until now and ganun din siya ) . Pero we know within ourselves na hindi na pwede.

:goatee:

 

 

much respect to you dude..i felt your pain.

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Actually its hurt. It happen to me na.

 

I love her so much. Sya na nga ang balak ko pakasalan. I devoted my time sa work para naman maka ipon ng husto to give her a desent life. I want kasi na pag kasal namin ay meron na kaming bahay and car. I have achive that all. I want to surprise her sana on our wedding.

 

But ako pala ang na-surprise... one day I went to her house try to talk to her but she does not even dare to see me, instead her mom talk to me and told me " SORRY, HA MY DAUGTHER IS PREGNANT NA TO ANOTHER GUY". One day visit ako, I see her na malaki na tiyan nya.

 

Grabeng sakit. But I still love her. If ever she change her mine, nandito pa rin ako.Mamahalin ko pa rin siya Maging sino o ano pa man siya ngayon...PINKY M. dito lang ako ha.

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