love What Has Love Taught You Lately?

[tugesan]

a friend of mine sent this to me...just want to share it here

 

Inspiring quotes from Sex in the City...

 

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

 

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

 

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.

 

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

 

5. Stop changing yourself for a relationship

 

6. Don't force an attraction.

 

7. Slower is better.

 

8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

 

9. If a relationship ends because the man was not

treating you as you deserve then heck no you

can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

 

10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,

but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.

 

11. Don't settle.

 

12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

 

13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?

 

14. Don't stay because you think "it will get

better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for

staying when things are not better.

 

15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.

 

16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

 

17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.

 

18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a

bunch of different women. He didn't marry them

when he got them pregnant, why would he treat

you any differently?

 

19. You really have to kiss a few frogs before finding your prince

 

20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

 

21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

 

22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If

something bothers you , speak up.

 

23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.

 

24. Be honest and upfront.

 

25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.

 

26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on)

 

27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will

treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his

family (not just mom).

 

28. There's more than physical abuse, there's

emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of

them...flee.

 

29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

 

30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not

willing to follow himself -- double-standard.

 

31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more

important than you are...even if he has more

education or in a better job.

 

32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a

man, nothing more nothing less.

 

33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!

 

34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see

 

35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.

Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.

 

36. Actions speak louder than words.

 

37. Never let a man define who you are.

 

38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to

yourself for that.

 

39. Never borrow someone else's man.

 

40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

 

41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't

mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean

that you are meant to be with him.

 

42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.

 

43. Know that you deserve to be the number one

person in the life of the #1person in your life.

 

44. Love is a verb ...

 

45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to

make someone unavailable-available, someone

ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

 

46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

 

47. All men are NOT dogs.

 

48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two

way street.

 

49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.

 

50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.

 

51. You need time to heal between

relationships...there is nothing cute about

baggage ...deal with your issues before pursuing a

new relationship.

 

52. You should never look for someone to

COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two

WHOLE individuals...look for someone

complementary...not supplementary.

 

53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

 

54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.

 

55. Never become your man's "therapist".

 

56. When actions and words conflict, believe the

actions. Respond to the actions.

 

57. A real healthy relationship requires two

people. One person can end it - but it takes two to

make it work.

 

58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (WITHIN REASON) that he wouldn't do for you

 

59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man

always know where you are,

and you're always readily available to him he

takes it for granted.

 

60. Give him his space...let him go out with his

boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you,

You cant force a man to hang out with you.

 

61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.

 

62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

 

63. Never move into his mother's house.

 

64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.

 

65. Ne ver co-sign for a man.

 

66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.

 

67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.

 

68. Never let a man mess up your credit.

 

69. When it's time to let go; let go.

 

70. Good men should be treated like good men.

 

71. Don't play games.

 

72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

 

73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

 

74. Compatibility in terms of educational

attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career

goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.

 

75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.

 

 

 

love it ! thanks for sharing...

 

 

 

 

 

REcentli I learned that U can only take so much....so much lies, so much hurts...so much pains...that even if u've done ur part its not enough to make things work

[girlet]

someday, someone will walk into your life. and will make you realize why it didnt work with anybody else.

[sidcruz]

I learned to love my self first prior to others.... from now on am not gonna change the way i am just to please somebody to let them stay... I gave much but not asking in return.. its just that i need to save something for myself after after all the things have said and done.. parang bagyong Ondoy at Pepeng.... after the devastation.... start picking up yourself brighter day will come... hehehehhe

[TanglewoodBoy]

I learned to love my self first prior to others.... from now on am not gonna change the way i am just to please somebody to let them stay... I gave much but not asking in return.. its just that i need to save something for myself after after all the things have said and done.. parang bagyong Ondoy at Pepeng.... after the devastation.... start picking up yourself brighter day will come... hehehehhe

 

tama yan paps, after all what's been said and done, pero easier said than done when you meet the person who will change your life not necessarily the right person

 

but LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF is the GREATEST LOVE OF ALL...

 

:thumbsupsmiley:

[MISSPRYM]

Being BF-less for the last 12 months had been difficult the first 2 months. The first two months being the period around my birthday and the holidays. But then I realized if you can make it through your birthday and the Christmas season alive without a BF, you will definitely make it through V-day, Ondoy and other catastrophes.

 

Being without an SO spares you the itch too k*ll someone who neither tells you where they are nor if they were still alive. It spares you the trouble of replying to sms during busy hours at work, just to say "hi, i'm fine. u? take care." It spares you the hours second-guessing what the other is up to and you get this gnawing feeling that he is two-timing with some random girl he met online.

 

And now, I have more time with people who matter. People who love me, not because I might give good sex, but because I am me - beautiful in ways only they can tell.

 

I love being single and unattached for a change.

Edited October 16, 2009 by MISSPRYM

[Mango Man]

TOUCHE!!

 

hindi porke't sinabihan ka ng aylabyu, kayo na.

[Giancarlo Judge]

Love has thought me there is no such thing as unconditional love.. No one can can live up to it.

[Giancarlo Judge]

Love has thought me there is no such thing as unconditional love.. No one can can live up to it.

[kupaloid1]

wag basta basta magtiwala sa tao at hindi dapat all out kagad kasi parang nawawala kagad challenge

[QTkolehiyala]

Just when you thought you found the perfect guy for you..

He used to message you 24/7..

Telling things that he misses you and wants to be with you always..

All those sweet words coming from him, knowing that he is married but still accepted him..

They say that nothing is fast when it comes to love..

But if you've given so much already, what's next?

He can never replace all those tears and loneliness

[MS]

...that loving someone is not an easy task....

[tenneck13]

love = sacrifice (tama ba spelling ko)

[angel_by_day]

whether lately, or ages ago, they are lessons just the same..

 

 

1. never expect people to stay when they arent meant to, to start with.

2. never expect people to behave well when you've met in places, and under such circumstances, where the opposite is expected of them

3. your vision will get cloudy at some point in time. get ready with clearer lenses. (read: use your common sense)

4. some learn fast. others take a lifetime. in whatever category you fit in, just make sure you picked up something worth remembering....and worth your memory space.

5. lastly, love may come the next instant, even before you get to recognize its face......or, on the contrary, it may never happen again. regardless, learn to fret and whine less....and live life one happy day at a time. If the recent tragedies havent taught you that yet, i dont know what else will....

[TanglewoodBoy]

love has taught me to just be more patient, don't rush your feelings for the person and the same way don't rush her to feel for you if mayrun nga, hahaha

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huwag maging stupid..