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What Has Love Taught You Lately?


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Someone just asked me recently... how can you tell if you have the right guy (to marry).

 

Sabi ko, there's no special technique, way or indication.

 

Give it time, because

- a guy can't put his best foot forward forever, he'll slip and you'll get to see how he really is in time

- you need to see how he is with other people, with his family, with his close friends. If he treats them all well, then he'll treat you well too

- you need to see how he handles challenges, problems, disappointments, etc. How he handles these things now, is how he'll handle it when you're together

 

So, no rush. Give it time. Use your head not just heart. If they don't agree, he's not the right guy.

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Don't try to read men or analyze them. There is nothing to read nor analyze. They are as clear as day. If you say you don't get them, you are probably giving too much meaning when there is none beyond what is obvious.

 

Absolutely true.

 

Also want to add, when a guy hits his mid to late 20's. That's it. He'll mellow down a bit over time, but what you see is what you get. Don't ever assume you can improve him at that point

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Just when you think you know everything about love, you wake up one day and something will make you realize you don't know all there is to know. And you will see yourself thinking differently, doing something that cannot be explained and may be hard to understand.

 

Love never works out the way you hope or think it will.At best you can only pray the outcome will be as palatable as possible, even if it's till death do us part..

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If you spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, youu will miss finding the one who treats you like a priority.

The questions are:

1. Will you also treat the latter as a priority and not an option?

2. Are you really happy(ier) with the latter one or the previous one? It's not like we suddenly can redirect our feelings toward someone else.

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