love What Has Love Taught You Lately?

[QueenBee]

I used to love unconditionally but I've been burned badly by those people I've loved. Kaya ngayon ratio is 50% sa partner 50% love sa sarili ko. I think trust needs to be earn in a relationship. Dapat ipakita niyang worthy siya para sayo.

[_RyAn`AgOnCiLLo_]

yah siguro in my part half half ayaw ko na ng whole hart magmahal... lagi ako nasasaktan... nakakasawa na rin.. pero thats the point u should have one for yourself kc pag naiwan ka ..its gonna be painful...try to balance it.. aight ! peace! hehehhe

[Inaj]

before yes i gave everything coz first love ko pero when we broke up i almost got crazy coz i dunno wat to do......but now i learned my lesson ngayon i leave something 4 myself mhirap n eh....hehhe

[MiSsEd StReSs]

for me I don't consider it a love kapag hindi ko nabibigay ang 100% ko. But I know it's always a risk... Pero yun nga ung exciting sa love di ba... You're always at risk....

[BnF95]

Hmmm ... is it must just be me, but I've never considered love as having a "cap". I can love someone to the extreme, yet at the same time love myself just as much, for that matter, love others to the same degree as well. Love isn't a quantitative thing, it's more about quality.

[cyber_princesa26]

I remember one text message that I received a few months ago. It says sumting like, "When God gives you something or someone, don't hold it too tight so that when God takes it away, it won't hurt too much..." Loving someone is the best thing that anyone cud ever experience but sometimes, when you love too much, you tend to forget Him, you tend to forget that He was the one who gave you that person, you tend to idolize the person and that's the time that He takes away what He has given us, to make us realize that there are better things out there.

 

When you love someone, don't let him take over your life. learn to have your own life din db? have your own circle of friends. Grow with other people. Learn from other people. indi kayo pwedeng mabuhay ng kayo lang magtititigan buong buhay nyo.

[rss1873]

tama lang magtira ka sa sarili mo. RESPETO sa sarili tawag dun

[abysmalholer]

Loving requires a leap of faith...its a conscious choice and decision to go beyond one's self for the other...in an unconditional state...no ifs no buts...that for me is true love.

 

 

BRO... okay yan.. :thumbsupsmiley:

[innervoice]

i guess for me, i rarely let myself fall, pero when i do, i give myself 100% kahit alam kong dapat magtira ng konti para sa sarili ko. I guess i'm not comfortable loving and holding back some part of me for myself when the relationship ends.... when i let myself fall i see to it that i can give everything i have, when it comes to ending i can tell myself i gave my all and it still have to end... so i'll walk away... and i'll never look back. At least alam kong i did everthing i can di ba?

[simple_denise]

Ako din, I give my 100% love sa taong mahal ko kahit na minsan ang ending ay masaktan ako....

[mosy_24]

Marami rin ngsasabi skin ng ganyan na wag mo ibigay lhat mgtira ka sa srili mo!!! Ako kc simula ng natuto akong mgmahal 100% tlga bnibgay ko... Noon pg nasasaktan ako cnasabi ko nxt tym d na 100% ang ibbgay ko pro kinakain ko rn sa huli cnasabi ko.. Mahirap kc lalo na pg mahal na mahal mo ang isang tao mahirap limitahan ang pagmamahal na ilalaan mo pra sa knya e!!!

[kitzsen18]

para akin mga bro, kung magmamahal k ng isang tao wag mong ibigay ng 100% ang pagmamahal dhil ikaw lang din ang masasaktan, ganito yun, sbihin n natin mahal k ng asawa mo, dhil sinasabi niya yun at pinapakita, pero ang laman b ng puso niya nkikita mo nde diba 100% din b ang bigay niya syo, nde mo alam diba, kaya mga bro magtira tyo para s ating sarili para kung sakali man meron nde magandang mangyari madali k makakamove on, ibigay mo nalng ang pagmamahal mo s mga anak mo......................PEACE

[lordraven12]

natutunan ko na masarap pa lang mag mahal ng diyos ang nasa gitna ng pag sasama nyo....

[simple_denise]

if you love the person, no "but's", no "if"...just pure love and trust

[archervinny]

If you love someone, you have to let that person know before that person leaves you. Sometimes we have to fight for something, for someone... but sometimes we have to fight for what is RIGHT.

[tsunade]

that it's not always a bed of roses... that you have to be true to your feelings and that you should never change the other person... it doesn't work that way.

[TNT Hsia]

Some people really say the right things but make the wrong moves. They will sincerely say what they feel in their hearts but can't help but behave in a contrary manner because of baser instincts. And forgiveness can only work when its works both ways.

[wynd247]

that most right decisions are the hardest to make, hurts the most and usually turns out to be the easiest to be taken back...

[panicbutton]

"I have learned to love not BECAUSE OF...but now I love INSPITE OF..."

Edited September 7, 2006 by panicbutton

[iwalkalone]

Love is....fathomless

[ElPuto]

natutunan ko sa love ... maging totoo ... n walang point magstay sa relationship kung walang love...

 

ngayon ko din nlmn n kailgan maging firm s desisyon ko... masakit pero un ung tama... natutunan ko din n khit gano kgulo yong sitwasyon ko mahal ako ng gf ko

 

ang hirap maging adult... dahil pinapahirap...

[tessa215]

that even though how much you love the person, the best thing to do is to let go.

 

that you have to have self worth if you want the loving relationship to work.

 

that you should love yourself more or lose yourself in the end.

[nash_rhm]

i have learned that love cannot really be couched in specific terms. that we can only define indicators for its existence, to wit: 1) element of sacrifice, 2) unconditionality, 3) permanence (foreverness), 4) does not tolerate the wrong doing, yet 5) it does not keep a record of mistake either.

 

if this 5 things are present... love is existing..

[jubert]

love because u said so, u mean so, not because he or she is the best on your new list of lovers..

[G T]

dont be selfish.accepting mistakes,learning from them, mending fences and moving on.