AngGwapo

On 1/3/2024 at 1:25 PM, courtesanhunter said:

kung nauna yung bigayan ng mga tip then possible na yung long term na pera ang habol. dahil nakita na mapera ang client. kumbaga relasyon na talaga ang habol pero ang makakuha ng stable partner ang motivation nung babae. kung pamilyar kayo sa cases ng mga Pinay na basta basta na lang nakikipagrelasyon sa mga foreigner then halos parehas lang yung modus. in many cases batid ng pamilya ng babae na pera lang ang habol sa foreigner to the point na kayang pumatol maging sa mga matatandang lalaki. the same goes para dun sa mga Pinay na pumapatol sa mga mayayaman na lolong Pinoy. pero handa nga silang isugal ang katawan nila at ipakilala ang buong pamilya nila sa lalaki bilang part nung relationship. sila yung mga halimbawa na nagsasabi na natututunan naman daw ang pagmamahal. i don't mean na ganito palagi ang case pero isa ito sa mga possibility.

@courtesanhunter and the rest of GMs.

In this world, we all strive to improve our standing and actually even before improving our standing, we look out to survive since it's basic human instinct. 

It is unavoidable to want to find a stable partner whether here in the industry or in real life. It really becomes a matter of where and how you meet. I still remember someone I know back in college who said:
"I cannot just date anyone as the guy needs to improve my standing in society."

Would you really go for someone who will make you worse off? At least, you will want to be with someone who will make you better - whether from a financial standing, emotional crutch, human connection, etc.

This goes both ways - women looking for a man/woman or man looking for a woman/man. Are we going to survive with this person? Are we going to be there through thick and thin (if you don't want thin, then, continue usual activities in MTC)? Can this person help me in life financially, emotionally, sexually, etc.? That other person needs to improve the other's life in one aspect. That person uplifts the other with what the other doesn't have.

How many have heard of the statement "Yeah, that's a power couple." vs. "Yeah, hindi sila bagay." vs. "Yeah, parehong pumangit buhay nila dahil sa isa't isa." 

In the case of non-Filipinos, there is a misconception that a Filipina will take care of them - cook, clean, and others for them. Even hyphenated Filipinos come to the Philippines looking for love - and I know at least two women who came here to live to find "the one." One was successful. 

Misconception because that may be very short-term. There are so many Filipinas, especially those who outmigrate with their partners - who may leave their partners after getting the proper papers. More common may be outward laziness once the legal commitment is there. But then, there are also Filipinas who stick by their partners, legal or not, through thick and thin.

Introducing your partner to family, wherever and however you meet, is part of cementing the commitment both ways. The older person gets someone s/he may not have in other aspects of his/her life and the younger one gets the same. It is always mentioned here that it's about the money of older gentleman that makes the younger go after him. If they do end up with each other, the woman gets a more stable (sana) life and man, while it's hard to think of - gets someone who will give them the caring they need especially in their older years. That is the other side of the story perhaps the reason why older gents look for younger women who, chances are, will outlive them by decades.

Natutunang mahalin? I've heard this many times. I've also heard that some do not fall in love. They're just keeping the person for the support, in however fashion, they get which may be short-, mid-, or long-term.

Forever after? Who knows? But that's how it is outside of this vacuum we live in as well.

Lastly, the women in MTC are here with lots of men because they don't want to lift up their lives for the short-term (gipit), medium-term (makapagipon). Those who want more especially with single men may do enter into long-term relationships (makapagipon and build a family). If they find someone they like, why not? The same goes for the men, why not? Body count? Sorry but I bet there's at least 100 guys here who have been with 100 women (hindi yung fake FRs or know-it-alls who don't really avail, ha).

My two cents this weekend.

Happy Friday!

My lover checking in on me every hour via vid call. 

Man, I love this woman.

Big trouble in paradise.

On 1/15/2024 at 10:58 PM, suikoden101 said:

mga fake FRs dito  minsan kausap nila sarili nila.

Pansin mo din @suikoden101?

Reality sets in that I'm a paramour even if she chose me for love over the other who she doesn't love.

Maybe better this way so I know my place since she knows hers.

My partner has been ill since Saturday and doesn't seem she'll be well by today, Monday.

Had a one hour vid call with my partner even when she's been confined to her bed due to illness.

3 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

AG, wanna try? Lol, about time we stop playing charades. A few last dances before I go into retirement because of commitment outside.

PM'd you @LookingOswald

@Mr BigD87 where's this place? What's the facility called? Thanks!

18 hours ago, BrosTayoDito said:

Unexpected message from someone 😍 late greeting but still a welcome development 😊 

Love it!

Parang kilala ko yan @BrosTayoDito

On 1/10/2024 at 7:04 PM, LookingOswald said:

Lately, I’ve been seeking affection and placing that over milage. 

Ha, maybe its time to settle down or take a big break from the flesh industry.

Reco to try KTVs @LookingOswald

More serious discussions with Partner of the Year about where we are headed.

My Partner of the Year who completes me, makes me whole...

On 12/16/2023 at 5:15 AM, BlackDiamond said:

For those who go to these places as an escape, a break from real world responsibilities, at times you go in there really vulnerable and trying to fill some sort of void.

Basically, you're exposed and vulnerable.. then you walk straight into the lion's den.. and these lions they all look oh so majestic, in your mind, you have tamed them.. as they slowly nibble at you. 

Again, @AngGwapo said it best..

A GM will believe what he wants to believe..

Yes, and I will keep repeating that since it has come from a former regular after I asked her what happened to us @BlackDiamond

If one thinks we're the only ones In their eyes, so be it.

If we think we're one of dozens, so be it.

Has anyone here in a relationship where you are the real BF and the girl you met has had a sponsor for years? Sponsor who provides support to the partner and her family.

Curious to know how you and your partner handled things - not the part between yourselves but the girl and her sponsor?

Would appreciate insights.

Salamat!

2 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Trophy for you - this is a great entry from yourself. Unlike what John Lennon claims, love is not all you need. Exceptional chemistry or being able to outcall isn't equivalent to love, it just means you are highly preferred. It's good to enjoy that for what it is and not look at it with rose-tinted glasses and believe that it is something more. Sometimes we get so caught up in the moment that we mistake which is which - even after many years in this diversion I still make this mistake occasionally. Great treatment from a lady within the bounds of transactional work is no different than a person that they enjoy looking forward to working with in the corporate setting. In reality, it is just a good working relationship.

 

As said in our private discourse, if you're not sustaining or taking the girl out of the industry, it's a meaningless venture to entertain these misplaced feelings. To believe otherwise would be placing yourself voluntarily in a state of cognitive dissonance. See you around AG and have a great holiday season.

See you around @LookingOswald.

Happy holidays.

11 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

Kung kasing yaman mo yung nag garahe kay jaira, sobrang pangit mo ba para di ka makakuha ng partner with all that money?

Xaat last resort nalang ang pag garahe ng thera pag walang wala na talaga at syempre kung bigatin ba ang bulsa mo hehehe

Answer is, yes, one who is very rich (and old) with all that money, they can get the hottest person in the room (world).

I know one entrepreneur who's probably pushing into early 70s, short, (barely 5 feet tall), not good looking. I was in his office 3x and each of those times, his wife who is hot as hell, in her 30s, and sounds intelligent, has 2 kids with him. 

I was wondering those meetings if he was doing that in person to test me as on the 2nd time, he asked me to come to his house in Valle and meet daw kami poolside. All I kept telling myself was that I hope the missus is there when we meet.

Hahaha!

2 hours ago, manoy buknoy said:

Maybe bec. TRUE love has nothing to do with money.

Oh not maybe...

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MONEY!!!

 

True love, within or outside of this industry, involves many things including money. Unfortunately, money does buy a lot. In the case of this world, time.

Even outside MTC or the industry in general, money is still important because of a person's natural instinct to survive and improve their situation. Outside of MTC, we look for a person who can complement or improve us. That takes the form of their looks, education, career, upbringing, etc. It's a two-way street everywhere.

I have met many women who have BFs or sponsors. Some even call their sponsors BF but in their minds, that sponsor is already a BF. They fall for the one that can help them fulfill their needs (and in a lot of their cases, the family's as well). They find it hard na bumaklas regardless of the kind of support (and in a lot of cases, amount) they get.

Money can finance our education, car, dream home, etc. If you see that fact that it goes both ways, then, we'd be in a better position this FFAT/FFAG that we delve into. 

Just think of the basic foundation of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and we'd understand their situation better.

10 hours ago, BlackDiamond said:

Real talk bro 

Thanks

Just now, chnky said:

Sarili mo lang din naman makakaalam kung genuine or hindi ung nafifeel mong emotion ng thera. Be vigilant lang.

A GM will believe what he wants to believe @chnky

53 minutes ago, Prinsloo said:

Is she different a different person from your mentee?

Same @Prinsloo

Realized last night that I have a TOTGA. I always knew she was a catch. Was never able to avail her services when she was working for a Spa as she was so busy and hardly had any chat exchanges with her. When I was ready to meet her, she told me she had already left to finish college. However, she said she would still meet me if I wanted and so we did every two weeks from September 2022 to early March 2023.

By December, I gave her all the indications that I liked her and that I wanted to be with her. She rejected me before Christmas and I kept thinking of her through the first week of January. All I kept thinking was how I wanted to be with her. We continued to see each other.

Mid-March, over lunch in Capitol Commons, she told me she could not see me as a guest anymore as she looked at me differently already. That was the last time we saw each other, as she saw me meet an 18 yo girl. No replies to date in TG and Viber.

Hope you are well, my lover, my friend.

Realized last night that I have a TOTGA. I always knew she was a catch. Was never able to avail her services when she was working for a Spa - when I was ready to meet her, she told me she had already left. However, she said she would still meet me if I wanted and so we did every two weeks from September 2022 to early March 2023.

By December, I gave her all the indications that I liked her and that I wanted to be with her. She rejected me before Christmas and I kept thinking of her through the first week of January. All I kept thinking was how I wanted to be with her. We continued to see each other until March 2023.

Over lunch, she told me she could not see me as a guest anymore as she looked at me differently already. That was the last time we saw each other, as she saw me meet an 18 yo girl. No replies to date in TG and Viber.

Hope you are well, my lover, my friend.

For the first time in 1.5 years, I woke up not wanting and thinking of how to fill my calendar with MTC trysts.

Just now, Art Vandelay said:

MTC !

Hi @Art Vandelay.

Where are Jerry, Elaine, George, and Kramer?

Thoughts of:

The unexpected best weekend from Friday night to early Sunday morning I've had in a very long time.