Kissing On The First Date

[LawKo]

on first dates... hmmmmm...

kiss sa lips agad... well after ng date yun ha...

makikita mo naman kung pwede o hindi...

makiramdam ka lang mabuti...

[bethoven]

ok lang cguro lalo na kung naging maganda ang nangyari sa date nyo......

[robsalvador]

depende e. haha

for me, something mutual ito.

pero honestly, hindi tlga ako

nag iinitiate. (im shy)

pero since transparent akong tao,

kita at ramdam naman nung guy if

like ko siya. if not,

nakikita rin. kahit dko sabihin

 

Ahh... :wub:

 

I would go for a kiss.. At any rate, a date is a social event and kissing is a social gesture..

 

At the very least.. The man is entitled to a formal kiss..

 

A kiss on the cheek is tepid and formal.. But if you whisper "You look fabulous" with it.. It gives it a more personal, warm touch..

 

If I were to kiss Ms. cHinitababe86 on a fisrt date on the cheek.. I would whisper "You look Yummy"..

[buwitre1781]

A kiss on the first date really depends on how good you're date turns out to be.. if you're lucky enough baka more than a kiss pa makuha mo.. basta husayan mo lang sa date mo and dont try to impress just be urself..

 

 

[richardigop]

opo, gusto ko din sana maka halik sa unang date. pero minsan parang gusto na lang ng babae mag mano. kainis.

[Guest eljuego]

Been there, done that. I'm talking about the French variety. It's just a matter of attraction and confidence.

Edited October 13, 2010 by eljuego

[LuSciousNess]

for me, sometimes, i kiss. sometimes, i don't. it depends.

but really, if i like the person, i'd probably go for it.

if not, theres nothing to expect from me.

[dirtypop2]

...kasi sine sex ko agad e, malamang may kissing na kasama...

[kira21]

Yes I did that A lot of times before...

[kira21]

You just have to learn how to make your first date be as special or memorable as can be... It depends also on how you would converse and being sensitive on how to win her yes to a kiss or more on a first date... hehe

[knoll1234]

If I can remember right my very first date was when I was 14 years old. I was very very proper, I just held hands with her. I remembered her name, Gigi. don't know what happened to her. we never became full-fledge bfgf material.

[HAPONESA]

First Date namin ng BF ko... hay naku Go agad sa Hotel hahaha!!! First Date..First Meet

[blow_gobi]

Depende sa sitwyson at sa girl. Pero mararamdaman mo naman yun siguro kung OK lang mag-kiss o hindi OK.

 

Pag hindi OK huwag pilitin, be patient darating din yun - assuming may na-set na 2nd date pa, or third...

[cHinitababe86]

Ahh... :wub:

 

I would go for a kiss.. At any rate, a date is a social event and kissing is a social gesture..

 

At the very least.. The man is entitled to a formal kiss..

 

A kiss on the cheek is tepid and formal.. But if you whisper "You look fabulous" with it.. It gives it a more personal, warm touch..

 

If I were to kiss Ms. cHinitababe86 on a fisrt date on the cheek.. I would whisper "You look Yummy"..

wow.

possibly thAT would make me think of something good.

 

**flattered**

[jays0n]

hanggang smack p lng ako, d b un lng naman talaga sa 1st date?

[SkinDeep]

a peck on the cheek

[robsalvador]

wow.

possibly thAT would make me think of something good.

 

**flattered**

Quite tempted here my dear.. If only I were free.. Grrr..

 

On topic: If a guy gets a kiss on the first date.. the intensity of the kiss he gets from the girl is a hint on what he's next move should be.. Or holds the clue of things to come..

 

If its a brotherly (heaven forbid fatherly) kiss on the cheek then bid goodnight and better luck ... whatever, right?..

 

But if the kiss is solidly planted on your lips with a small tease of a tongue..

 

THEN.. pursue it like a true gentleman.. Offer but do not force.. Give but without expectation of return..

 

Let the lady have first choice..

[christy]

i did. and i kissed him FIRST. we had such great and perfect day (we were rehearsing and all the girls were laughing so hard at his antics).after rehearsals we had dinner and more laughs.i had such a great time. so much so that when he brought me to my door that i gave him a smack on his kisser. he was so shocked and amazed. and i quickly shut the door laughing.

[bitoysworld123]

nah, don't really do that... maybe a kiss on the cheek will do...

[ThUgZtaH]

I remember the movie "Hitch" starring Will Smith, he says the rule to a first date's kiss is the guy goes 90% of the way, it's up to the lady to complete the other 10%. I find this practical actually, kasi the moment pa lang that you make a move to 'attempt' the kiss, the girl's body language/reaction will give you a hint if she wants to be kissed. If she backs off, then sorry dude, better luck next time...

[ndn]

I wouldn't dare,ayokong masampal eh.

Edited November 9, 2010 by ndn

[borjy]

depending on the situation... ideally, a kiss on the cheek may be acceptable

[cHinitababe86]

Quite tempted here my dear.. If only I were free.. Grrr..

 

On topic: If a guy gets a kiss on the first date.. the intensity of the kiss he gets from the girl is a hint on what he's next move should be.. Or holds the clue of things to come..

 

If its a brotherly (heaven forbid fatherly) kiss on the cheek then bid goodnight and better luck ... whatever, right?..

 

But if the kiss is solidly planted on your lips with a small tease of a tongue..

 

THEN.. pursue it like a true gentleman.. Offer but do not force.. Give but without expectation of return..

 

Let the lady have first choice..

 

bakit lahat ba ng humahalik "free"?

i dont think lahat oo. some of them, hindi free.

pero..

wag nalang. basta read between the lines.

analyze.

 

tsaka paano ako, humahalik ako ng smooch or fk sa first date,

may hint na agad un na possibly leading to sex agad ang gusto ko?

paano sa akin na minsan, ginawa ko nga makipag fk sa date ko,

teasing him a bit, pero im just testing him kung anung magiging

galaw nya?

 

now, analyzing what move ginawa niya, if he could stand strong being

a gentleman or a gentlemaniac monster after?

Edited November 17, 2010 by cHinitababe86

[JHP]

If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Go for it, goddamnit.

[robsalvador]

bakit lahat ba ng humahalik "free"?

i dont think lahat oo. some of them, hindi free.

pero..

wag nalang. basta read between the lines.

analyze.

 

tsaka paano ako, humahalik ako ng smooch or fk sa first date,

may hint na agad un na possibly leading to sex agad ang gusto ko?

paano sa akin na minsan, ginawa ko nga makipag fk sa date ko,

teasing him a bit, pero im just testing him kung anung magiging

galaw nya?

 

now, analyzing what move ginawa niya, if he could stand strong being

a gentleman or a gentlemaniac monster after?

Lalo ako na torpe dun! :lol:

 

I looooove your candidness and openness Chinee..

 

The thing is.. if it were me, I will be more "monster" than gentleman after a FK..

 

Not totally, but just leaning more on the monster side..

 

Hey, I am after all.. Only human..

 

Besides.. I believe a luscious, total woman like you would not expect anything less, right?

 

The only deciding factor after, I guess..

 

Is whether there is a "connection" between the kisser and the kissee, for things to turn out to be magical..

 

Looooooove it!!! :)