Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[blankeuphoria]

No. Before I experienced being cheated,i would have said, its free game. But after... Nope.

[ladyboy]

a big no kayo gusto niyo ba nagugulo relasyon nyo?

[r35gtr]

let us discuss about "Karma"

 

I was a nice guy, never hurt a fly, pero nasulot ako. bakit ako nasulot eh dinaman ako nanunulot dati?

 

 

"Nope Pag may BF na siya"

 

remember , kadalasan ha, ang girl hindi nakakaligaw ng guy, sila lang ang naghihintay na may manligaw sa kanila,(may girls na aggressive talaga ). SO responsibilidad nating mga haliparot na lalake na ligawan sila. kailangan natin sila isave sa boring nilang relationship at mga pangit na boyfriend (pag type natin ang girl at may bf sila, automatic pangit ang lalake). Ligawan natin ang gusto natin .

 

 

Ngayon yung nagsasabi na ayaw mapaaway. Mga ka MTC, normal sa mga lalake ang mapaaway. Basketball nga dami nag aaway eh. huwag matakot. and kung si lalake yung typong nagging violente dahil may ibang nanliligaw, mas ok eto. Mas malaki ang chance na masusulot natin ang girl. Huwag matakot mabugbog. lalaban tayo.

 

 

Pag married, hands off na talaga . dahil mahirap makasira ng pamilya, kung magkabukuhan , bibigyan mo ba ng bahay si babae? papaaralin mo mga anak niya? tsaka puede magdemanda ang lalake.

[Cap™]

I'd say no 'cause it'd incur me of bad karma. And it sucks to be a rebound guy

[r35gtr]

if ikaw ang nanulot you are not the rebound guy, you are the SLam Dunk guy, the alley ooop guy

[p0p0ng]

Depends on how much I like her at kung ano ang situation ng relationship niya, masaya pa siya or just going through the motions? will I make her situation better?

 

BUT if she is married than NO. Wala ng ibang conditions.

[Jonas2085]

Nope, unless I'm single and she's the one who starts then maybe we can arrange something that's beneficial for both of our needs.

[black_label]

Definitely not, after it happened to me.

I never want to be the reason why a couple breaks up.

[Gravity05]

Tried this already. Mukha lang akong tanga so never again.

[sabs2000]

multiple times i've been the triumphant b@stard here, though I really felt bad after. Hahahaha!

Edited January 20, 2016 by sabs2000

[Hari ng Spakol]

not at all

[happycore]

Abangers lang ako pag interested tlaga ako as girl. Bsta pagpapayaman muna atupagin

habang nag aabang hahahaha

Work mode.

[Ricardio]

NEVER
Imagine kng sayo mangyari to
kaya before u check someone out tignan2x muna kng may sing2x na nkalagay sa ring finger sa left hand nya...

[fluidshark]

Nope. Hassle yan, napapahamak ka pa

[cumlaude]

Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

 

If Person Taken = flirty and shows motives towards me

then { StringA = ask if their relationship is on the rock}

if Yes { date + alcohol + extra far away venue from their house}

else {wait until StringA}

End IF

[jackenpoy41871]

Here's my story... i join pinalove.com just last year... met a beautiful woman 23 yrs old sya. single and super wow like julia barreto look and empress of abs cbn look. so i got stupid courage to say hello and could we be friends.. she immediately said yes... after a few correspondence tru the chatbox, we met. man... di nga sya poser... she's the real thing. grabe. so i ask her out for a simple dinner. we had dimsum. and wow what a thrill... after the date... i made follow ups tru texts and calls. so we had several dates like 3 to 5x more. we fall for each other... then the revelation came... may ka live in partner daw sya.... she's not happy w her miserable life... blah blah blah... so turn off... i felt so crushed and betrayed by the revelation... i promised myself never ever..mauulit itong bad experience. pero regrets.. and what ifs.

[zooloist]

simple ethics dictates we should not

[silipmanok]

Totally against it. Respeto sa kapwa mo bro. Hindi mo rin magustuhan ang balik sayo kapag ikaw naman ang naisahan.

 

Dont flirt with the girl if shes already committed. Kahit pa willing yung babae lumandi. Dami naman single na babae dyan.

[miaka21]

very complicated...

 

but it depends on the situation...

 

everyone has its own reason...

[dibdba]

Will you just sit there idly while a girl you know is begging for rescue from an unhappy, miserable relationship?

 

Or

 

Will you move in and bring the girl to what may be another unhappy, miserable relationship?

 

We always think we can do better, and can make her happier, but it's usually best to let things be and let her sort and fix her problems before we move in. But there are exceptions.

Edited February 6, 2016 by dibdba

[mjane74]

as much as possible, nope. my life is already complicated as it is, dadagdagan ko pa.

[LunaX]

why not?

 

pero iniiwasan ko ...

[Jack_Raiden]

nope, hindi.

[Dupin]

Never, not in a million years.

[DamienThorn]

I dunno. There was this phase in my life wherein I often find myself atrracted to girls who are, well, taken. At hindi ko siya sinasadya. Hindi rin ito yung tipong china-challenge ko ang sarili ko. Nagkataon lang na nagkagusto ako sa kanila before I found out na may BF o asawa na sila.

 

Mali ba? Hindi. Hindi mali yung magkaroon ka ng feelings para sa isang tao. Magiging mali lang siya if you acted on those feelings, at may partner na yung taong gusto mo.

 

There was this girl once, way, way back, whom I really liked. OJT siya sa kumpanyang pinapasukan ko. I liked her the first time I saw her. I found out later na may BF siya (na karatista pa! Hahaha!). At first di na sana ako magme-meddle. But then, gustong-gusto ko siya, and her friends were pushing me to court her. Ayaw kasi nila sa BF niya. Masama raw ugali. Lagi raw silang nag-aaway. Etc etc.

 

So I started wooing her. I would bring her flowers, email songs to her, pick her up at school... and other things. In short, nanligaw ako sa kanya formally. Ito namang si girl, unti-unti rin namang nahuhulog sa akin, especially since we have interests in common, at may mga bagay na wala sa BF niya na nakikita niya sa akin.

 

One Sunday, taong-bahay ako sa office and was all alone. She called and said sasamahan niya ako. So she went. At first we were just watching TV, talking. Maya-maya --- it happened that we were sitting too close to each other --- she suddenly kissed me! Nagulat ako, so I wasn't able to reciprocate properly at first. We stopped and looked at each other. I was still stunned, but I was by then bold enough to initiate a second kiss --- a longer one. Afterwards, we just sat there, still watching TV, but holding hands this time. We didn't talk about it. I didn't ask kung sinasagot na niya ako. We just sat there. Later hinatid ko siya pauwi, and we kissed again.

 

After that, di pa rin naman niya hiniwalayan ang BF niya. For some reason, mahal pa rin niya si guy kahit ilang beses na siyang nasasaktan sa kanya emotionally. Yet we still see each other, though wala namang nangyayari. It's like, di niya kayang iwan yung BF niya, pero di naman niya ako mailaglag kasi she's got feelings for me too.

 

Eventually, I got tired of waiting. Months later, I met another girl at naging kami. The first time I told OJT girl, halatang selos na selos. Pero wala siyang magawa. Unfair nga naman na magalit siya sa akin gayong ilang buwan akong naghintay sa kanya at hindi naman niya hinihiwalayan BF niya. We decided to be friends na lang after that, but then again, one time na nag-inuman kami, hinatid ko siya pauwi. Bigla na naman niya akong hinalikan sa bus! So ayun, naglaplapan kami nang naglaplapan all the way home.

 

We're still friends until now, kahit may asawa na siya (No, hindi yung BF niya noon ang nakatuluyan niya). Ninang pa nga siya ng isang anak ko. At wala nang nangyari pa between us.