What do MEN want?

[kjmm]

companionship i think.......

[slippery_ww]

Not just sex. :evil:

[yessss_noooo]

Men want a great girl... like...

 

someone who listens and doesn't nag...

someone who understands when you work...

someone who trusts you...

someone who you can trust...

someone who can be naughty...

someone who thinks...

someone who knows how to earn and save money too...

someone who can be there when you need them...

[wanderer13]

i want someone who's kinda like me.

 

a cowgirl, pwede mo dalhin kahit saan. di maarte mag-commute. athletic, mahilig sa sports at fitness. may utak at pwede mo kausapin sa kahit na anong topic.

 

yung magkakaiba lang sa amin dapat extrovert sya ng onti para ma counterbalance pagka introvert ko.

 

demanding ba?

[silky_smooth_20]

kuya, di ko naman nilalahat. Men or boys are the almost the same pagdating sa sex. ang difference lang siguro men seems to be mature towards it and boys are not still they both want the sex.  :evil: 

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ate, for me kasi, pag boy ka its plain SEX, pag man ka na, i call it as LOVEMAKING.. :hypocritesmiley:

[psy101514]

companionship i think.......

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Of course it's companionship. Same goes with lesbians and gays that want to get married too right?

[Gorgeous_pirate]

Hmmm this yet agian proves my point that a LOT (not all) og the guys out there are just in it for the "dough". There are SOME who somehow are in it for both the "dough" and companionship. The trick is knowing how to identify one from the other. *sigh*

 

:pirate:

[MTCBOSS]

bro. psy101514 ask lang kita one thing ok.... dont be mad at my question.... in ur life u never have been contact w girls???? bro. yung totoo ha.... kasi ako marami aminin ko sa iyo yan....... :evil: :evil: :evil:

 

coz wat u said still not a convince answer to me........ :thumbsdownsmiley: u know y??? man r born as a polygamous... even married man did sex w other woman.... :boo: its not if he is old or young.... its the circle of life as a human being........ :thumbsupsmiley:

 

tama b ako mali???????

[apple44]

Well if a woman ask me kung ano ang gusto ko sa babae?

 

It's one straightforward but very very honest answer which is "PHYSICAL BEAUTY"

as long as the girl is not a whore or a psychopath it is the beautiful or cute ladies

that will always win. Statistically, may survey na ginawa sa US and EUROPE kung

ano talaga ang gusto ng guys sa girls and the statistics shows that 90% of the time

it is always physical beauty that counts. Ang mga lalaki kasi mas developed ang

visual functions ng brain at mata kumpared sa babae dahil sa evolution for several

thousand years. So picky ang lalaki sa kanyang nakikita especially sa mukha at

body ng babae. So take it from me girls, i'll say it again "IT'S ALWAYS THE PHYSCAL

BEATY THAT COUNTS, PERSONALITY SECOND"

 

However, there is a catch kasi yung maganda sa paningin ko pwedeng pangit naman

sa ibang lalaki and vice versa so yung physical beauty varies considerable among

men. Kasi every man has their own standards or criteria sa beauty. For me my major

criteria is yung symmetry ng mukha ng girl, light skin color, skinny ectomorph body

type, and walang bungal na ngipin.

 

I don't look into personality coz all girls are interesting naman and pwede mong

mapakisamahan as you get together. For example yung pagiging mataray ng girl is

not a negative trait coz hindi boring kasama ang mataray na girl compared sa shy girls.

Personality can be developed, beauty cannot be developed. Yung pangit pag nagpaplastic

surgery pangit pa rin ang magiging anak ninyo. Kung pangit ang personality ng chick

pwedeng turuan yan.

 

And one more thing, kung babastedin ka lang naman ng babae at

pasasakitin niya ang ulo mo, at least mabuti ng magandang chick ang bumasted sa iyo.

Kumbaga hindi lugi he he he.

[apple44]

awwwww.... datz sweet...

 

dont dat make grlz heart melt??

 

but... i dont think so...

 

guyz... ALL guyz...

 

wen dey c a beautiful grl?? wut comez to mind...

 

sex... gettin laid... bangin...

 

thinkin on how da hell can i get diz girl to bed...

 

but all guyz have dat... wut make d difference iz,... deyr self control...

 

if dey can control dem selvz... der aint gonna be any problem....

 

but... hey! diz iz me... datz u...

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I totally agree with TipsyBoi, Even Sigmund Freud, Karl Jung and a million and one pyschologist

and medical doctors out there can confirm this information. ITS ABSOLUTELY TRUE

 

When a guy sees a beautiful girl ------> first thing in the mind is SEX with that Girl PERIOD !!!!!!

 

*** those guys who don't have this reaction have Erectile Dysfunction, Prostatic Hyperplasia, Prostate

cancer, Pathetic Religious Followers who are brain dead, Guys who are denialists. An alien perhaps

 

There are pathetic guys out there who don't admit na paganakita sila ng girl sex agad ang unang

puamapasok sa kanilang isipan. Wag ninyong iisipin na pervert ako or womanizer coz

hindi ako ganyan. I am a monogamos very loyal na BF and i get a lot of respect from women but

honestly talagang ang reaction ng guys pagnakita ng beautiful girl is always sex. Now, it depends

on the guy kung ano ang gagawin niyang action kung sakaling SEX agad ang sumagi sa kanyang isip.

Rick Warren the author of "The Purpose Driven Life" even mentioned this sa book. Sinabi niya dun na

hindi daw kasalanan yung bigla kang mag-isip ng sex when you see a beautiful woman coz he

explained na natural and "automatic reaction" daw ito ng normal brain ng lalake, built in program designed by GOD para magkaroon ng better and more beautiful children. Magkakasala ka lang daw dun sa mga actions or thoughts na ikaw mismo ang responsable hindi ang automatic brain reaction, for example

 

See beautiful woman -----> SEX ( no sin here coz automatic reaction ng brain ) -------> RAPE the Girl ( SIN Here coz may option kang hindi mang rape )

 

And here is the more interesenting part "SEE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ----> SEX ( sa isip ng guy ) ----> LIGAW ( instead of rape to avoid death penalty,lethal injection and hell )-----> SEX ( physical act )

 

Ladies, Yung pagiging romantic, sweet and etc. ng guy is a means to have sex by avoiding death penalty,lethal injection and avoiding eternal damnation sa impiyerno. Now, the good part is during courtship most of the time na-iinlove na yung guy sa girl before the guy can have sex with the girl so it is very important na i-reserve ng babae ang virginity niya. There would be a problem if the guy had sex with the girl before na-develop yung love niya sa girl, in this case babu beyotche!!! the when the guy sees another beautiful girl, the cycle starts again.....

[mongoloid]

From an observant from afar or better yet, re-thinking of what is happening around us, it seems that the bottom line is sex. Companionship is just second or maybe woul even count third following financial concerns.

 

Have you heard of a married couple who don't engage in sex? Actually, even those couple who don't speak much to each other still engages in sex. Diba?

[Bungo The Elder]

Beauty gets you in the door, other traits will get you to stay.

 

Siyempre naman, ok kung physically attractive ang girl na makikilala mo. Kaya nga liligawan e. Kasi type mo. Wag na nating pag-usapan kung sex lang ba ang habol mo o pakakasalan mo. Given na yun, you wouldn't be spending the effort and time in courting some girl na di mo navivisualize na in bed with.

 

Pero believe me, pag di nagjive ang personalities niyo at outlook sa buhay, di rin magtatagal at magsasawa rin ang lalaki at maghahanap ng iba.

 

So ano nga ang gusto ng lalaki sa isang babae?

 

Sa opinion ko, depende sa lalaki.

 

Ano ba ang level ng maturity nung lalaking tinutukoy mo? Tsaka for what purpose ba? Kasalan ba? Fubu? GF? O tropa lang?

 

Makikita mo naman sa ibang posts sa itaas di ba? May taong ulo sa itaas ang nagdidikta, mayroon ring ulo sa baba ang nangunguna.

[MTCBOSS]

thanks for the comment mga bro. bungo the elder, apple44 and mongoloid.... :thumbsupsmiley:

 

i like wat u said coz not all girls naman eh. pang kama d b... and the maturity also comes in as part of life....

 

dapat nga linawin mo kasi d malaman yung tinutukoy mo eh.....

[Guest BDC0425]

ako what I want from women is para may paglagyan ng aking semilya after mag popoy. imagine without women hindi dadami ang lahi natin kase walang bahay bata

 

 

 

 

 

:mtc: :mtc: :mtc:

[sipsipero]

We want someone we can wake up to who makes us feel better about ourselves in the morning than we know we are.

[big-poppa-pimp]

*med well everybody loves a person with a sense of humor...

[ketchup]

Sadly it's true, majority of men are in it only for sex. Like what they say beauty gets you in the door,

 

other traits will get you to stay. Most of the time the traits don't get you to stay, sex does. Sad but true.

 

Pathetic? Yes it's pathetic, but it's one of the harsh realities in life that we have to live up to.

[CHINITALOVER]

I swear! I have absolutely no idea what women are thinking! I don't get it, OK? I admit! I'm not getting the signals! I am not getting it! Women, they're so subtle, their little...everything they do is subtle...men are not subtle, we are obvious. Women know what men want, men know what men want, what do we want? We want WOMEN, that's it! ...It's the only thing we know for sure, it really is: WE WANT WOMEN!!! How do we get them? Oh, we don't know about that, we don't know. The next step after that we have no idea! :cry:

 

This is why you see men honking car-horns, yelling from construction sites. These are the best ideas we've had so far...The car-horn-honk, is that a beauty? Have you seen men doing this? What is this? The man is in the car, the woman walks by the front of the car, he honks: Beep! Beep! BEEEEPPPP!!!! This man is out of ideas. Who does this...? BEEEEPPPP!!!! "I don't think she likes me"...The amazing thing is, that we still get women, don't we. Men, I mean, men are with women. You see men with women. How are men getting women, many people wonder...That's why, I think, men get frustrated, when we see women reading articles, like: "Where to meet men?". We're here, we are everywhere.

Edited May 15, 2005 by CHINITALOVER

[KristinLavransdatr]

I swear! I have absolutely no idea what women are thinking! I don't get it, OK? I admit! I'm not getting the signals! I am not getting it! Women, they're so subtle, their little...everything they do is subtle...men are not subtle, we are obvious. Women know what men want, men know what men want, what do we want? We want WOMEN, that's it! ...It's the only thing we know for sure, it really is: WE WANT WOMEN!!!   How do we get them? Oh, we don't know about that, we don't know. The next step after that we have no idea! :cry: 

 

This is why you see men honking car-horns, yelling from construction sites. These are the best ideas we've had so far...The car-horn-honk, is that a beauty? Have you seen men doing this? What is this? The man is in the car, the woman walks by the front of the car, he honks: Beep! Beep! BEEEEPPPP!!!! This man is out of ideas. Who does this...? BEEEEPPPP!!!! "I don't think she likes me"...The amazing thing is, that we still get women, don't we. Men, I mean, men are with women. You see men with women. How are men getting women, many people wonder...That's why, I think, men get frustrated, when we see women reading articles, like: "Where to meet men?". We're here, we are everywhere.

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this is sooo darn funny! way to go! :cool:

 

most women have this spell when they'd say something but actually mean different, even the opposite. like, when we say "i don't want to see you anymore." it may not mean that at all. well, in english it may appear "get the hell out of my life." but in most cases, you need, truly need to translate it to another cosmic language understandable only to women. we're so sorry about this, guys. truly sorry.

 

now, don't try to understand us. you definitely will fail. it's going to be a lost cause.

 

you say you want women, and you ask how to get us. but here's the thing:

 

you know a lot of women buy cosmo, candy, women's journal, preview, mod, etc. reading through articles entitled: "where to meet men" or "how to attract men" or "101 ways to meet mr. right." and yes, men are just everywhere. but where?

 

you huddle with your buddies talking about basketball, the previous night's one-night-stand, politics, philosophical machismos, atheism, zen buddhism, communism, catholicism, existentialism, and a whole bunch of other isms.

 

and where else? you roar the streets with your big bikes, the hills with your mountain bikes, the tracks with your race cars, the big waves with your boats, the skies with your jets.

 

and yes, you men talk to your cars and call them "baby."

 

and when you're done with your pretty little hobbies, you look around and say: "hmmm....i wonder where i could get a lay tonight."

 

and you think "love" is a word invented by hollywood fags. thus it makes you itch...in the wrong places.

[alpardpba]

pag bata pa... yung sexy at maganda at magaling sa sex...

pag tumanda na ng kaunti... yung kilala ang sarili at pwede maging nanay sa mga anak at misis sa kanya...

pag tumanda pa lalo... yung pipi at bulag at bingi sa lahat ng kanyang pagkakamali at pagkukulang...

[shyboy]

Sadly it's true, majority of men are in it only for sex.......

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I guess I belong to the minority then......

 

I'm not in it for sex.........

 

but women abused my body, soul, and whatever things that they could rip off.......

 

I should blame myself for being so vulnerable...

 

but I'm not in it for sex...... :hypocritesmiley:

[CHINITALOVER]

this is sooo darn funny! way to go!  :cool:

 

most women have this spell when they'd say something but actually mean different, even the opposite. like, when we say "i don't want to see you anymore." it may not mean that at all. well, in english it may appear "get the hell out of my life." but in most cases, you need, truly need to translate it to another cosmic language understandable only to women. we're so sorry about this, guys. truly sorry.

 

now, don't try to understand us. you definitely will fail. it's going to be a lost cause.

 

you say you want women, and you ask how to get us. but here's the thing:

 

you know a lot of women buy cosmo, candy, women's journal, preview, mod, etc. reading through articles entitled: "where to meet men" or "how to attract men" or "101 ways to meet mr. right." and yes, men are just everywhere. but where?

 

you huddle with your buddies talking about basketball, the previous night's one-night-stand, politics, philosophical machismos, atheism, zen buddhism, communism, catholicism, existentialism, and a whole bunch of other isms.

 

and where else? you roar the streets with your big bikes, the hills with your mountain bikes, the tracks with your race cars, the big waves with your boats, the skies with your jets.

 

and yes, you men talk to your cars and call them "baby."

 

and when you're done with your pretty little hobbies, you look around and say: "hmmm....i wonder where i could get a lay tonight."

 

and you think "love" is a word invented by hollywood fags. thus it makes you itch...in the wrong places.

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Hahahahahaha! Natawaq ako dito! :lol:

 

Let me try to summerize things as a way I look at it... WOMEN! Can't live with them...Can't live without them!...hehehehehehe

[MHY®]

What women think men want from them causes women to have resentment and anger toward men, and feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm, romantic partnership. What men think women want from them causes them much of the same feelings

and frustration.

 

The sad part is that it does not have to be this way, if only we would realize that both men and women are human beings first and pretty much want the same thing.

[fordrallyesport]

Para sa akin, basta may mayakap, malambing, makulit, makakwentuhan, yun, masaya na ako dun!

[mike_23]

as for me,aside from a good sex partner

i just want a girl who's honest, some one who's gonna treat me right....