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hindi pwedeng isa lang ang nagmamahal.. hindi rin pwedeng hindi pantay ang pagmamahal.. hindi pwedeng isa lang mag eeffort.. hindi pwede ipilit ang nararamdaman.. at maski gaano mo pa kamahal ang isang tao at kung di k nya kayang mahalin ng gaya ng pagmamahal mo ay mapapagod ka rin.. pero once wala na sya ay doon mo ma realize ang halaga nya s buhay mo noon.. maiisip mo na minahal ka rin nman nya talaga maski paano s paraan na alam nya.. na totoo rin nman lahat sinasabi nya s nararamdaman nya sayo... kaso kung hindi tlg kayo tinadhana ay wala rin.. dhil bukod s pagmamahal ay mas importante ang buong tiwala at respeto sa isa't isa.. importante rin alamin kung nababagay ka s mundo na ginagalawan nya.. at tanungin rin ang sarili kung ikaw b tlg ang tao na magpapasaya s kanya.. kung hindi ikaw ay tangapin mo lahat dahil di lahat ay controlado mo.. hindi lahat ng sumusuko ay dahil sa hindi mo n sya mahal.. minsan mahal mo na kasi sya na sobra sobra na ibibigay mo maski kalayaan nya pr mahanap n nya totoong magpapasaya s kanya dahil hindi mo matiis makita sya nahihirapan habang anjan ka pa na hadlang s mga gusto nya pa makamit s buhay nya.. na minsan hindi na sapat yun nabibigay mo s kanya at naiaambag s pagkatao nya.. ang relasyon dapat sabay kayo may growth.. kung ginawa mo n lahat at hindi mo pa rin sya mapabuti.. then its time to move on and accept na hindi ikaw ang kailangan ng taong mahal mo..

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What Has Love Taught You Lately?

 

I learned that even if you feel strongly for each other, there may come a time when the limits of your commitment to each other will be tested. That is the moment of truth.

 

I learned that when you each go your own separate ways, life has to go on. If a relationship has been a deeply cherished one, it's quite understandable to mourn its loss and be affected by it beyond what most people consider a reasonable amount of time.

 

I learned that even if a relationship takes a conscious effort to maintain, I'd still prefer to allow things to take their natural course. I appreciate it better when things are free-flowing, because control is an illusion. People's choices are a consequence of who they are. I'm a lot happier knowing that we both keep the relationship not by force, but out of choice.

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