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What my dumb heart taught me was too cut my wrist and bleed... :cry: It taught me that once you've lost someone or something, there will be no way to bring it as it was before... :cry: Like what happened to me... I broke up with my EX-boyfriend knowing that he loves me, but still, I decided to leave him for the belief that guys only want SEX and Be with pretty ladies... After that... 3 years nia akon trina try ma win back, kso, super ma pride... Gus2 q kasi ma prove na GUYS are all WHORE and they just want to give a damn hearthache :grr: I never had him back... Pero nung time na na realize ko na hindi lahat... at prinove nia na love nia akoh... E2 na yung time na hindi na siya pwdeng maging akin, kasi may nagmamayari n ng :heart: nia... at yun ang gus2 ng mom nia para sa kanya... kaya I prefer living on the dark side... Co'z it's where I belong... ............................................. :cry:

 

Everyone who has loved at one time or another has gotten hurt, its all part of love. But getting hurt shouldn't stop you from loving again. Put the past behind and learn from it. Give love a chance for only then will you find the one who truly belongs to you

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That sometimes love is not really enough to cover up some issues that is present, existing and can and will affect people close to you and to your partner, you just have to face it someday and learn to be unattached if not let got someday if it is for the good others, not necessarily for the happiness of you and your partner.

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Ther seems to be two basic types of people in love ...

 

one who will give & the other who will take

 

when takers fall in love, they compete for each other's resources & energy & both feel drained, tired but clinging to each other like two suction cups.

 

when takers & givers fall in love, the taker can't take enough & the giver can't give enough; like a monster goes berserk leaving behind the empty, cleaned out shell of a person.

 

when givers fall in love & give to each other, they seem to last, not perfectly but happily at least.

 

Bato bato sa langit ... Just my peso's opinion.

 

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hi there, i may not be as passionate as other man but i value this sonnect from shakespear let me share to you guys..this is how i define love

 

 

Let me not to the marriage of true minds

 

Admit impediments. Love is not love

 

Which alters when it alteration finds,

 

Or bends with the remover to remove:

 

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark

 

That looks on tempests and is never shaken;

 

It is the star to every wandering bark,

 

Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

 

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

 

Within his bending sickle's compass come:

 

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

 

But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

 

If this be error and upon me proved,

 

I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

 

 

 

William Shakespeare

:heart: :mtc:

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love taught me that it isn't love when it is inconsistent. love doesn't come in a jiffy and love cannot grow just because of intimacy. love has its own standards and levels for every individual. some could be too high, some could be just right. but darn! is it still love if you set standards? i don't get it really :lol:

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I just want to post an entry I wrote in my blog last month

 

Gusto kong magmoda. Nandito na siya sa wakas, ang iyong long distance jowa galing Cebu. Ang pathetic, no life at low life na jowa mo na wala ng ibang ginawa kundi tawagan ka araw-araw sa cellphone at makipagtelebabad ng mahigit isang oras. Nungkang gumasta siya ng 300 pesos everyday basta lang daw meron kayong communication at mag-work ang inyong relationship. Minsan nga iyan pa ang ugat ng inyong pag-aaway - ang madalas niyang pagtawag. Sabi mo nababanas ka na dahil masyado siyang makulit. Minsan wala pa sa oras ang pagtawag niya dahil erratic nga ang oras ng ating trabaho at oras ng pagtulog. Madalas natyetyempuhan niyang nanonood tayo ng DVD or naglalaro ng VTES or namamasyal sa mall. Medyo nase-sense ko na nage-gelli de belen siya dahil palagi mo akong kasama. Minsan nga narinig kong tinatanong niya sa iyo kung may boyfriend na ako. At nung minsang ni-request niyang makausap ako, sinabi niyang ihahanap daw niya ako ng boyfriend. Eww. As if naman isa ako sa mga kagaya niyang stupid people na kelangang magkaroon ng boyfriend to make themselves feel better. Excuse me pero hindi ako iyong tipong makikipag-jowa na lang sa kung sinong pontio pilato. "I am complete by myself" ang moda ko sa buhay. Kasi kung dine-define ko ang sarili ko sa pamamagitan ng ibang tao or sasabihin ng ibang tao e di nasayang lang pala ang aking UP education di ba?

 

Balik tayo kay no life, low life. Alam kong pareho tayong nag-aagree na di siya ganun katalino kagaya natin. Sa araw-araw na ginawa ng Diyos ang palagi niyong topic ay kung kumain na siya, kung kumain ka na at kung anong mga activities mo for the day. I don't mean to say na kelangan niyong magdebate tungkol sa political situation ng Pilipinas. Ikaw na rin mismo ang nagsabi na nung sinusubukan mong i-share sa kanya iyong mga concerns mo sa office or iyong mga moods mo, hindi niya masyadong ma-gets at wala siyang nabibigay na ma-happy na input. Hindi rin niya maintindihan kung paano ka mag-isip. Hindi niya makita ang isang bagay sa point of view mo or sa point of view ng iba, not because she does not want to, but because her brain is not capable of doing so. Kadalasan sinasabi niyang gagawin niya ang isang bagay kasi ginagawa mo, or magiging favorite na daw niya ang isang bagay just because favorite mo ito. Pu****-ina naman di ba? Get a life and a personality idiot!

 

Dalawang beses na kayong nag-break dahil sa irreconcilable differences. Tinanong mo pa nga sa akin kung ano ba dapat ang basis ng isang romantic relationship. Sabi mo kasi wala kayo halos things in common at ang mundo niya ay umiikot lang sa iyo pero mabait siya, patient sa iyo at nararamdaman mong sobrang mahal na mahal ka niya. Ebidensiya nga nito na siya ang laging tumatawag at gumagastos. At kahit na madalas binabagsakan mo siya ng telepono dahil sa inis mo sa kanyang kabobohan at hirap makaintindi more more tawag pa rin siya. Nung birthday mo nagpadala siya sa amin ng pera pambili ng personalized cake at pagkain para mag-celebrate ka with your friends (kasama din ako). Sinabi mo rin sa akin na nagkaroon ka na ng ibang jowa dati na matalino din at same wavelength mo pero hindi mo maramdaman ang ganoong level ng pag-care. Well, duh!! Kasi nga iyong mga taong matalino, may sariling life at hindi mo sila mararamdamang nagki-cling sa iyo, at ang magiting mong long distance jowa ay sa iyo lang umiikot ang mundo. Ah, nakalimutan ko palang isingit na minsan nung mag-break kayo ay ilang beses niya akong tinatawagan para tanungin kung paano ka niya susuyuin. My God!! Kumusta naman siya di ba? Gusto ko siyang bigyan ng "best in being pathetic" award. As in 1cm na lang ang nalalabi sa aking pasensiya.

 

Pero kung gusto ko siyang sapakin nung mga time na iyon, ikaw naman ay gusto kong hampasin sa ulo ngayon. Kasi naman pu***-ina sabi mo hindi ka na makikipagbalikan pero nalaman-laman ko na lang na kayo na pala ulit. Anak ng tokwa naman oo. Kung bobo siya, tanga ka, bagay nga kayo.

 

So ano ang point ko? Kasi nalaman laman ko na lang na mahal pala kita at ngayon andito ako sa opisina at mangiyak-ngiyak dahil wala akong magagawa para magbago ang isip mo. Pakihampas na rin pala ang ulo ko.

 

My point here is that I never thought that I would find a person that I would fall in-love with. I always thought I was too smart for that sort of thing and I have always felt that I would never put anybody's needs above mine (except of course for family and those that I consider friends).

 

Now I feel like I'm one of those illogical people na handang magpaka-martir huhuhu :(

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