rub120 Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Definitely NO Trust is one of the foundation of your relationship. Even sa building, if one vital foundation gives way, the whole structure collapses. Thats why early in my relationships, i always told may partner to be truthful to me. If she want somebody else, i'll let her go, she can go with him but i will never take her back again pag napaso siya. Quote Link to comment
dbzar2 Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 if God can give 2nd chances, we could do too.. Quote Link to comment
KielDaMan Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 it depends on the situation and the reason for cheating... But generally, no, because it will be a trust (or lack thereof) issue... I will forgive her but regaining my trust on someone who cheated me might take a veerry long time... In case we're married and we have kids, I will keep the relationship for the sake of the children... Quote Link to comment
Guest one_love Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 if God can give 2nd chances, we could do too.. but what if you have given that person a second chance... would you be willing to give that person another? and up to how many of these chances can you afford to give? Quote Link to comment
KielDaMan Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 None. Both are easy to say as long as you really mean it. Quote Link to comment
serdmelen Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 I'm Sorry" is really hard for me to say Quote Link to comment
Muro-Ami Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 I love you. It's hard to say because if you really mean it, in my opinion it's letting your guard down and your open to being hurt. Saying I'm sorry is not as hard as saying I love you. When you say "I'm sorry" the other person gets hurt. While saying "I love you" both you benefits or its you who goes down the drain. (selfish) Quote Link to comment
nosaddict Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Nangyari na eh. Gusto ko sanang malaman kung bakit naman nagkaganoon. Mas magaling ba yung isa kung ikukumpara sa akin? Eh magpapractice pa ako para ma-meet ko yung need ni partner. Quote Link to comment
paradox1113 Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 kung gf pa siguro maybe but kung wife ko na parang ang hirap. being betrayed by a loved one is one of the most painful experiences of all time. dami nakapatay at nagpakamatay jan. ako it takes all my courage to overcome that. Quote Link to comment
ag27 Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 TRY TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. SAYING "NO" IMMEDIATELY SIMPLY SHOWS THAT YOU HAVE NOT REALLY INVESTED ANY EMOTIONS TO WHAT YOU INITIALLY COMMITED TO. HOWEVER...DONT STAY 'BECAUSE OF THE KIDS".. AT THE END OF THE DAY, BE BETTER PARENTS ..EVEN IF YOU COULD NOT SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SPOUSE. WOULD YOU WANT YOUR KIDS TO SEE YOU ARGUE/FIGHT DAY IN AND DAY OUT? ....AND IN THE SAME BREATH TELL OTHERS THAT YOU HAVE STAYED "BECAUSE OF THE KIDS?" Quote Link to comment
kyubi9tails Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 MOVE ON.. THERES A LOT OF FISHES IN D OCEAN IF U KNOW WAT I MEAN AIGHT? Quote Link to comment
paradox1113 Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 yes i've tried moving on pero as of now my heart is still vacant. masyado kasi ako pihikan lalo at natikman ko na niloloko lang ako. hirap din kayang maghanap ng maganda at matinong babae. kahit nga walang hitsura may nagloloka pa rin. Quote Link to comment
paradox1113 Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 yes i've tried moving on pero as of now my heart is still vacant. masyado kasi ako pihikan lalo at natikman ko na niloloko lang ako. hirap din kayang maghanap ng maganda at matinong babae. kahit nga walang hitsura may nagloloka pa rin. Quote Link to comment
paradox1113 Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 yes i've tried moving on pero as of now my heart is still vacant. masyado kasi ako pihikan lalo at natikman ko na niloloko lang ako. hirap din kayang maghanap ng maganda at matinong babae. kahit nga walang hitsura may nagloloka pa rin. Quote Link to comment
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