Would You Indulge In A Secret Love Affair?

[wfman]

so true..

 

not absolutely true i guess. u both know it's a secret love affair ryt? therefore u should always be ready with the consequences. sabi nga it takes two to tango. if one is lying about something to the other party, well, it's a different story. pero kung alam nyo pareho how u would play the game, then i guess everything ends well. even if it sounds funny at parang pinaglumaan na ng panahon, it's always been true i guess that "it's better to love and lost than never loved at all". i hope tama yung nahalukay ko sa baul ng ginintuang aral ng lolo ko. most of the times, it hurts. but as the saying goes, this too shall pass di ba? and most of the times, it all depends on how the guy takes care of the girl's heart. we all know it would break somewhere along the way, but how the guy breaks the girl's heart is something that every guy out there MUST always know. it's a sweet science.

trust me ma'am it's kinda bumpy ride, but to tell u honestly, u'd realized that it's also a worthy heartbreak afterall.

 

have a nice day ma'am.

[Seishi]

Secret Love Affair? Maybe YES.

 

as what my special someone said ... "secret lovers for life" Now that's more interesting!

[robsalvador]

Secret Love Affair? Maybe YES.

 

as what my special someone said ... "secret lovers for life" Now that's more interesting!

 

Level up ka na? :lol:

 

On topic: To "indulge" is to pamper, treat or spoil..

 

Secret Love affairs are then more colorful, meaningful and cherished because of this..

 

But also very fragile, sensitive and delicate..

 

Yes, I will indulge..

 

Now.. Where can if find this "secret thingy watchamacallits" :lol:

[Eastpak]

I wouldn't want to pero ayoko magsalita ng tapos....lahat naman ng affair ay nagmumula sa pagkukulang ng partner eh.

[vin822]

yes, any intersted?

[Eastpak]

Secret Love Affair? Maybe YES.

 

as what my special someone said ... "secret lovers for life" Now that's more interesting!

 

 

"secret lovers for life" - AStig! love it

[graphik]

daring... just have to be bolder as time goes by

 

double or nothing, just make sure that you can handle the truth

[salbakuta]

Probability is high.

[boxer18]

love involves too much commitment, doing it for one is hard enough... so probably not...

[jgc813]

Case in point -- you both are in love with each other, so it seems. Nothing is wrong, everything is smooth sailing. Even the sex is great.

 

Then, one day, you get the shock of your life. You hear from your significant other -- or worse, you hear it from someone else -- I love you or him/her, but I'm not happy anymore.

 

Is this possible? Can you really claim you love someone, and not be happy with him/her anymore?

 

If you're the person who claims you love, and you're not happy, what would you do? Would you try to save the situation? How would you do it? Would you tell your 'loved one?'

 

If you're the person who is loved, but your significant other is not happy with you anymore, what would you do? How would you try to win him/her back by bringing back her to be happy with you?

[complicated8]

Hmmm..... Story of Us?

[jgc813]

For me, this is really hard to fathom. I cannot see how this is possible, i.e., you love someone, then, you are no longer happy with the person.

 

I believe true love brings about true happiness. So, when such a thing happens: "I love him/her, but in my heart, I'm no longer happy," I would, maybe even the love has waned, if not, has gone already.

 

It may be possible that the "not happy anymore" line is simply an excuse. Maybe, the person is simply NOT CANDID enough to say, "I don't love you anymore."

[baboyx]

Case in point -- you both are in love with each other, so it seems. Nothing is wrong, everything is smooth sailing. Even the sex is great.

 

Then, one day, you get the shock of your life. You hear from your significant other -- or worse, you hear it from someone else -- I love you or him/her, but I'm not happy anymore.

 

Is this possible? Can you really claim you love someone, and not be happy with him/her anymore?

 

If you're the person who claims you love, and you're not happy, what would you do? Would you try to save the situation? How would you do it? Would you tell your 'loved one?'

 

If you're the person who is loved, but your significant other is not happy with you anymore, what would you do? How would you try to win him/her back by bringing back her to be happy with you?

 

 

If she is not happy, then for me there is no more love anymore.

 

Talk about it first. Why your significant other is not happy anymore.

 

Would you rather exert more than you can give so that you can save the relationship?

 

If so, then you will be the one suffering.

 

I've been through that and been burned to cinders.

 

Well, that's my opinion though.

[Gaston Le Foix]

Hope someone can help me with this one...

 

I just got into a relationship, it's been 3 weeks, and it's gonna be our 1st monthsary next month, but the thing is, parang nag-sawa na kagad ko... I love her pero parang hanggang dun nalang, well siguro I'm looking for something more thatn what we have. To be honest ang boring kasi ng set-up namin, Typical date after work, watch a movies and stuff like that. Now parang isip=isip ko, buti pa yung time na nililigawan ko siya, may konting excitement pa, and ngayon wala na talga. Is it my fault na ganito ako, yung may hinahanap pa ako?

 

What should I do? Should I break up with her? or Talk to her about this problem?

[Miss Zelda]

Hi Ganman

 

i know exactly how you feel. My advice is just break-up because women often times expect a lot on a relationship and it would hurt the more if you still stick to this relationship. If you talked it over, and you know you don't want her to cry a bucket of tears, she would talk to you in staying and you'd promptly say yes because you don't want to hurt her feelings which is honestly emotional blackmail lang.

 

Don't talk na lang, or if you do, tell her you're not ready to commit( since girls here would be in a relationship and be committed) or better break-up.