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13 minutes ago, knightdavion said:

Lol this is the real life in them men. They more luxury then the guest. Another from the earning in SPA they still can use trick to borrow money from the her regular guest like small ammount 2k but if 10 guest give already 20k.

Sorry to say this... if you really believe your kool aid, why not get involved on the other side of the trade?

Besides, what people make for a living and what they do with what they make is their concern, not yours. 

You also have the choice how to make money and where to spend it. Do people care? I dont think MTC people would - because it's your life!

Happy Friday to all!

4 hours ago, Exec said:

 

If one wants to pursue an honest relationship with a thera,  respect is step 1.   If she settles being called "pok pok" by a GM,  then he is just another client.

100% agree, sir @Exec!

10 minutes ago, Ice Lover said:

well I remember thera's playfully calling each other pokpok so no use choosing softer words they're numb to it.

but brother remember you cant save those who don't want to be saved.

That's part of the charge. 

You're not there to change they're minds. That is preaching your beliefs on another which I don't agree with.

29 minutes ago, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

Well at least 90% have the fundamental sob story of being poor with limited opportunities and were "forced" into being sex workers, good luck with helping them all.  

I mean, those that you genuinely care about. If I want to help all, I will start a non-profit -- which crossed my mind after the Las Pinas event last week. Get funding from USAID or some other funding source that has a program for sex workers.

A term just came to mind about our ancestors - comfort women. Can that be more appropriate instead of sex workers?

1 hour ago, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

Clever? Well I suppose in the short run during the beginning one might be convinced that they have various emergencies or a real “sob story” but over time that will disappear and either you know them well enough or you just tire of it. Well I suppose in your engagements with “the clever ones” they got the better of you. It’s okay, that’s life 

If one likes the person and there is a real sob story, then, offer to help to the extent you can.

I know I would and have done that.

4 hours ago, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

Yeah it’s easy to fall if you always have a good time with each other with constant time constraints. Few people really think about what if you have to be together for an extended period or really what is just normal time in a “real” relationship.

Your handle- KnightDavion- what is that a battletech reference? You know, does Ms. Thera even know what that is? Probably not and you know the cultural and class differences are there. What do you really talk about? Can she learn to have an “actual” conversation with you? Those small things add up. And the weight of them can break the Camel’s back 

"it’s easy to fall if you always have a good time with each other with constant time constraints. Few people really think about what if you have to be together for an extended period or really what is just normal time in a “real” relationship."

This @BRAIN FOR HIRE makes so much sense. In fact, longevity between two people is a collective output of different facets of their lives together. This doesn't mean that you have similar tastes or backgrounds (that would make for a very boring dinner conversation if you were to ask me) but rather, be willing and open to learning more about the other, keeping curious and trying what the other enjoys, being comfortable in the other person's natural environment, and so on and so forth. In fact, the first thing I do (not forced but rather, comes out naturally) is to use the language I the other person is comfortable with (I switch accents with twangs, conyo, or Pinoy) to make the company I keep comfortable with me as well.

I've had my share of awkward moments when I was younger. "That's too bad you're not Jewish coz that means we couldn't date." Or "That was just a bit too much for me," as I took home my date who I subjected to a Filipino event. The opposite of this was -- I was asked previously by a partner "hindi ka ba nailang sa place kagabi?  in reference to the time we hung out in her neighborhood with her friends. This person showed that she cared about me being comfortable in her environment.

I was actually surprised (and happy) she asked me this question so I can share my thoughts with her - that I was indeed comfortable. I have another friend who is from one of the Ayala villages and owns several companies that make a hefty chunk of change. He's been dating his ex-masseuse of several years running now, even if he has been set up numerous times with well-to-do and influential people (included in the list is the high school crush ng buong sambayanang Pilipino).

We just need to keep an open mind IMHO.

9 hours ago, rtz said:

Good for you bro.. Atleast you know where you stand. 👍

 

Medyo malupit nga mga bagsakan nyang December ave idol.

"Kasalanan ba kung puso natin ang magwawagi"

Mukang matindi ang pinaghugutan.. "Huling sandali" ata yon bro hehe

@rtzthe entire song is full of who goats.

Then, for those who do ninja moves and find themselves falling...

"Kasalanan ba kung puso natin ang magwawagi
Kahit sandali palayain ang pusong 'di mapigil
Sana'y tayong dalawa sa huling pagkakataon na hindi na para sa'tin
Kahit sandali patawarin ang pusong 'di tumigil para sa'ting dalawa
Ang maling pagkakataon na ika'y magiging akin"

Listening to a YouTube Music generated playlist of OPM music, this song came on and reminded me of a "partner" who was humming it late last week. This is December Avenue's "Huling Sandali", a song that may be appropriate for this thread.
 

42 minutes ago, Summer of Belle Ame said:

Wag nyo naman po sanang lahatin na i degrade yung mga thera... hindi porket ganto mga work namen na napili ibaba nyo na kame sobra..... my mga thera din na totoong nagmamahal ng client nila...at my mga client din naman na ng gagamet at nagpapa fall sa mga thera para lng makalibre at pag sawa na sila iiwan nalang din nila.... pero hindi ko nilalahat ng client karamihan kaya sana wag nyo ring lahatin mga thera....

I agree with @Summer of Belle Ame

We are all human beings. In fact, in other countries, it is very normal to have relationships regardless of what people do, their SEC levels in society, race, religion, beliefs, or anything for that matter. Huwag lang ibang species.

Your and others' opinion are yours though. God also gave us the ability to discern, think for ourselves, and act on what we hold dear @Howdy Doody.

Have a good afternoon!

On 8/20/2022 at 7:50 AM, Asahina aya said:

fave padthai 😘 

papa jesus for the blessings everyday 🙏🏻🧿🔮🧘🏼‍♀️🕯

Nice. Where's the best pad thai in the metro for you?