iHouseMD Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 Hi Guys, I apologise if this might not be the right forum for this but I just need some advice as this is the first time I encountered this. There is this girl I met in a talk. I noticed she was trying to catch my glance. Then, we had the time, I get to know her name and she told me where she came from. I wasn't able to get her number and wasn't able to get a good conversation because of duty reasons - I'm a medical student, she is a lab scientist. After 2 days, I saw her in the cafe and approached her (with a female friend) and then asked if 'we could have a talk sometime over coffee or whatever' then she said yes, and gave me her number. Texted her and kinda told me that she usually takes lunch at 1pm and go home at 5pm. So, when the lunch happened, it was just the two of us. I bought the food and she offered to buy the drinks. We had a good conversation. I told her I will be in that hospital for just three more weeks. She then confirmed what I said. I said I'm very attracted to her and hopefully we can do this often. She said "I'm seeing someone but yeah, we could hangout, just text me during lunchtime." What is happening here? Please guys, I need advice. Quote Link to comment
MissCall Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 People change, and often they become the person they said they will never be. 1 Quote Link to comment
toruk makto Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 People change, and often they become the person they said they will never be. People change, and often they become the person they said they will never be. people do change but not that much. if they say they will never be that person, thats only words. truth is they are that person already but in denial. believe in action not words. Quote Link to comment
katie019 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Hi Guys, I apologise if this might not be the right forum for this but I just need some advice as this is the first time I encountered this. There is this girl I met in a talk. I noticed she was trying to catch my glance. Then, we had the time, I get to know her name and she told me where she came from. I wasn't able to get her number and wasn't able to get a good conversation because of duty reasons - I'm a medical student, she is a lab scientist. [/size]After 2 days, I saw her in the cafe and approached her (with a female friend) and then asked if 'we could have a talk sometime over coffee or whatever' then she said yes, and gave me her number. [/size]Texted her and kinda told me that she usually takes lunch at 1pm and go home at 5pm. [/size]So, when the lunch happened, it was just the two of us. I bought the food and she offered to buy the drinks. We had a good conversation. I told her I will be in that hospital for just three more weeks. She then confirmed what I said. I said I'm very attracted to her and hopefully we can do this often. [/size]She said "I'm seeing someone but yeah, we could hangout, just text me during lunchtime." [/size]What is happening here? Please guys, I need advice. [/size]Yeah, you might be in the wrong section. maybe she's interested in you, but not enough? She seems to want you around during lunch, but just remember, she is seeing someone. Maybe she just needs a lunch buddy. Just chill, and if you want her company, then just be lunch buddies. OnT: Love can't be forced. If it's not working out, even though it hurts, you got to move on. When you are ready, love will come again. Quote Link to comment
MissCall Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 (edited) believe in action not words.I agree. When you get confused, its always nice to go back to the old reliable saying " Action speaks louder than words". Edited February 22, 2015 by MissCall Quote Link to comment
MissCall Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Hi Guys, I apologise if this might not be the right forum for this but I just need some advice as this is the first time I encountered this. There is this girl I met in a talk. I noticed she was trying to catch my glance. Then, we had the time, I get to know her name and she told me where she came from. I wasn't able to get her number and wasn't able to get a good conversation because of duty reasons - I'm a medical student, she is a lab scientist. [/size]After 2 days, I saw her in the cafe and approached her (with a female friend) and then asked if 'we could have a talk sometime over coffee or whatever' then she said yes, and gave me her number. [/size]Texted her and kinda told me that she usually takes lunch at 1pm and go home at 5pm. [/size]So, when the lunch happened, it was just the two of us. I bought the food and she offered to buy the drinks. We had a good conversation. I told her I will be in that hospital for just three more weeks. She then confirmed what I said. I said I'm very attracted to her and hopefully we can do this often. [/size]She said "I'm seeing someone but yeah, we could hangout, just text me during lunchtime." [/size]What is happening here? Please guys, I need advice. [/size] Hey, just enjoy having lunch with her. If she said she is seeing someone, then probably it's up to you if you want to continue seeing her. Take your risk but don't put your heart on the line, just yet. Quote Link to comment
Observer08 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 The hardest promises to keep are the ones worth keeping. Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 love will always be selfish. Quote Link to comment
toruk makto Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 love will always be selfish. love will always be selfish. on the contrary, its magnanimous. love will always be selfish. on the contrary, its magnanimous. Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 (edited) ^maybe for you it is either way, wala nang basagan ng trip. Edited February 22, 2015 by glut_func Quote Link to comment
Hari ng Spakol Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 to be more practical Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 sa umpisa lang nagiging totoo at matamis ang pagmamahal, katagalan mawawala din yan Quote Link to comment
dinibdib Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 use the mind and not the heart Quote Link to comment
temurlenk Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you, in other words, mag ingat sa karma. 1 Quote Link to comment
neville Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 You will give the other person your time no matter how busy you are. Quote Link to comment
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