napV200 Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Hello everyone, Hey guys post naman kayo dito, marami kasi akong friends... problema bf nila mahirap daw intindihin same with mine at times anlabo niya kaya suko na ko. Girls are also welcome to post. Thanks... Quote Link to comment
rascal Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 well same thing goes to girls.. din minsan hindi mo rin alam ang gusto nila... siguro openess to each other... understanding and respect best of all is communications frends? Quote Link to comment
HanSolo Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Im replying to encourage the starter of this thread to post more...seems our little mimi has been doin "extra" lately on this site... Its really about clearing the channel for commmunication. The single reason for not being heard or understood is not really knowing..... Lay it on the table..Talk some sense....sometimes just askin how was your day? is a good way to start...most important of all..have an objective or a clear idea of what you want to know... Quote Link to comment
vogharth Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 ... basta don't ask for anything you cannot handle... Quote Link to comment
Guest ginny Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Hmm.. I don't think your dilemma is gender-sensitive. Men is also having a hard time understanding women. Sabi nga, Men are from Mars while Women are from Venus. For me... I don't think you need to wring your head dry to even try to understand them.. all you need to do is to accept them that they're different from us women.. then, LIVE WITH IT. Quote Link to comment
vogharth Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Hmm.. I don't think your dilemma is gender-sensitive. Men is also having a hard time understanding women. Sabi nga, Men are from Mars while Women are from Venus. For me... I don't think you need to wring your head dry to even try to understand them.. all you need to do is to accept them that they're different from us women.. then, LIVE WITH IT. right on. Quote Link to comment
beefcake Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Hmm.. I don't think your dilemma is gender-sensitive. Men is also having a hard time understanding women. Sabi nga, Men are from Mars while Women are from Venus. For me... I don't think you need to wring your head dry to even try to understand them.. all you need to do is to accept them that they're different from us women.. then, LIVE WITH IT. You took the words out of my mind. I couldn't agree more. Quote Link to comment
rascal Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Hmm.. I don't think your dilemma is gender-sensitive. Men is also having a hard time understanding women. Sabi nga, Men are from Mars while Women are from Venus. For me... I don't think you need to wring your head dry to even try to understand them.. all you need to do is to accept them that they're different from us women.. then, LIVE WITH IT. You took the words out of my mind. I couldn't agree more. way to go you guys!!! Quote Link to comment
triggerFinger Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 tumpak ginny! hirap man intindihin ang opposite sex... sarap naman sila mahalin! i guess... openness nga din ang kailangan... you can never exactly guess each other's thoughts.. so better speak your mind out... and as much as possible, as much as you can....... be honest. Quote Link to comment
jason_lee Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 Hi, I think You should ReaD slef HelP booKs like Men R from MaRs & WoMen r from VeNus... Tho...Filipino mEn r AsiaN...Its ReaLLy HarD eh...everyThing DepenDs on how He was brougHt up...whAt PeEr grouP he grEw up with.. His PrioRity in LiFe... SigUro...me haLong ADveNtUre...Fun....ExCiTeMent...RoMance...and u knOw.....eveRyThing in BetwEEn.... DepenDe talaga... Quote Link to comment
bods1000 Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 the key is to empathize, not to understand; to feel, not to think. well, whatever, the key is to enjoy the company of the opposite sex Quote Link to comment
soul Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 appreciate everything you see on a girl! you'll win all of them! hehehehe Quote Link to comment
pink2lips Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 i guess it starts with us understanding that men & women think differently...to us, men are from mars, to them, we are from venus... sometimes we gotta go to their planet to understand them...that means to observe, listen (really listen) and even do some research...that's what brothers & cousins & best friends are for: resourceslearn the language...not just the verbal: include the body language...then you gotta learn how to read minds too...(prerequisite: dapat me mind...hehehe...joke lang po) sigh...dami no? and yet, even with all these... they will remain as creatures from another planet......not to worry...we are to them too... *peace* Quote Link to comment
mr. e Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 ei thats the beauty in the relationship....both your imperfections and incompatibilities gel into one couple.... kasi kung totally naiintindihan mo ang nasa isip nang opposite sex then life will be boring... mas maganda yung may challenge diba? Quote Link to comment
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