Fling Relationship! Yes Or No, Why?

[graphik]

mahirap maaddict hehe

[Eastpak]

i would like to experience one...

[christy]

no.because a "fling" is something you throw away.besides i'd like to think I'm a keeper.

[boobsylicious]

no. magmumukha akong cheap, sino na lang rerespeto sakin? besides, nakakahiya naman sa mga parents ko. ayokong isipin o tingin ng mga tao na hindi nila ko napalaki ng maayos.

[friendly0603]

yes, life is too short to be serious and just look for "the one" when you can easily make mistakes. you've just wasted xx years of your life.

[CerebralScorpion]

If both are single, unattached, consenting adults, plus they are on the same page that it is simply a fling - go for it!

[thegspot]

If you're both single and unattached, I don't see anything wrong with flings. From experience, it also has a potential to turn into something serious.

[blastradius]

If you're both single and unattached, I don't see anything wrong with flings. From experience, it also has a potential to turn into something serious.

 

correct. you should have no commitment with someone before flinging. ang mahirap kse minsan pag nde ksama gf/bf yung iba nagsisimula na mag fling lalo na pag type nila.

[vin822]

hoping to have one. so far wala pa at gustong gusto ko magkaroon bago mANLANG MAGPAKsal

[ramonalito]

yes if wala ka masasagasaan

and no mahirap mafall at masaktan ulit...

 

Very true. But when you're lonely and wanting sometimes you can't help yourself.

[leoman]

This may soung irresponsible but I'm okay with this if the relationship has no chance of developing into something deeper.

[tequila5]

Siguro okay lang mag risk para sa mga talagang single. Pero this is not good when you are already in a relationship. I know a friend who is constantly dating this one guy. They are dating 'intimately.' Consenting adults, ika nga. Walang sabit si guy at walang sabit si girl They are, I think, just waiting for the right time to open up -- about what they feel and to, ask their 'status' as two dating individuals. As far as i know, exclusively dating naman sila.

[complicated8]

the risk with fling and any other intimate relationship is pregnancy. Especially if it's just a "fling", the kid is collateral damage

 

You need your fling's sexual history as well. if you wrongly trust your fling, you might end up with STI.

Edited December 17, 2010 by complicated8

[maniaclara]

i've never liked the idea of being someone's fling. i grew up valuing relationships and sincerity. so in turn, i've never thought of having someone as a fling.

pero para dun sa mga pabor dito na may fling, sana pareho kayo ng expectations. otherwise, kawawa yung may sincere feelings talaga.

[blastradius]

i've never liked the idea of being someone's fling. i grew up valuing relationships and sincerity. so in turn, i've never thought of having someone as a fling.

pero para dun sa mga pabor dito na may fling, sana pareho kayo ng expectations. otherwise, kawawa yung may sincere feelings talaga.

 

i agree. ive been there my friend. years ago i have a girlfriend who went abroad for work. she is sincere, honest and very loving. never expect that she broke up with me because of another guy she met while working there. imagine our 8-year relationship going strong relationship shattered because of that. all i know from my xgf they started with "flings"