knoll1234 Posted June 17, 2010 Share Posted June 17, 2010 never doubt yourself. self-esteem and confidence does help women decide ultimately. not looks. Of course, you hear them comment,"wow pogi", crush ko si ganto etc., There is no such thing as real ugly.What might be ugly to you might be handsome to another. It's in the eyes of the beholder. I cannot judge myself though, having had GF's of the upside looks to the average looks, in three races, white, japanese-portuguese, pinoy race. Right now I got a pinay wife and a mestiza GF. Quote Link to comment
ndn Posted June 21, 2010 Share Posted June 21, 2010 Ako din nagtataka ako eh. sa ugali? chemistry? Me hindi ako gwapo pero hindi rin naman ako pangit,pero sa twing nakakakita ako ng pangit na may syotang maganda,nakaka-insecure talaga and nakakababa ng confidence. Quote Link to comment
tlpnds Posted June 21, 2010 Share Posted June 21, 2010 Men, ask yourselves why Dolphy had so many women. Hehehehehehe. Quote Link to comment
BRONX Posted June 21, 2010 Share Posted June 21, 2010 (edited) simple, women don't care about our appearance anymore, what they do care most is our WALLET, our CAR, if you have all these things, makakakuha mo lahat ng babae na gusto mo. girls, don't be hypocrite anymore, enough good qualities na... lol I bet the disagree na most beautiful girls ay nakukuha sa pakapalan ng bulsa or pagandahan ng kotse..etc.. Looking good is not the same as looking beautiful. You may not look very handsome and could be considered the average Joe, but you sure can still look good and hit up beautiful woman…How?? Hmm..; Here are some reasons or ways kung bakit ang Magagandang babae ay mas Pinili yung hindi kagwapuhang lalaki. First at least you have HUMOR..being funny and witty or having great sense of humor is the most important in order to win beautiful woman. Even the more intelligent gorgeous woman thinks this as a big trait. Hindi naman porke mayron ka sense of humor eh banat ka lang ng banat ng mga crude jokes,,you have at least creative in some ways by turning serious topics into funny things. Na hindi nakakasakit. Yes I agree with the above post Dolphy is a good example. And I agree also with what Chinitababe says on previous post.Second is LOOKS, You think kahit gaano kpa kapangit , butas-butas yung mukha bungal yung ipin etc. eh hindi ka papansinin ng babae..of course not..madali naman kasing deskartihan tong mga ito..cosmetic specialist lang kailangan.. Antway, If you'r not belong to the above category and you look as an ordinary male, then it is not difficult to LOOK GOOD.You have at least know how you chose your dress, handle your posture, and the most important thing is the way you Smile.. Third is CONFIDENCE ..Self confidence is the most important in almost every aspect of everyday of our lives, You might be persuaded by someone who speaks clearly, who holds his or her head high, who answers questions assuredly, and who readily admits when he or she does not know something. Just gain a sense of self-efficacy and enhance self-esteem..heads-up high. Fourth is EMPATHY. Being empathetic is about rapport and openness between people. When it is absent, people are less likely to consider your needs and feelings. The best way to build empathy is to help the other person feel that they are understood. That means being an active listener, It allows us to create bonds of trust, it gives us insights into what others may be feeling or thinking..Rest assured girls like someone to have this..being their side. Kahit hindi ka kagandahang lalaki. Last is CHARISMA, Charisma is that magnetic and magical quality that attracts you to another..Pipiliin ka bang makadare ng isang magandang babae,,kung Manina loob mo .Siyempre Hindi..Mamaya aatikihin kna bigla sa puso kasalanan pa nong Magandang babaeng kadate mo diba .heheh lolz.. To conclude with hindi naman importante na dapat mayron ka nitong lima eh. Basta mayron ka 3 out of 5 ,And HUMOR is the compulsory..Bahala kna sa dalawa Shoot kna to date with Hot Gorgeous woman out there..Like Samantha James..Really don't have any idea whose Beautiful here in MTC..kya sya na lang example ko ..haha lolz.. It is easy to pretend to have a date with beautiful girls with a rich men with super expensive cars. Do you think this things won't disappear ???( i.e. money , cars, etc. ) Some beautiful women tend towards ugly men because they like oxymorons (not morons)… Edited June 21, 2010 by BRONX Quote Link to comment
noc Posted June 21, 2010 Share Posted June 21, 2010 the question is too general. each woman is different but in my opinion it boils down to love, money and/or power. I however have seen more of the latter two than the first which is a sad thing indeed. Quote Link to comment
baboyx Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 lol, i think hindi naman sa face yung prob palagi. Talaga naman women fall for a person who knows mag diskarte. knows how to sweep them off their feet. ang kawawa is why women fall with UGLY "attitude" men. Quote Link to comment
yhance Posted June 24, 2010 Share Posted June 24, 2010 (edited) diskarte powers lang yan according sa friend ko...nasaksihan ko many times. higit sa lahat magaling sa larangan ng paghihiganti...parang tropical hut lang yan...sarap na babalik-balikan.. Edited June 24, 2010 by yhance Quote Link to comment
chinitoboi Posted June 25, 2010 Share Posted June 25, 2010 simple lang mga brad.. dahil sa PERA.. Quote Link to comment
AutoPimp Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 Great personality :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Sakristan Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 Im not saying all but most ugly men ive seen with gorgeous babes are a lot older than these girls... Well in this case, all I can say is that OLD is GOLD. Pera pera lang sa salitang kanto Quote Link to comment
Werwolf Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 money is STATUS...if you have status, may confidence ka... ung good looks is just one of the attraction switches but not enough to get the girl...kailangan mo turn on lahat ng switch ng isang girl para makuha mo sya Quote Link to comment
Guest eljuego Posted October 13, 2010 Share Posted October 13, 2010 (edited) It's all about the money, it's all about the dumdumdududumdum Edited October 13, 2010 by eljuego Quote Link to comment
jgc813 Posted October 14, 2010 Share Posted October 14, 2010 It depends, really, what is your definition of UGLY and GOOD-LOOKING. What may be ugly for one, may be good-looking for another. Quote Link to comment
2hot4yah Posted October 14, 2010 Share Posted October 14, 2010 i dunno . i usually fall for ugly but nice guy. someone who knows how to take care of her girl and treats me like a princess. i dont care on his looks, what matters most is his attitude. ung parents and brothers ko sometimes rude pa nga, telling my BF na daig nya pa yung nanalo sa lottery. ayun. basta most girls go with attitude, not with the looks. Quote Link to comment
zenislev Posted October 14, 2010 Share Posted October 14, 2010 magaling lang siguro kami dumiskarte... Quote Link to comment
blow_gobi Posted October 14, 2010 Share Posted October 14, 2010 (edited) Yung dati kung officemate nakapangasawa ng sexy, pero siya mukhang pinscher na aso ang mukha. Sabi nung asawa niya, kaya siya pinakasalan kasi pangit wala siyang magiging karibal na ibang babae. Pero kaso mo, naghiwalay din sila kasi nambabae yung office-mate ko at may pumatol naman sa kanya! Edited October 14, 2010 by blow_gobi Quote Link to comment
kira21 Posted October 14, 2010 Share Posted October 14, 2010 It depends on the girl whether she is looking for the character,security or money and lastly there is a saying that Love is Blind.. hehehe anyways basta kung dun ba ung girl masaya eh, wala naman tayo magagawa dba? Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted October 14, 2010 Share Posted October 14, 2010 i dunno . i usually fall for ugly but nice guy. someone who knows how to take care of her girl and treats me like a princess. i dont care on his looks, what matters most is his attitude. ung parents and brothers ko sometimes rude pa nga, telling my BF na daig nya pa yung nanalo sa lottery. ayun. basta most girls go with attitude, not with the looks. OT what about the "not so pretty" girls who go for handsome men? Most ba talaga?I've got two friends - one a bit more good looking than the other. Good guys since we are all friends but the girl picked the more handsome one. Why is that? Quote Link to comment
vulcanboy Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 Ceteris Paribus, I would say - confidence and persistence. Quote Link to comment
knoll1234 Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 1. Love is blind.2. Lovers cannot see.3. deep pockets of the ugly party.4. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.5. pinikot.6. just plain honest to goodness love.7. The woman feels so secure that surely no kabet is imagineable.8. the ugly guy has a big dick and super satisfies the woman.9. nabola si beautiful.10. Just say it's none of one's business what one's like. It's a personal decision. Quote Link to comment
dyerds Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 its all about the MONEY......good looking girls fall for guys with money , lets face it, as the song goes, we are living in a material world and most girls specialy(good looking ones) are MATERIAL GIRLS...PRACTICALITY ...it sucks but that is damn reality............... Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted October 19, 2010 Share Posted October 19, 2010 (edited) because not all go for material, but sometimes, pretty girls go for quality/breeding and the "gentleman" attitude. this someone may not be as goodlooking as dingdong dantes, but can be an interesting person, a witty entertaining guy..and would make u feel like "gusto ko ulit siya makita/maka-date.." **yea. something like that.** Edited October 19, 2010 by cHinitababe86 Quote Link to comment
iamasannin Posted October 22, 2010 Share Posted October 22, 2010 i don't think i'm going to say anything that hasn't been said before pero most of the time ang mga dahilan lang naman : kapag matyaga ang panget, kapag maraming pera ang panget MATYAGA - oo..patience is a virtue. kapag pursigido ang lalake sa babae. karamihan kasi ng mga pogi (na tulad ko) e presko, bastos, o feeling nila they are god's gift to women (hindi ako yan). naaasar ang mga babae sa ganito sa totoo lang. there are some girls that want trophy boyfriends, pero most of the time nakikita ko na may itsura/mayaman/pareo ng social status ang boy and girl. MAYAMAN - one word...SECURITY. we always get attracted to those who can give us a really good future. this is a fact. not true in all cases pero kung ako yung babae e pipiliin ko yung MAYAMAN kahit na hindi kaguwapuhan kesa yung guwapo nga pero wala naman ipapakain sa akin. pero minsan may nakikita ako na SOBRANG HOT GIRL sa mga mall (weakness ko kase yung mga nakashorts, maganda legs, petite at medyo chinita) na may kasamang...may animalistic appeal (mukhang tsonggo, maitim, mataba, malaki tyan etc.)...and i cannot imagine for the life of me kung papano natitiis nung girl lalo na pag nagseSEX na sila. siguro sobrang bait nung lalake o kaya sobrang yaman o kaya sobrang tyaga para maka-jackpot ng ganun kaHOT na chick. (ang isa pang sumasagi sa isip ko e kung bakit nagsasayang ng oras mag-mall...kung ako may GF na ganun kaHOT ay anak ng patola hindi ko na papalabasin sa loob ng kwarto yun...hehehehe) Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted October 23, 2010 Share Posted October 23, 2010 (edited) No matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. He just needs the right broom. I may not be speaking for ALL women in the world but more often than not, we women forget our superficial standards when we started liking someone. I'll be honest that I want someone who's tall, moreno, chinito, may kaya, matalino, gwapo, into-sports, may wheels, religious etc. Pero when a guy really knows to make "damoobs" (oh please, don't take this term negatively) and we realized that we're getting into this guy in spite of him not fitting the bill, we eventually start to reconsider and adjust for this guy. How cool can that be? It's funny that most guys who are not gwapo often being get attracted to by most women because they know how to deal with us women. They know how to listen attentively and respond appropriately, they can play with our curiosity, they don't smother us, and they don't make an impression that they're just a typical M. Most gwapo guys (I'm not saying all) tend to be interesting at first but if they don't know the right moves, the right words and the right way to a woman's interest and curiosity, he will later on fail to captivate her. In less than a month or just a few weeks, she might just remember him as someone she met in a bar, a colleague's friend, a college acquaintance or she might not even remember him at all. Edited October 23, 2010 by _Honey_ Quote Link to comment
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