BnF95 Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 Of course ... as missmanners put it so succintly, "fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me..." You can keep loving them ... but be watchful? Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 Of course ... as missmanners put it so succintly, "fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me..." You can keep loving them ... but be watchful?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> IMHO ... love is not possible without trust. How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not? Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 IMHO ... love is not possible without trust. How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not? Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi Wyld! How can we assure to our partner that we are no longer cheating them? Ang hirap kasi pag nagkarun ka na ng history of infidelity, tama ung isang nagsabi dito na ang isang relationship parang baso, pag nabasag maibalik man ulit, may lamat na. Curious lang ako, can you expound more on how does a woman feels when she is in that state of the so called "torture chamber"? Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 IMHO ... love is not possible without trust. How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not? Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber. Love is never secure, security means never having to worry, in an ideal world, that would be great. However, for the here and now, love, I think, means keeping the romance alive. If you don’t worry about your partner, you might let things slide, little things at first, perhaps the way you dress, later on bigger things, like hygiene. :sick: Worry, and let your partner worry. That way you both work at keeping the fires of love going. How can we assure to our partner that we are no longer cheating them? Ang hirap kasi pag nagkarun ka na ng history of infidelity, tama ung isang nagsabi dito na ang isang relationship parang baso, pag nabasag maibalik man ulit, may lamat na. I suppose one has to constantly strive to show one’s true depth of feelings. Try and try, until you die … or are sick of trying. It shows how much you love him/her by your efforts. Just don’t forget, love yourself enough that you don’t give all of yourself. Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 Love is never secure, security means never having to worry, in an ideal world, that would be great. However, for the here and now, love, I think, means keeping the romance alive. If you don’t worry about your partner, you might let things slide, little things at first, perhaps the way you dress, later on bigger things, like hygiene. :sick: Worry, and let your partner worry. That way you both work at keeping the fires of love going. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thats a good sort of worrying .. in fact I wont use the word worrying for that. Thats caring. Thats loving. Love and let your partner love. If love is true then you will unceasingly work at keeping the flames of love goin. Quote Link to comment
pretty_me2509 Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 i'll let go of him. it happened to me before. i was so damn stupid at that time. Quote Link to comment
stargazerhunk Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 unless she will promise not to do it again and keep her promise Quote Link to comment
Sin™ Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Earlier today I had a long talk with a friend of mine who found out that his wife of 32 years has been fooling around with another guy. Though my friend was really pissed off, he took time to consider life with and without his wife. Amazingly, he chose to stay with her. I asked him what was wrong with him. His wife is sleeping with somebody young enough to be her son. He said, "I'm not in love with my wife, I love her. With all her faults, with all her imperfections, she's still the woman I chose to marry. I take it as a complement that some 28 year old kid is crazy about my 54 year old wife." THAT'S LOVE.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> ..shet, hindi ko alam reaction ko dito. -Sin™ Quote Link to comment
westell Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Been cheated twice by my wife. So far, been holding on. Trying to forgive and forget, i'm aware that it is difficult, but at least the attempt is present. Trying to keep my head above water... Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Different people have different reasons what pets they want to have. DOGPeople love dogs, because they show, reciporcate the love and care to/of their masters.They manifest it trough barks and body language. SNAKEThough people know that snakes will not give them anything but s**t and worse a dealy venomouse bite, they simply love them for some reasons. One reason is that people will admire you for havinga deadly creature around rather then run from it. Some SNAKE huh ..shet, hindi ko alam reaction ko dito. -Sin™<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Earlier today I had a long talk with a friend of mine who found out that his wife of 32 years has been fooling around with another guy. Though my friend was really pissed off, he took time to consider life with and without his wife. Amazingly, he chose to stay with her. I asked him what was wrong with him. His wife is sleeping with somebody young enough to be her son. He said, "I'm not in love with my wife, I love her. With all her faults, with all her imperfections, she's still the woman I chose to marry. I take it as a complement that some 28 year old kid is crazy about my 54 year old wife." THAT'S LOVE.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
hotchic_primrose Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 if a guy cheats on me...i'll cheat to him as well... simple.. Quote Link to comment
spartan Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 i'll just drop her right there and then.... Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 Itaas ko lang, natabunan na pala. Quote Link to comment
papable Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 I'll cross the bridge when I get there. Sana di mangyari sa akin to. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 goodbye na kaagad Quote Link to comment
Elai Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 I'll give him a second chance. Quote Link to comment
Lipstick Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 Bumping thread up before it is lost in the blackhole of closed thread archives. Quote Link to comment
sweetie Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 i dont think mahirap sabihin ang "iloveyou" and "im sorry" basta sincere ka. Quote Link to comment
TMX_626 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 its "I love you..." not worth sayin, if you dont mean it. IM SORRY? so? its done... lets get on with life... :thumbsupsmiley: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
hottlipss Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 It's easier for me to say "I'm sorry"...it's second nature for me dahil mapagkumbaba ako at hindi nagtatanim nang samang loob....to a fault pa nga eh... Saying "I love you" at the beginning is harder lalo na doon sa taong mahal ko but once establish na yung relationship...laging me "I love you" and somehow I find saying it in Tagalog more meaningful & deeper..."mahal na mahal kita" ...to my friends and family kasama palagi and "I love..." on the phone, letters, and before saying good-bye while beso-beso....I'm a touchy feely kinda person kasi eh! Quote Link to comment
jumborat Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 from my experience, saying "i love you" is just like giving away peanuts. some friends of mine (guys and girls alike) usually say it just after a night or two of dating just to get a quick lay. there's no sense in saying this anymore. even fubus say this to their partners after a raunchy, hot and steamy sex session. you wouldn't know if they genuinely mean it or not. some girls say it for financial purposes fearing that the guy wouldn't take them out anymore for a cruise in their bmw to watch a movie and treat them for popcorn or a fine dining restaurant. for some, saying "i'm sorry" is also like second nature. it's becoming like an expression like "oh s@%t", "ouch", or "excuse me". i experience this first hand in metro manila malls especially in SM. 3 barkadas walking in a horizontal line without even flinching that they might bump someone. when they bump you, they say sorry without even shifting their pace or adjusting their path. it's like doing it on purpose and just apologizing to difuse the other person's anger. just an observation... Quote Link to comment
edc Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Mas Mahirap yung I Love You. Kahit mga naging gf ko bihira ko sabihin yun. Kasi natutunan ko pag sasabihin yun kailangan sincere ka talaga. Tapos naalala ko bakit pag after namin magsex mga naging gf ko hindi ko masabi yung I love you. Kasi mali na nagsex kami. Pre-Marital Sex Quote Link to comment
torpe Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 im sorry............, simply because it was not my fault..!!!! Quote Link to comment
mitchelle Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 mas mahirap para sakin ang sabihing im sorry kasi hanggat maari ayokong may masaktan pero kailangan kong magpakatotoo,naranasan kona rin kasi masan=bihang im sorry napakasakit. Quote Link to comment
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