jgc813 Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 (edited) @jgc813, are you a what-if type of guy? Can you let go easily? What is the worst thing that could happen if you don't go for it? Options:1) You will lose your friend anyway to the other guy and/or she will reject your relationship.2) You will break their relationship, hurt the other guy. But you will have the start of new relationship3) She's with him and you will remain friends if you never tell her. If you don't say anything, 1 is the worst and 3 is the best thing that could happen.If you say something, 1 is the worst and 2 is the best thing that could happen. 4) The last option, wait for her to break up with this guy but what if that doesn't happen then you actually lost your chance. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Well... I don't create such scenarios. I am not a "what-if" guy. I know where I stand, and I don't regret what I decide on or what I do. I was just thinking aloud, but really, I'm fine the way things are -- status quo. Edited November 19, 2012 by jgc813 Quote Link to comment
mr armed and dangerous Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 Damn the missilesAm going for itEven if it takes me to hell Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 (edited) Well... I don't create such scenarios. I am not a "what-if" guy. I know where I stand, and I don't regret what I decide on or what I do. I was just thinking aloud, but really, I'm fine the way things are -- status quo.Great for you then. If you are fine, then it's no real loss for you. Sometimes for others, you really have to take the risk.Better to find out if there's a chance of happiness there. Sometimes the woman is just waiting for the guy to make a move because like you wasn't prepared to lose the friendship if things don't work out. Edited November 19, 2012 by friendly0603 Quote Link to comment
Chi-Chi Posted November 20, 2012 Share Posted November 20, 2012 (edited) Kung worth it why not choc nut! for example, sam milby! Edited November 20, 2012 by Chi-Chi Quote Link to comment
ron2b1l Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 if sya ang nagpapakita ng intensyon.. y not.. palay n nga lumalapit tatangihan ko p b yun.. at nsa tao yun f wla nmn tlagang gsto yung girl eh wla tlgang magagawa... Quote Link to comment
mikemahalmo Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 Kung love pag-uusapan, no. Pero kung sex, sige lang. Quote Link to comment
Ronnick Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 Taken? as in bf/gf lang why not, however if taken as in married na definitely its a big NO. Quote Link to comment
joggy061794 Posted November 23, 2012 Share Posted November 23, 2012 Hindi po ser. Quote Link to comment
wishywishylily Posted November 23, 2012 Share Posted November 23, 2012 No, definitely. Quote Link to comment
elowyuayi19 Posted November 23, 2012 Share Posted November 23, 2012 Definitely not. Taken na pala eh. Ano ako kabit? Quote Link to comment
sOin2you Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 I could be open to my feeling towards him, but I'm not gonna pull him to something he might regret. Quote Link to comment
mikecallanta Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 That depends siguro kung talaga mala Serendipity ang mangyari. You can never can tell. Quote Link to comment
eaglesrock56 Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Taken? Definitely no. Quote Link to comment
lonieme Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 bakit naman hindi? mas madali nga hulihin ang nakatali. Quote Link to comment
shampooh Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 Married men are so tempting Quote Link to comment
closer88 Posted December 7, 2012 Share Posted December 7, 2012 If she seems worth it, why not? Hehe. I'm taken too. Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted December 8, 2012 Share Posted December 8, 2012 yea. if worth it. bakit hindi. on the side lang din naman siya saken eh. mas exciting ung minsan na iniisip mong may nag mamay ari pero sayo nahuhumaling.hahaha ung reality na mas ikaw ang iniisip niya makita at makasama kahit committed siya.well, siguro excitement lang ang habol ko. sa pagkakaalam ko, mas matibay pa kamekesa dun sa naging partner niya, wala na sila. magkasama parin kame ngayon.nagkikita parin kame. wahaha.. oh well. 1 1 Quote Link to comment
romanticlove Posted December 12, 2012 Share Posted December 12, 2012 i already did this... well for you to survive this dapat hindi ka seloso/selosa kasi pag talagang nahulog na ang loob mo you would ask for more, more time, more love and try to compare things from the other. hehe Quote Link to comment
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