Paulo_Go Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 Hey, a nice lady friend of mine brought up a shocking topic... his 10th month old boyfriend would hurt him physically, everytime they talked on different issues. Tell me why do some guys would lift their strong hands at delicate women? ( When I met the guy, ...I "Knocked" his head off and make him realized that a woman should be well taken cared of, treated well with utmost respect, and pampered. ) though I believe in the afterlife, why? why do men hurt women physically? please kindly share your thoughts my fellow brother.... Quote Link to comment
wildasschic Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 I don't know ha if may mag-aagree... but 7/10 guys na nananakit, usually yung mga walang bisyo... i know a lot of men na they don't smoke or drink, or whatever... SIGURO WALANG IBANG OUTLET pag galit? I don't know... But yeah, that's my logic.. Quote Link to comment
bakedzitiguy Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 i agree with wildasschic.. wala sa hitsura ng guy kung sino ang nananakit. i guess once a man lays his hands on you, be assured that he'll do it again. reasons? anger, feeling of dominance, immaturity? who knows? but when a guy hurts you physically, even if it was just the first time, it's better for the woman to drop him. kasi, chances are, it will recur Quote Link to comment
JANITOR Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 I don't know ha if may mag-aagree... but 7/10 guys na nananakit, usually yung mga walang bisyo... i know a lot of men na they don't smoke or drink, or whatever... SIGURO WALANG IBANG OUTLET pag galit? I don't know... But yeah, that's my logic.. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Hindi naman sa Hindi ako nag-aagree, pero sa tingin ko hindi naman dahilan kung may bisyo ka o wala para manakit ng isang babae, madami din akong kilala na nanakit ng mga gf/asawa nila pag nakakainom or nakakadrugs...... Nasa tao din yun, pero hindi pa din excuse manakit ng isang babaeng mahal mo kahit ano pa ang ginawa nya....dahil mahal mo nga...... KADUWAGAN siguro ang dahilan kaya sinasaktan ng isang lalaki ang isang babae kasi yun lang kaya yang saktan eh..... :cool: :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 minsan nagsisimula ang pananakit sa konting kurot...tapos...mga biruang pananapak o pagpalo...hanggang makasanayan na ninyong dalawa ang ganoong biruan.Then,minsan may mga pagkakataon na may mapipikon...ayun!Simula na malamang ng bugbugan.According to some family counsel,magbf/gf pa lang,dapat na iwasan ang mga biruang nakakasakit kasi maaaring makasanayan na ang ganitong gawi...kaya sa pag aaway malamang magkarun na rin ng sakitan. Quote Link to comment
russ Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 ang babae minamahal hindi sinasaktan... ituro mo sa akin kung sinong lalake ang nananakit ng babae... @#$%*^& nila... Quote Link to comment
hellspawn Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 men who hit women are: flea brained, limp dicked, dog f**king, micro penis owning, smelly, dandruff infested, wart covered, pus dripping, father fellating, dildo using, cowards! that's all they are, f**king low life cowards who don't have the balls to fight men, so they hit women. guaranteed these maggots also hit children, are abusive to old people, and are just bullies who can only make themselves feel good by picking on the weak and defenseless. i'm not going to say i've never hurt a woman, i have. but breaking up with somebody you don't love or want to see anymore is different to punching, kicking, slapping, pinching, twisting, grabbing and pushing. remember: "the fist time it happens, you're a victim. if you let it happen again, you're a participant." Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Sometimes sa babae din naman ang problema e, un bang tipong alam na nila na wala sa mood or punong-puno na sa galit ung partner nila, then hindi pa nila tatantanan ng kaka nag, kaya ayun, napipikon si lalake, and the only way para patahimikin ung babae e di soplahin ung bibig nya. But personally, i have never hurt physically a woman in my life. Quote Link to comment
linuzdviruz Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Minsan merong babaeng super kulit eh. Sa sobrang bait mo di na nya papansinin yung nararamdaman mo kahit sobrang galit ka na. Pero di ako agree na pag walang bisyo (alak/tabako) mas madalas na nananakit. Quote Link to comment
D('.')T Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 I don't know ha if may mag-aagree... but 7/10 guys na nananakit, usually yung mga walang bisyo... i know a lot of men na they don't smoke or drink, or whatever... SIGURO WALANG IBANG OUTLET pag galit? I don't know... But yeah, that's my logic.. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> This thing is a crap!!! :grr: :grr: I don't have any bisyo but I haven't done this in my entire life. :thumbsdownsmiley: To physically hurt my GF would never be listed on my vocabulary.I had no idea why the hell such guys out there tends to hurt their GF / WIFE when they argued on something. I might as well do the same thing that Paulo Go have done or much worst than that. :evil: Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 There is no fixed reason for this .....When u get the surprise of your life, maybe.... just maybe Though indeed hurting women doesnt go anywhere....I one cant take it, just leave quietly and for good. This thing is a crap!!! :grr: :grr: I don't have any bisyo but I haven't done this in my entire life. :thumbsdownsmiley: To physically hurt my GF would never be listed on my vocabulary.I had no idea why the hell such guys out there tends to hurt their GF / WIFE when they argued on something. I might as well do the same thing that Paulo Go have done or much worst than that. :evil: <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 it might be due to insecurities. sabi ko sa sarili ko, kahit gaano ko kamahal ang isang lalaki oras na pagbuhatan nya ko ng kamay...aalis at aalis ako. that's because i know myself. i dont nag, get jealous, demand, or raise hell without a valid reason. Quote Link to comment
Calhoun Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 It could also be a trait learned from parents. I have a cousin who hit his wife, and I remember that when we were kids his parents used to fight violently. I personally didn't see it but we heard the sounds emanating from the bedroom. They say we become our parents when we grow up? There's truth in that. My family is thankfully violence free but my dad has a temper sometimes. To him he doesn't know any other way of dealing with the difficulties of life, so he lets loose. Besides EQ wasn't really a big thing when he was growing up. Then when I get mad I catch myself becoming mad like him, and I stop myself because I know better. It's inexcusable to hit someone you claim to love. But the solution may not lie in beating them up (although it might feel good). Sometimes it helps to understand first why he would resort to violence to deal with things. Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 hmmm..it is an action from the subconscious...it is not really just hurting the girl..but it is his way of releasing his anger...probably if the girl is not there..the person would hit other things...nonetheless, let's not remove the fact that even guys can be considered as battered partner.... mas masakit lang siguro sumuntok o manakit ang lalaki.... Quote Link to comment
gulaman Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 machismo, chauvinism Quote Link to comment
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