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Duel of Fate

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  1. Glasses.

     

    For those na may neuro problems or diabetes i advise to see ur docs. Ive had glasses since i was 10 pero nung nahospital ako and nagundergo ako ng medication for anti stroke & anti seizure luminaw mata ko. Slowly bumalik pagkalabo when i stopped medicating (abot kinse mil kada buwan sa gamot palang e).

  2. I hate crowded malls. So unless i really need to, i stay away from mega, moa, market, glorietta, north, trinoma, etc. Esp on weekends. U cant make me go to a mall on a sat afternoon or evening.

     

    Aura and powerplant so far have the best ambience. Fishermall isnt so bad too pero mukhang madali sya maluluma. Im also fond of going around smaller malls like cash & carry and waltermart; mas may hustisya ang number ng tao at parking e.

  3. Kung di nyo kelangan ng pera immediately (ie tag gutom na pamilya mo, may cancer magulang mo etc) then go for passiob over pera. Dont go for a "meantime high paying job" because makakain kayo ng system. Master and learn everything u can, make as many mistakes as u can and always try something legendary for ur career. Pag nagawa mo na lahat yan, pera na ang hahabol sayo.

  4. Yup. High school. I got divirginized by an off-duty GRO and we did it sa house nila. Shempre la pako mashado idea sa withdrawal or using protection so i came inside. Nadelay sya ng mga ilang linggo & natakot ako coz she was saying the L word sakin and asking me to commit and I... just waned to get laid. Nung nalaman ko she got her period na nakahinga ko ng maluwang lol. Didnt dump her immediately mga 1mo pa after & had a few hanky pankys pa before i disapeared. Years later we hooked up again and, while it was great it just wasnt the same.

  5. I still have to vote for mj.

     

    Yes, jordan couldnt have done it without pippen or grant or paxson or rodman or kukoc but... they tried but failed to do it without him rin :)

     

    Another thing, "transcending" is synonymous to lifting it up the next level. Meaning getting out of the comfort zone & establishing dominance somewhere else. The nba did that with jordan: suddenly non-basketball fans were watching because of him. The dream team became THE dream team because it was led by jordan.

     

    Jerry west? Baylor? They were the starters.

    Bill Russel? Most rings but didnt change the world of basketball.

    Jabaar? His stint was too short lived. So was magic johnson

    Larry bird? "The great white hope" was a bit political & he didnt really break free from it.

    Iverson? Tmac? Grant hill? Arenas? Yao ming? All didnt materialize solid enough.

    Lebron? Kobe? Legends in their own right but on a different category altogether.

     

    Jordan is the GOAT simply because he became bigger than the Bulls. Bigger than the NBA. Bigger than Nike. Bigger than the 90s. He became Basketball itself. You cant say Michael Jordan without relating him to basketball himself; you cant say basketball without mentioning Jordan.

  6. Its been sometime that I had been browsing this thread contemplating on whether to share my experience . I will be the first to admit that this thread struck a chord in my heart. And I have a soft spot for these women in this profession. Why because at one point in my life I was in madly in love with one. So whenever I come face to face with someone from this industry I make it a point to treat them with utmost respect

     

    It happened way back in 2005, My relationship with my then GF was on the brink of falling out. I decided to go to a popular MP down south. Upon entering I saw her talking to to a manager I politely asked if she was available and she smiled and said yes and that started it all after the service we exchanged phone numbers. A few weeks after my GF left for Europe permanently. I was left angry lonely, and tired I decided to give Emma a call and asked her out for dinner. And as the saying goes one thing led to another and we ended up spending the night together. To say the least, having just broken up with my EX a few hours ago here I was in the arms of another girl.

     

     

    We started seeing each other regularly, I would pick her up from work and spend evenings with her. This went on for a couple of months more. We were enjoying each others company. Dinners , nights out, out of town trips filled the first few months. During this times she was still working . My thoughts were at that time how lucky can I get I was like wow I have a fubu at my beck and call. Of course my plans didnt turn out the way I imagined it. Because at one point in our trips the feared L word was mentioned and we decided to see each other exclusively.

     

    One day she said she has to transfer from her condo in QC.to an apartment in Makati. You guessed it the Knight in shining armor in me suggested why not live together since I also work in Makati. I was having the time of my life the sex was great and it felt like she understood my needs. She would join me and my friends on out of town trips every weekend. And I would join her with her friends on nights out. To surmise my actions some of you might say this guys nuts yeah I have already fallen for a therapist. Yup I agree I would have probably said that if it happened to a friend. You can say I was thinking more with my smaller head and not the bigger one.. :)

     

    This went on for a year till I chanced upon MTC in 2006 after over hearing it from one of her girl friends. I decided to checkout MTC. During those times.. matindi mga FR. Sobrang detailed . Actually my primary fear then was, one of my friends would see her at her work place. I would also see comments about her how pretty she was or how good she was and yes It got to me , I would be a hypocrite if I said No..My denial was at least she goes home to me but I knew deep down inside that whatever happens in that 4 corners of the room of that MP I had no control of. I just took it with a grain of salt.

     

    Then One day out of the blue just before lunchtime she called and said that we needed to talk. So I immediately went home because I thought it was an emergency. In that conversation she said that she didnt want to work anymore. To cut the long story short yup I said thats good.. Money was not an issue from the start. I was providing and our lifestyle didnt change I also gave her a substantial amount so that she could start her own business. It went well and I said to myself Im happy with this and she was happy and we could live happily ever after. You guessed it, I spoke too soon..

    2010 Our relationship started going downhill. She started getting jealous with no apparent reason whenever Im out with my friends she would call or ask me to MMS pictures just so she would be sure that Im really with them baseless accusations that up to this day I still have no idea why the sudden change of attitude. Im no saint and yeah there were times that I had a few indiscretions here and there but nothing really major. I also noticed during these times the money I used to give her which I feel was more than sufficient was not enough anymore.

    Fights were now a ritual every night and the sex was not as it used to be. Im beginning to question our relationship. But still we managed to iron things out. These went on for a couple of years more constant fight and then back together. All this time we were living at BGC. Forward 2014, I remember it was just after New year. Our land lady ( a friend) called me and said that we owed her 6 mos. rent and that this has been going on since 2010 always late I was shocked because religiously I was paying rent every month I would give Emma the payment for bills which she handled ever since. It turned out she wasnt paying the rent regularly . I confronted her thats the time that she confessed that she was supporting her kid since 2010. It was like a shock went thru my whole body , I said to myself how can she be so stupid that she didnt tell me she had a kid. Actually I wasnt mad that she had one I was more mad of the deception and the dishonesty after all these years. As I cooled down a few days I finally went back to our condo and ironed things out with her. I thought that was it I said to my self I wouldnt want to waste the years we had the ups and downs all together and still had feelings for her.

     

     

     

     

     

    But deep down inside the trust was gone she didnt trust me and it was the same for me too. Until one day someone sent me a photo of her with another man and it was recent. I confronted her and that was it we had a big fight blame tossing , cursing all the negatives that you can ever imagine were said. And at that moment I said eto yun I didnt even say goodbye no looking back .. I left first and the guard said she left a couple of hours later and thats the last time I saw her. It happened Jan 2015 a few days before our 10th year anniversary.

     

    I have since moved on with my life, 10 years older and a lot wiser. That relationship not only taught me to be selfless, patient and forgiving. It also taught me humility , understanding and love of ones self. It also showed me Im capable of loving someone despite the circumstances surrounding our situation.

     

    Do I regret it.. answer is NO

    Will I do it again? Depends I wouldnt know ,not intentionally of course :)

    Have I forgiven her.. Yes, and I sincerely hope she has forgiven me too

    Brave, man. Brave of you to share this. Was it foolish of you? I'd like to answer that with: walang batas sa ngalan ng pagibig. Nagmahal ka. And you moved on. Its been a great life.

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  7. I was refraining from replying to people who did not like my comment that prostitutes are not loyal. Is it so hard to believe that people in the sex trade giving sex to multiple men are not loyal? I would not even argue that it is a fact that sex workers are not sexually loyal because they have multiple sexual partners and they are also human meaning they would likely develop feelings (sexual or emotional) to clients.

     

    It is true that I am generalizing that sex workers, especially those that have been in the industry for a long time, there are exceptions to the rule. Exceptions are like comets or unicorns. I stated an obvious fact that sex workers are not loyal if I hurt the feelings of some people here, I am sorry, but I just said a general truth.

     

    The lady is having sex with multiple men, where is the loyalty in this?

    Dude i think napapagpalit mo definition ng loyalty at faithfulness. Loyalty is sticking to one person / thing come what may; you MAY get swayed around at one point but in the end you will go back. Ther is no walking out completely. Men are mostly loyal to their families. Soldiers are loyal to their country.

    Faithfulness is what i think you're getting at: staying true to only one for the entire course of the stay. You can wall ouy in the end but until then it's all in. Priests are faithful to their vocation. Women are (usually expected) to be faithful.

    Girls in this profession CAN be loyal, meaning they xan have a valid legit partner whilst getting banged by others. Women with families in Vegas or Amsterdam or even here in the Phils have it. At yes may karamihan sila. Although yes, mas maraming "users" at nagpapaka "practical" pero dont say fantasy &nonexistent sila. Thats just stupid.

  8. Nabara ko mg ganito ang hambog at social climber kong officemate dati eh:

     

    SYA: if you're rich u should flaunt it. Show everyone na may pera ka with your clothes. And be friends with equally rich people as well.

     

    AKO: tell thay to steve jobs, bill gates and warren buffet.

     

    SYA: sino sila?

     

    AKO: (to another officemate) naka coat and tie nga tanga naman. Ilayo mo nga sakin to.

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  9. I think my mantra "walang batas na kinikilala ang pagibig' applies here.

     

    To each his/her own. Some are ok with thia setup, some are not. Some get confused, some get screwed, and some get the big win.

     

    However dont ever forget to love yourself. If this kind of relationship harms or takes the toll on you, theres no shame in walking away.

     

    If, however, you really cant live without one another, then fight.

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