love What Has Love Taught You Lately?

[Viola]

that it is overrated... better to just numb my heart and protect it than let you break it again and again.

[munchkins and donuts]

na kung tutuusin, kayang lutasin ng pag-ibig ang world hunger.

[BornAtNight]

Pag inlove ka Kayang Kaya mong ibigay ang

 

LAHAT !

[semimaru]

What Has Love Taught You Lately?

 

I learned that even if you feel strongly for each other, there may come a time when the limits of your commitment to each other will be tested. That is the moment of truth.

 

I learned that when you each go your own separate ways, life has to go on. If a relationship has been a deeply cherished one, it's quite understandable to mourn its loss and be affected by it beyond what most people consider a reasonable amount of time.

 

I learned that even if a relationship takes a conscious effort to maintain, I'd still prefer to allow things to take their natural course. I appreciate it better when things are free-flowing, because control is an illusion. People's choices are a consequence of who they are. I'm a lot happier knowing that we both keep the relationship not by force, but out of choice.

 

Thumbs up to you man....I have experienced this and I am living it right now

Edited December 29, 2010 by semimaru

[maniaclara]

i learned that a recently extinguished flame will always try to stun me when i'm already trying to move on... and that if i'm serious about moving on, i should just ignore these "interruptions"...

[dorkas]

...na msmdli tlg gawin ang mga bagay2 kpg mhal m isng tao...gaanu p man ito kahirap

[mc_kester]

ang natutunan ko sa pag-ibig eh ang umibig din ng lubusan. yung hindi maging makasarili at maging mapag bigay sa minamahal, magparaya at umunawa at magpatawad at muling magmahal.

[friendly0603]

It's easy to make mistakes, it's harder to live with them.

[Leyna]

Love can really make up for a lot of things that you lack.

[ndn]

Love unconditionally and always be ready for the unexpected to happen.

[solterongsundutero]

too much love can either k*ll you or make you k*ll

[cHinitababe86]

that love will truly test your whole being. hahaha!

there are things that you don't do, but will surely do for that person..

meron kang unacceptable na mga bagay na ayaw mo, pero pag alam mo

na para dun sa taong mahal mo, you would give it.

 

lastly, minsan, kahit gaano kasakit, at dumating na sa point na

sinasabi mo na "ayaw mo na, ang sakit sakit na" kaunting lambing

lang nya, nawawala ung mga hurt. nakakalimutan mo, ayaw mo na.

at makasakit na.haha

when you're already burned, kahit alam mo pwede kapa mapaso ulit,

u'l entrust your heart once again.

Edited January 28, 2011 by cHinitababe86

[jgc813]

I learned that: Love as a concept is SO VERY DIFFERENT from Love that is actual. If you get stuck with the concept, you will fail in the actual.

 

Love is truer as "negative" rather than "positive." Love is proven when you are denied, rather than when you are allowed.

 

One concrete example is in the aspect of sex. And I will speak as a male.

 

More often than not, we men are the first to make the move. We often make that move. We always want that move.

 

There are times, our S.O. denies our moves. They don't feel well, they're not in the mood, they have some problem, they have their period.

 

They tell us: "honey, not now lang muna."

 

When we are able to accept that, and bear with that, and still go on to enjoy her company in spite of the fact we cannot make love to her, THAT'S LOVE. When we would feel bad to the point that we cancel our date, or get mad, or show disgust, THAT'S LUST. Obviously, it's easier to say "I love you" when we are engaging in sex, than when we just can't have sex. When we can say we love someone in a moment when we just can have sex, it is then we can say, we have come to accept our S.O. as a person, and just as someone with a body.

 

Little by little, I'm beginning to understand why even God wrote the 10 commandments with 8 in the negative (Thou shall NOT...), and 2 in the positive (specifically, the 3rd and the 4th, which are, "Remember thou keep holy the Lord's day," and "Honor thy father and thy mother" respectively.)

 

Positives have always a wide level of interpretation, while negatives are more direct and to-the-point.

Edited January 28, 2011 by jgc813

[Red_Skorpion31]

Not to become a fool.

[Seishi]

Healthy love reaps healthy relationship.... and I don't just mean romantic love.