kobeshaq Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 If you want a serious relationship then you have no choice but to communicate. If your saying that you can't talk to her because "malakas ang tama mo sa kanya" then maybe your really not serious? I'm assuming your not in high school, and this is just a childish crush? Just tell her what you feel so you'll know earlier what your limits are. If its just friends then you'll know earlier what to expect. No more assumptions, no more worries, no more what ifs. Just be mature about it. She was the one who contacted you in the first place, so just ask her what it is she expects from you. She'll appreciate you more. I very much AGREE! Communicate and be very honest. Goodluck! Quote Link to comment
bher2 Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 ask her and tell her what you feel so you would know kung san ka lulugar.. =) Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 (edited) Decipher your thoughts and feelings first before making your move .... What are your fears exactly made of? - Are you afraid that she will reject for reasons pertaining to her bf?- Are you afraid of her bf ? With some moments alone - Try also to decipher your feelings with her ..... I mean yes you have this sudden excitement and elation after all these years ...just maybe this worries you Try watching the movie "Christina Vicky Barcelona".. it may give you some idea Edited June 30, 2009 by lomex32 Quote Link to comment
gobster Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 Go for it. If you strongly feel that she also loves you, let her know. Tell her how you feel, but at the same time respect that she still has a boyfriend. This will prompt her to make a decision. If she chooses you, bravo. If she chooses to stay with her boyfriend, at least you were able to tell her how you feel. It is harder to go through life not telling the person you love that you love her. Quote Link to comment
bubuy Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 story goes like this..i knew this girl for about 10 years na actually long time crush ko siya..matagal kaming nwalan ng communication ng gurl then suddenly she texted me the other daywhich i was surprised and happy..matagal ko na gusto ung girl..currently my BF cya ngayon..but weve been dating for several days na texting all night longpinapadalaw nya ako sakanila etc.things that a girl wont do when in a relationship like pinakilala nya ako sa parents niya..then ung current BF niya hindi kilala sa bahay nung girl..i have this strange feeling na im falling for her na this time im afraid kasi may BF siya at this moment what do i need to do??ayaw ko namang lokohin ung girl i want a serious relationship with her what should i do?? I HAVE THIS FEELING NA GUSTO DIN NIYA AKO.. this is my question AS A ANG FRIEND LANG KAYA?? or mre than..im clueless mejo magulo ang storya try to understand nlng hehehe :thumbsupsmiley: you want a serious relationship with her, eh sya ba seryoso sayo? di kaya ginagamit ka lang nya smokescreen for her parents para sa kanyang BF? sa 10 years mo syang kilala, ganon katagal mo na din ba kilala parents nya or recently lang? Quote Link to comment
Super_Tulis Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 Golden rule "Hwag na hwag magpapadala sa gusto niya kahit ano pa iyon pwera sex". Act like a bad boy, treat her as a friend, and make her laugh. Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 i'm not gonna take someone which currently in a relationship (if i know she's into one) it's just inhumane to use or be used.. that's my philosophy, i know its too straight but i rather be than feeling guilty.. i've felt the pain on the receiving end of that kind of relationship Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 strangely, available women never really attracted me much, only on occasions. however, women already taken, are often irressistible for me. kahit sa beerhouse, kailangan nangaagaw ako ng table ng kabilang mesa, yung table ng may table. i must be sick. Quote Link to comment
don_miguel_arkanghel Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 nah. i know the feeling ng maagawan eh. Quote Link to comment
Seishi Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 mahirap yan.... masyadong magulo Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 yun ang pinakamahirap tanggapin, yung maagawan ng iba.. good boy na good bioy masyado kaya minsan nadadapurak na ang pagkatao Quote Link to comment
Zephiroth Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 it's complicated lol. wala naman siguro taong gusto ng gulo or away? Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 i'll wait till she's out of the relationship.. it's better to enter smoothly in a relationship but not by taking advantage of the situation Quote Link to comment
speedo10 Posted July 18, 2009 Share Posted July 18, 2009 Nope, i'll just look for another one and hope that their relationship would go smooth Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 18, 2009 Share Posted July 18, 2009 nope.. not my cup of tee Quote Link to comment
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