love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[veinshard]

ako okay lang basahin niya. mas okay nga yon, may PA nako

[Miggz]

No choice. She'll think I'm fooling around if I don't allow her to look

[rockchic]

i check his phone, he checks mine. i have habit of checking his call lists too. i'm equally allergic to the nakasilent mode.. hahah fishy pag nagtatago ng cellphone hahaha

[RED2018]

I always assume that she reads all my cp's messages...for my part, I see to it that the messages won't put our bond in peril (either I erase messages with unexplainable 'perception' or won't allow possible 'naughty' texters to get my cp number)

 

Havin' said that, transparency is paramount- eventually this same transparency will breed trust and firmer bond...

[kira21]

Its fine with me... and a lot of my exes have than that to me, peeking without me knowing it. anyway I always grant them the privilege to do that to gain their trust.

[infrasound]

No for me. I told my gf once na we have our personal lives other than us being a couple. So respect for privacy is important too.

[Mr_man]

I have nothing to hide and besides, letting her check my phone does away with petty rows.

[robsalvador]

My wife only selectively..

 

My GF always, yes..

Edited November 4, 2010 by robsalvador

[bitoysworld123]

Most of the time I have my phone with me... Rarely that I would let my gf look at it or even let her read my messages hehe. But if she insists, had no choice but to let it be. Anyways, I delete the messages which are not supposed to be read by anyone than me

[orionquest]

hindi dapat. ang problema pag pinakialaman.

[ThUgZtaH]

it's like this. if you've got nothing to hide, why bother trying to keep her off your phone?

[jays0n]

nope

[Ja_07]

no way honey....hindi pwede un ..cel pati wallet..hindi pwede pakialaman....maliban na lang kung walang pera at lalgyan nya...or nagtext si kumareng SMART and si Kumpareng GLOBE at SUN....pababasa ko pa sa kanya...I have the right to privacy...no trespassing...

[tequila5]

Hindi naman sya yung type na nagchecheck ng phone, maybe because he thinks that it's a personal or private thing. I also do that before -- i don't read his cp. But after I've discovered a couple of ugly things just recently.. t@ena no way he can keep it from me. Trust is an issue now.

[erato]

I won't read text messages on anyone's phone, even if it was lying there and no one's watching. Really. I expect to be accorded the same respect. I don't want anyone touching my phone (and my laptop, and my stuff) without first asking me. It's an invasion of privacy. As for trust issues, I am not the suspicious type. And in the same way I want people to take my word, I just take other people's word, even if it's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. I'd like to think that it doesn't make me a fool; it makes me understanding.