phookie22 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 getting married changes everything. di na pwede yung patampo tampo like you used to when you were just going steady. wala na din yung panakot na magbreak na tayo. getting married means that you need to make up for the things your partner cannot and does not have, like patience. it takes more patience to love a person you're going to spend your life with rather that the emotion itself. Quote Link to comment
mightbeyou Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 :goatee: love has taught me lessons that we only get by experiencing it first hand...it showed me how to be strong and get up after you have been kicked down and out to the ground...i have managed to realize that in order to truly love someone, i must love my self first more than anyone else...and in giving or sharing love, one does not do so in order to be compensated or loved back but rather love is shown in order to be happy and fulfill that happiness... :goatee: Quote Link to comment
TanglewoodBoy Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 :goatee: love has taught me lessons that we only get by experiencing it first hand...it showed me how to be strong and get up after you have been kicked down and out to the ground...i have managed to realize that in order to truly love someone, i must love my self first more than anyone else...and in giving or sharing love, one does not do so in order to be compensated or loved back but rather love is shown in order to be happy and fulfill that happiness... :goatee:Â tama! +1Â :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
erasthai Posted October 21, 2009 Share Posted October 21, 2009 patience and more sacrifices.. Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 Just when you thought you found the perfect guy for you..He used to message you 24/7..Telling things that he misses you and wants to be with you always..All those sweet words coming from him, knowing that he is married but still accepted him..They say that nothing is fast when it comes to love..But if you've given so much already, what's next?He can never replace all those tears and loneliness  sobrang agree. masakit pa magmahal if the guy's married. hindi naman buong orasnya maibibigay nya, hindi rin lahat pwede nya ibigay sayo lalo na may pamilyasiyang dapat i-provide. gusto mo man siya kasama sa bawat night na natutulog ka,still, at the end of the day, sa bahay parin nila siya uuwi.  mahirap pa dyan, pag masyado nyo na mahal ang isat isa, at hindi na kayang kumawala,sakit lang sainyo pareho ang idudulot ng pagmamahal na pinasok nyo.ang pagpasok sa relasyong ganito, sa huli wala rin patutunguhan, meron man,may maaapektuhan at masasaktan kung gugustuhin nyo parehong lumigaya at magsama.  huwag maging stupid.. hija, hindi mo minsan masasabi na huwag maging stupid. kasi there will be times naunconsciously, nagiging t*nga kana na sobrang pagmamahal mo nalang sakanya anginaalala mo. alam mong dehado kana, sige ka parin. tapos bandang huli iiwan ka langna nasaktan, at luhaan   --- AND FOR MY ANSWER: natuto ako na sa pagmamahal, hindi mo dapat ibigay ng buo ang sarili mo,siguraduhin na may iiwan ka na para sa iyo, para madapa ka man, may lakas kapa para tumayo ulit at magpatuloy. Quote Link to comment
Dinopuppy Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 Love has taught me lately is that "Love Will Change You". Quote Link to comment
miss_sungit Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 (edited) true love works in mysterious ways. it will lead you back to that person who is worthy and deserves your love. in short, madami mang contestants at marami man mag-contest, in the end the Winner will still be the Winner! Edited October 22, 2009 by miss_sungit Quote Link to comment
ronzaph Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 ..realized not to play around with love....you'll just regret it in the end and may just backfire on you... Quote Link to comment
Etahn_24 Posted October 23, 2009 Share Posted October 23, 2009 love has thought me to be responsible..... Quote Link to comment
Duel of Fate Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 love has taught me that laughter can take you to time immemorial. Quote Link to comment
TanglewoodBoy Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 Love has taught me to accept her faults and try to correct them as much as possible.... Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 it's overrated. Quote Link to comment
JHP Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 It can be true. It can be false. It can make us willing to k*ll for another. It can make us willing to die for another. It can be betrayed. It can be redeemed. It can wound. It can heal. It will never be perfect. But it can be real. In the end, love is not a tingly emotion or a stirring in the loins. Love is a conscious decision, an act of will. Especially when the starting line of romance, youth, passion has faded away into the past. We define it and live it. Or not. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 it's all a matter of choice. Quote Link to comment
Lord Superb Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 I'm still trying to learn, which is why I'm wondering if the fulfillment of "need" is the basis of love. We all need someone with a certain beauty, physically and mentally. We need someone who could satisfy us sexually, connect with mentally and emotionally. We need someone to trust, someone to cry, smile, laugh with. Is it possible to love without satisfying these endless needs, this immortal wound? Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 Sacrifice is a requirement for true love... Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 Sacrifice is a requirement for true love... Quote Link to comment
slimguyph Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 That love isn't really uncontrollable. You can control this emotion. You can work at strenghtening it, or weakening it.  The choice is actually ours to make. Quote Link to comment
shikta Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 It is not a choice. You are either in love or not in love. There really is nothing in between. When in love, enjoy it. When not in love, enjoy it too. Life is just the fluctuation of emotions. All emotions should be cherished. Quote Link to comment
tombone Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 Nothing is written in stone, anything can still happen. Quote Link to comment
smbeer88 Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 I have learned that sometimes, they are just after money.. sigh.. Quote Link to comment
DangerousGurl Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 too much love.. makes you a fool.. Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 hmmm.....you can only know if a girl/guy loves you if they don't cheat on you...or the other way around.....you know if you love the girl or guy if you don't cheat on them... Quote Link to comment
mistyfire Posted October 29, 2009 Share Posted October 29, 2009 ... that LOVE doesn't really exist. Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted October 29, 2009 Share Posted October 29, 2009 (edited) Edited October 29, 2009 by UncleFrancy Quote Link to comment
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