erika123 Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 I won't pick a fight when a partner read my text messages, but it sure is a major turn off for me. Quote Link to comment
Lei999 Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 Yup if you're not hiding anything i dont think there'll be any issues. May issues lang pag may mahuhuli Quote Link to comment
BrightestStar Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Sometimes na lang Quote Link to comment
BrightestStar Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I think this is ok. It gives your partner assurance. Yeah. It definitely adds to the trust level. Quote Link to comment
abtt Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 If she asks, i will....but i will not volunteer it, hehehe. Quote Link to comment
MikeyArrovo Posted September 13, 2011 Share Posted September 13, 2011 delete ko muna unwanted message Quote Link to comment
kewlboi Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 this is always a problem for me, i hate the idea that my cellphone, email and facebook is open to her access. she says that it builds trust and if there's nothing to hide, it shouldn't bother me. i have nothing to hide but it still bothers me. it's like my personal space is invaded. it's like sharing a toothbrush. it's just not healthy. Quote Link to comment
jazon7099 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 i do let her read my text messages. it is hust to give her the impression na ala ako itinatago. Quote Link to comment
Singkit aj214 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Yes it is re-assuring, and yes it is where I found out, that I was a second option in taking her to work that fateful day... Quote Link to comment
kenichi15 Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 i dont mind at all.from time to time she asks for my fone, reads the messages or look into my pics or play games, sometimes she just borrows it to take snaps of herself. minsan nababasa niya messages ng mga kaibigan kong babae. some theras messages. some angels from club. she just giggles and makes biro to me. shes not the jealous type. but pag nagselos grabe so id rather let her read and browse my fone over and over kaysa mag duda pa. Quote Link to comment
ScrappyDoo13 Posted October 19, 2011 Share Posted October 19, 2011 Yes, I allow my Fiance` to read all my Tex messages, even FB or Email Messages. Wala naman akong tinatago eh , and Vice Versa. Before kasi, eto din ang pinag-aawayan namin.. But now, kulang nalang eh mag exchange kami ng Phones hehehe. Quote Link to comment
ZariHemi Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 if it is my future wife that will be yes, its better to be faithful iwas sa sakit sa ulo.kong girlfriend ko eh depende but mostly i let them be wala naman siyang mapapala sa cellphone ko stick to one at a time ako its better that way walang sakit sa ulo at kong may mag txt na iba at mag seselos tell her directly the truth kong wala ka namang ginagawang milagro eh di ka matatakot Quote Link to comment
Chiq Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 I'm not the type who'd sneak up on my significant other's phone and read his text messages. Whats the point? I feel that its cunning and malicious and downright pathetic. If you feel like you want to know something from your partner, then just ask him. I used to have a man who'd guard me like a hawk and read my text messages. It's irritating. And it's very childish. There was even a time when he took note of one of the numbers on my phone and called. (And no, I havent had any history of cheating with him. He was just born paranoid, LOL). That was the last straw. I broke off with him after a week. P.S. I also dont get couples who share their email and FB passwords. Hahaha. Quote Link to comment
Guest nick fury Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 (edited) i don't since this is an invasion of privacy but if she's suspicious and she insists on checking my messages, i guess i have to let her see it. Edited October 23, 2011 by nick fury Quote Link to comment
jgc813 Posted October 25, 2011 Share Posted October 25, 2011 I'm not the type who'd sneak up on my significant other's phone and read his text messages. Whats the point? I feel that its cunning and malicious and downright pathetic. If you feel like you want to know something from your partner, then just ask him. I used to have a man who'd guard me like a hawk and read my text messages. It's irritating. And it's very childish. There was even a time when he took note of one of the numbers on my phone and called. (And no, I havent had any history of cheating with him. He was just born paranoid, LOL). That was the last straw. I broke off with him after a week. P.S. I also dont get couples who share their email and FB passwords. Hahaha. I agree with you. A relationship should be built on trust and that should allow each of you his/her own private spaces. There's really no need to know everything about each other. I think the above is part of being mature also. The more mature the partners are, the better they will be relating to each other. Quote Link to comment
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