Why do guys hurt women physically?

[lion-heart]

no reason to...really

[dibdba]

it may be because he saw his dad do it to his mom and has accepted it as a norm.

 

it may be to control the girl.

 

it may be to hide his insecurities.

 

a lot of reasons why, but not one of them is good enough.

[_iceman_]

no control...we might have the urge to hurt someone if we're angry at someone whether it be a man or a woman but we must always have control over those urges...

[layman37]

hurting women physically can and will never have true justification. that simple.

[gamehunter]

It is not what real men do.

[phoebe.maia]

Sometimes its actually the girl who hits the guy first tapos kapag di na nakayanan ng guy that would be the time that he would hit the girl. I've seen these scenarios to my friends. Wackos

[gamehunter]

Sometimes its actually the girl who hits the guy first tapos kapag di na nakayanan ng guy that would be the time that he would hit the girl. I've seen these scenarios to my friends. Wackos

 

True story. The guy might unintentionally hurt the girl during a scuffle, while defending himself. Though I believe that the guy mustn't lose his cool and mustn't use excessive force when subduing the girl.

[GT888]

I realized that my bf doesn't love me at all when we fought yesterday, and he hurt me physically. Still suffering now from body pain. Much more, emotionally.

 

I am sorry to hear that..

 

Any man who physically assaults a woman should be dealt by a different beating....

 

My sister was beaten up by her ex BF - he was dealt a different beating after my Dad and all of his unholy resources where done with him.

 

No man has any right to physically or verbally abuse a woman....or a child

[sonnyt111]

I am sorry to hear that..

 

Any man who physically assaults a woman should be dealt by a different beating....

 

My sister was beaten up by her ex BF - he was dealt a different beating after my Dad and all of his unholy resources where done with him.

 

No man has any right to physically or verbally abuse a woman....or a child

 

Yeah serves the bf of your sister right!!

[kimB3RLy]

There are a lot of reasons why men would hurt their women... Out of anger, under influence of alcohol or drugs, habit? But a real man should not hurt the woman he had claimed he loves no matter what. No one has the right to lay a finger on you.

I was once a battered gf. It started with pushing until the last blow when he hurt me in public in front of my friends. It will always be the battered one's call to stay and endure the abuse. But i hope this doesn't happen to anyone. If a guys had his hand on you for any other reason than pleasure, he isn't worth it. Let go before you totally get consumed.

[shampooh]

The more na sinasaktan ka the mure na pinapakita niya na love ka niya

[Baraka]

Guys who hit or hurt women personally have personal issues, maybe an unresolved personal problem or something. Low EQ is the answer to that.

[ladycard]

this is the reason why i fall out of love na sa asawa ko.. na hindi nya alam na hanggang ngayon, di ko yun makakalimutan at di na siguro malilimutan.. hindi din nya alam na ganito na nararamdaman ko na ayoko na pala.. bakit nga ba may ganito, kahit ano pang reason, hindi dapat manakit.

[darkangelus]

It's never right to physically hurt your partner whether your a woman or a man... and no reason will be able to justify physically hurting the person you love.

[Edmund Dantes]

Hmmmm merong ganitong kaso,

 

Yung lalaki mabait naman at wala namang history ng violence. Masipag din at di pinababayaan pamilya. Pero yung asawa napakabungangera, at di man lang ginagalang ang pagiging lalake ng mister nya. Pagod na nga na umuuwi sa trabaho, imbes tanungin man lang kung kumain na, panay pa pagbubunganga. Ilang taong tiniis ang pagiging salbahe ni misis hangang isang araw talagang di na nakapatimpi at pinagtataga na lang ni mister si misis.

 

Syempre mali talaga ang manakit ng kapwa babae man o lalake. Pero tao ka pa din at pwede kang mapuno hangang makalimutan mong tao ka at basta na lang magasal hayop.

 

Sa mga lalake, kapag umiinit na ang away, dapat distansya na. Kung ikaw ang lalake, mas mabuting magwalk ka na lang, tapos insitinctively masapak mo na lang GF o asawa mo. Tapos pagsusuntukin mo na lang yung pader hangang mabali kamao mo. Di nga, mas ok na yan at least nailalabas mo yung urge, kesa isang araw bumalik na lang yan pag kasama mo na GF mo.

 

Sa mga babae naman, maging sensitive na lang siguro pag sobrang stressed yung lalake. Huwag masyadong maging bungangera kasi sobrang nakakaasar yun sa lalake. Pero kung talagang bayolente lang talaga BF mo, abay hiwalayan mo na dapat.