What Women Want?

[Mr_man]

nice.

and i agree with your statements, really.

 

but i think, a bulk of the women who posted here declared such answers....based on what they think they deserve.

i hope so.

because partly you are right.....in self-introspection and all that.

 

on a personal note, neither can you girls expect to get a serious/faithful guy if you limit yourself to online adult forums 24/7

 

This is something I would really love to the women to tell us, for the sake of conversing that is. Take into account what you have to offer then tell us what you believe you deserve...........................

[MsPinkPepe]

100% AGREE

 

thanks sis. same with you?

[angel_by_day]

This is something I would really love to the women to tell us, for the sake of conversing that is. Take into account what you have to offer then tell us what you believe you deserve...........................

 

then we would have to account for inter-woman variability

 

the average lady would tell you that she is capable of loving her guy a 101 %.....ergo, she deserves the same.

 

but then again.....our assumptions as to what our full capabilities and abilities are may be wrong....depends on how well we acknowledge our faults, how grounded we are, how well we fully know ourselves.

 

sometimes it's easy to blurt out the we deserve someone better.....but fail to see why the previous one didn't last.

 

 

personally, i may be able to enumerate all the attributes that i can think of.....but i'd rather let my actions speak for myself, as well.

 

 

on another note: women want attention.

proof?

scan the threads

[Lord Superb]

Material things and someone they can trust aside, I think women want someone who's highly adaptable to their more sophisticated emotions. I have long given up trying to understand women. I believe in the old adage that women are meant to be loved, not to be understood, at least not too much. This means that although I put myself in a woman's position lest I hurt her inadvertently, I stop there and go no further. I don't want to understand her more; I prefer suprises. And indeed this mystery, which every woman has, is what they treasure the most. They wouldn't reveal it to anyone, not even to the ones they love. They will give their body willingly, endure the pain of childbirth, and what have you, but they will never, ever, give up this mystery. That is why the woman I loved before would fold up when, aware of the emotional state she was in, I would ask her why she's sad or what's bothering her, and one time why she chose me over other men. Not the gentlest of coaxings would give me the answer. So, guys, when you're in a situation such as this, let your woman reveal herself to you and not force her. We guys can't rationalize the emotions of a woman. Give her time to be on her own so she could decide whether to reveal her feelings to you or not. And if she does not, just be sport about it. We guys must adapt to women and not try to bend them to our liking, and that's as close to understanding them as we can get.

[angel_by_day]

^^ interesting insight.

 

coming from someone who has ceased to understand women that much....you seem to have a good grasp of what women want

[Lord Superb]

Material things and someone they can trust aside, I think women want someone who's highly adaptable to their more sophisticated emotions. I have long given up trying to understand women. I believe in the old adage that women are meant to be loved, not to be understood, at least not too much. This means that although I put myself in a woman's position lest I hurt her inadvertently, I stop there and go no further. I don't want to understand her more; I prefer suprises. And indeed this mystery, which every woman has, is what they treasure the most. They wouldn't reveal it to anyone, not even to the ones they love. They will give their body willingly, endure the pain of childbirth, and what have you, but they will never, ever, give up this mystery. That is why the woman I loved before would fold up when, aware of the emotional state she was in, I would ask her why she's sad or what's bothering her, and one time why she chose me over other men. Not the gentlest of coaxings would give me the answer. So, guys, when you're in a situation such as this, let your woman reveal herself to you and not force her. We guys can't rationalize the emotions of a woman. Give her time to be on her own so she could decide whether to reveal her feelings to you or not. And if she does not, just be sport about it. We guys must adapt to women and not try to bend them to our liking, and that's as close to understanding them as we can get.

 

Sorry for posting in a thread dedicated to women, but I just want to know if the women in here agree with me or not.

[girlspeed]

someone who will accept me for who i am, and who I AM NOT.

someone who will make me a part of his life because i do not need to be his whole life.

[ItchyFeetPinay86]

 

Women? We're all crazy. To give you a taste of how crazy we are..

 

1) we like BAD BOYS who we can turn into good ones

 

2) we like HOT guys who are HOT but at the same time worships us like a goddess (hello, if they're uber hot they wont worship us so much because they're used to hotness already)

 

3) We like sweet but not too sweet guys

 

4) We like guys who call us alot, but we want them to be SPONTANEOUS TOO.... so we dont want them calling everyday or every hour, dapat completely di natin maguess!

 

 

5) We want a sensitive guy, but someone who gets angry din para masculine naman, hindi ung iiyakan ka!

 

... or I may be wrong baka it's just me who wants all these things from a guy

 

[brochador69]

on my opinion

 

a person who will love them

 

a peron who will understands them how crazy they are

 

a person who will be there for them in times of need

 

a person who will accept them for who they are

 

a person who will take care of them

 

a person who will appreciate them

 

a person who will laugh w/ them

 

in short its hard to find. hehehhe!

[Mantra06]

You should get the e-book about "500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know". Find it here:

 

http://thescienceofeugenics.blogspot.com/

[male_spud]

interesting posts... both from men and women. i guess what everyone wants is just his/her 5 cents worth posted on a forum.

[purrtypwincess]

As this belief is almost practically written in stone, women really want a guy who would appreciate their minds more than their bodies.

 

As a prime example, singer Alicia Keys once said in the news that she once had a boyfriend courting her for a year before she finally said yes. Her logic? That she would be giving both her body and soul to this would-be significant other and she would only find the best for these gifts that she has taken care of all her life.

 

Well said.

[ItchyFeetPinay86]

 

I can't generalise for all the women out there, but for me, what I'm looking for is a guy who's really confident about who he is, wouldn't allow me to boss him around, and someone who cares about how I feel, and trusts me more than anybody else.

 

[TanglewoodBoy]

 

I can't generalise for all the women out there, but for me, what I'm looking for is a guy who's really confident about who he is, wouldn't allow me to boss him around, and someone who cares about how I feel, and trusts me more than anybody else.

 

 

may i ask you Madam regarding those women who have strong personalities, always gets what they want, sometimes to the point of bossy??? what kind of man do they prefer in your opinion??

 

thanks in advance

[ItchyFeetPinay86]

 

 

@tanglewoodboy

 

You came to the right person, di naman sa pagyayabang, pero I'm the type of woman na I can get quite bossy kasi I sort of get everything I want.

 

What we want in a man?

 

1) Confident sa sarili.. ayaw na ayaw ko sa lahat yung mga sbrang wala nang inisip kundi ako, parang hello?? Nakipaghang out na lang sana ako sa pader. Yung maraming naiisip, maraming nasasabi, yung masaya kausap... and of course hindi yung PASIPSIP the whole time. I hate guys who never argue with me, even if I'm wrong.

 

2) Someone who's got ideas/things to share. Yung mga lalaking may hobbies or hilig, like let's say mahilig sa kotse computers whatever, then he can share his ideas about that, tapos we can converse about different things from there.

 

3) Gwapo is not as important as appeal.. and appeal comes from confidence, so yun parin ang number 1.

 

AYAW NA AYAW KO mayayabang na wala naman ibubuga.... Ayaw na ayaw ko din mga engot.... at mga sunud sunuran at weak ang personality.

 

Strong personality gusto ko, yung hindi papaunder kapag alam niang tama sya, pero shempre if he's wrong, he should be man enough to admit it too.

 

Lol thats it for now!!! I rememebr this guy I used to 'date' grabe, i was flirting with another guy in front of him na, wala pa din sha ginawa, nakatingin lang

 

 

Di naman ako evil, I did that to test what kind of a guy he is, kasi nga nararamdaman ko na he's too weak for me, and I was right. So obviously I stopped dating him from then on.

 

Peace!