Manticore

Our countrymen have a lot to be proud of, especially those who've made their mark abroad. It's kind of ironic that, more often than not, we're only able to maximize our potential once we're based overseas. It's heartening to hear that you treasure your identity as Filipinos, even when the American way of life is very enticing. Being integrated into the system has a strong impact, especially among the younger generations of Fil-Ams.

Great photos, SunflowR! Nice to see Filipinos keeping their heritage alive. :cool:

u are, bro? what's ur interests? i guess, pisces have that artistic minds and ways.

 

i love haiku poetry and 'am writing some of them. actually, my haiku poems are already published in a book. 'am one of the contributors.  'am a dancer, too, a folkdancer.  i love our culture. sample? d next time i post here. 

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I recently discovered that I have a thing for rhyming, but that's nothing compared to real poetry, though. All in the spirit of fun! heheheh. Look forward to it, SunflowR.

charitable and domesticated pa ung pisces and mahiyain. agree, bro?

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Yup, Sis. heheheh. Any artistic inclinations, by the way? I've noticed it's quite common among our species, too.

Yep. Vintage Pisces, alright. heheheh. Same here, SunflowR!

Is this a trick question? heheheh.

Never really meant to update myself on her whereabouts, but her friends still do work in the same company, and volunteer the info regardless of my sentiments. Exact address unknown, but in a blissful state of motherhood, finally. Good on you, mate! heheheh.

hmmmm..ganyan naman ung mga pisces. they love company, yes, but they are better off alone. quite shy in other way. me, 'am cam shy nga. just love to be behind d cam, always a support. 'am afraid as a front liner.

 

ung viking funeral ng fish mo, u had a sword? hehehe! baka naman sarap noon maging sushi. nyaaaaa!

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Glad to hear the lonesome gene isn't exclusive to me. heheheh. Moly sushi? More like Moly dilis. heheheh.

ty 2, bro manticore...

...it's hard to part with something that touched my heart even if it's only a fish.

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Lonesome fish? Hmmm. I believe I can relate with your pet. heheheh.

We gave our fish a Viking funeral sans the fire. Otherwise, it would've ended up as dinner. :sick: heheheh.

Funny how endearing fish can be as pets, eh? Staring at the fishbowl never failed to calm my nerves.

thanks, bro manticore. just had my vacation. 'am back once again.  :*

 

to prove that 'am a piscean, i have a fish pet, a male betta. i named him RedSun.

 

here he is....

 

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Nice fish (and pic), SunflowR! Had a Black Moly once. Our household help tried to clean the fishbowl with soapwater, but failed to rinse it thoroughly. Our fish died. Smelled clean, though. heheheh.

yeheyyy! 5 more slots, bro manticore. hehehe! we are ready for 2006.

 

nice to be back. kumusta kapuwa ko pisceans?

 

para sa inyo...

http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b325/RedSunflowR/emoticons/flower.gif

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Been wondering where you've been, SunflowR. Yup. I think we'll finally complete our Piscean calendar by 2010. heheheh. Welcome back, fellow fish!

thanks for the article, dear manticore

 

hmmn, i can attest to the cancer-pisces compatibility (cancerian here).

good thing i've already caught a fish!

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The signs can really point us in the right direction, eh? heheheh. Good for you, best_X_girlfriend!

feb 19 jason_lee

feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

feb 23

feb 24 Raine, enki

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka, xuaeenr, PrettyboyPOPOY

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3 TipsyBoi

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

mar 7 missmanners

mar 8 mistaj, pogs109, master t.d.(Jethro)

mar 9

mar 10 Joyboy

mar 11 Ennzo

mar 12 Google, sidlopez_x, maldita

mar 13 George Estregan Lives

mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon, arkitekto

mar 15 awo

mar 16 djrumble_316

mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

mar 18 mini_me18

mar 19

mar 20

Welcome to our new Pisces friends: xuaeenr, PrettyboyPOPOY and enki! Still 5 more gaping holes, peeps. Plug it in! heheheh.

feb 19 jason_lee

feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

feb 23

feb 24 Raine

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3 TipsyBoi

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

mar 7 missmanners

mar 8 mistaj, pogs109, master t.d.(Jethro)

mar 9

mar 10 Joyboy

mar 11 Ennzo

mar 12 Google, sidlopez_x, maldita

mar 13 George Estregan Lives

mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon, arkitekto

mar 15 awo

mar 16 djrumble_316

mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

mar 18 mini_me18

mar 19

mar 20

We're now down to 5 slots! Let's close the gaps, peeps! heheheh.

in-add ko lang po yung mahal ko

 

anyway, pisceans, question: sino ang pinaka-compatible na sign sa inyo?

 

thanks!

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Hi, best_X_girlfriend. Here's a handy quick reference from a nifty website:

Pisces Compatibility

February 21 – March 21

Most Compatible: Cancer and Scorpio

Somewhat: Capricorn, Aquarius, Aries and Taurus

Least: Gemini - too nervous and high strung

Virgo - dull

Sagittarius - too impulsive

Neutral: Leo and Libra

A more detailed compatibility analysis:

Compatible and Incompatible Signs of Pisces

Pisces and Aries:

Aries may prove too fiery and too aggressive for the sentimental and gentle Pisces. Though Pisces is quite romantic, he desires a more delicate and refined approach to love-making than the impatient Aries cares to take time for. Neptune, the planet of the higher mind, give Pisces an ethereal quality. Unless Aries is willing to take a trip to the clouds now and then, he'll probably have to change his mind.

Pisces and Taurus:

This is usually a happy-ever-after combination. Both natives will find just what they are looking for in each other, and their compatibility is strengthened by the fact that Neptune, ruler of Pisces, is the higher octave of Venus, ruler of Taurus. Pisces is romantic and imaginative; Taurus will like that. Taurus is steady, strong, and loving; Pisces will adore that. Both are home-loving. A good combination, indeed!

Pisces and Gemini:

This does not look good. Gemini loves to flit in the pursuit of happiness, or in the happiness of pursuit. Pisces will not like that and will probably seek retreat in a cloud of gloom. Few people can change their basic make-up and adopt an entirely new character, but that is what Gemini will have to do if he marries a Pisces. Not good at all!

Pisces and Cancer:

These are real affinities. Both like home, possessions, and friends. Both will pull together for their mutual interests. Both are sentimental and loving, and each likes to possess and hang on to what he cherishes. There will be moments of gloom and doom when both of them will feel hurt at the same time. But, ever with these momentary "storms" they will have happiness together.

Pisces and Leo:

Leo likes to have someone dependent on him, but he won't like the possessiveness of Pisces, or the tears; neither will Pisces' pouting appeal. This does not look like a good match. Leo's bold and vigorous temperament may be a little too much for sensitive Pisces. Better not chance it.

Pisces and Virgo:

There is a marked contrast between these two--and while "opposites" are supposed to attract, if there is too much opposition or contrast, it may not be a combination. Virgo's criticism and bossiness may break down the sensitive spirit of Pisces. Pisces' sentimental tearfulness might be too much for Virgo to take for any length of time.

Pisces and Libra:

These two can like each other very much, but marriage would prove an acid test to any affection they felt. Libra is very social and Pisces is a "togetherness" person. Libra could not tolerate jealousy and suspicion; Pisces would want Libra to be exclusively his or her own at all times. Not a good bet.

Pisces and Scorpio:

This is a "love-at-first-sight" affair; but it is not likely to stand up for any length of time. Pisces wants exclusive ownership. Scorpio, too, is possessive, but will not tolerate that characteristic in another for long. Pisces will pout and scold while Scorpio shouts, and another marriage becomes a has-been.

Pisces and Sagittarius:

These two can enjoy a beautiful friendship so long as Pisces doesn't presume on the other's boundaries, but it would not prove to be a good combination for marriage. Sagittarius, free and easygoing, couldn't stop to lug the clinging, possessive Pisces along the road of life. No matter how much Sagittarius loved Pisces, pity would soon supplant love, and it would be duty and conscience battling within. Sagittarius couldn't stand the confinement of being married to a Pisces, and Pisces couldn't take the varied interests of Sagittarius.

Pisces and Capricorn:

These two have a very good chance for happiness. Capricorn, so much misunderstood, will find sympathy and understanding in the Pisces mate. Pisces will find the practicality of Capricorn admirable, for it will increase the Pisces' feeling of security. Capricorn is never happier than when someone who needs him clings fast. They are also entirely compatible sexually. A good chance for an enduring union.

Pisces and Aquarius:

If Pisces will try and understand the Aquarius mate, there will be a good chance for happiness here. Pisces can give tolerance and sympathy; Aquarius must learn to give Pisces the benefit of the doubt. Aquarius will help Pisces to build up self-confidence, so that Pisces fears, based largely on security here, will prove groundless.

Pisces and Pisces:

Since these two seem to have the same virtues and vices, they should get along well together, for there will be understanding and sympathy for each other. Both have the same love of home and possessions, and the same basic interests. The only drawback is a possible drifting too far from practical realities. They have the refinement and delicacy that each desires in love, so all in all, this should be a good union.

I can confirm what is said about the compatibility between Pisces/Leo and Pisces/Sagittarius. Its accuracy is uncanny. heheheh. Hope this helps, best_X_girlfriend.

 

This one made my night sad.  Not because I feel for you Manticore, but I'd rather say, I empathize with your EX more.     I'm sorry. I know it's kinda ironic.  But just like her, I am "the type who can never say "no" if it would hurt another person." And that "She wants to make everyone happy. Problem is, someone always ends up being left out."

But my story has not ended the way your ex's story did (primarily because, I am not HAPPILY married).  I've been bad.  I've been hurt a lot of times and I admit I have my share of hurting some of my partners too.  All because I can't and don't want to hurt anybody for that matter even if "someone always ends up being left out."  Those I have hurt are the ones who loved me truly but whom I have to let go because of several "selfish" reasons too.

I admire men like you....who happens to stand up for what should be done and not for what choice is there to make.   You got hurt but there is no glimpse of pain in the way you related your story. Congrats bro!  you're one man, who makes a "bad" lady like me realize "bad" things I did in the past and might to in the future!  :hypocritesmiley:   keep it up! the world needs you!     

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When the situation is beyond repair, what is one to do? It's essentially out of my hands, because I only have control over my own choices.

The reason why I made that judgment call was that I was aware that she was in a crisis situation. All eyes were on her. It was one of those things where you're 'damned if you do, damned if you don't'. Knowing her well enough helped me to decide what was best for all. Had she chosen me, she'd lose face with most of the people who are near and dear to her, because of certain loyalties that were formed, especially when her engagement with the other guy was in the offing. She couldn't live with the fact that she'd be hurting my feelings by choosing him, though. She was paralyzed with bewilderment and was headed for a total meltdown. I had to step in and relieve her from the burden of that decision. She usually prays for a sign to point her in the right direction. It was up to me to set things straight, so I took it upon myself and ended our relationship in order to provide a graceful exit for her. She had it rough, being practically alone during our long distance affair. She sacrificed so much in order to pursue a better life in the States; I'd only be getting in the way.

She's a victim of circumstance, more than anything else. Being someone who gets along well with everyone and to enjoy being in a group isn't a crime; neither is having the uncanny ability to captivate anyone she meets. It's really sweet how she's unable to turn other people down, to be so eager to put them at ease. I adore the fact that she treats everyone nicely, without any reservation. It came as no surprise how not a few guys would work up the courage to court her, even when she's already in a relationship. That was the risk I willingly took when she went abroad. Someone was bound to find his way to her heart, eventually...homesickness, notwithstanding. Dilemmas of this sort could've scarred her for life. She needn't suffer the kind of pain this decision entailed.

Please do not feel that such choices make you a 'bad' person. You did what you had to do, and that's all there is to it.

Our aquarium needs a change of water. *splash* Ahh. Much better. heheheh.

^maybe, bro, or there's something wrong with those numbers? lol!

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Bad omen. heheheh.

^hahahahaha! naiinip na si bro. maawa na kasi kayo, fill na ung gap.  :upside:

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I'm just amazed at how these 6 slots managed to last a year. Magic number? heheheh.

feb 19 jason_lee

feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

feb 23

feb 24 Raine

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

mar 7 missmanners

mar 8 mistaj, pogs109, master t.d.(Jethro)

mar 9

mar 10 Joyboy

mar 11 Ennzo

mar 12 Google, sidlopez_x, maldita

mar 13 George Estregan Lives

mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon, arkitekto

mar 15 awo

mar 16 djrumble_316

mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

mar 18 mini_me18

mar 19

mar 20

Still left with 6 very stubborn slots to fill. Keep 'em comin', peeps! heheheh.

I do agree that asking for space is another convenient way to end a relationship. It's one of the more commonly used 'break-up lines'. This is not exclusively used for that purpose, though rarely would we think this is so.

When your partner says they 'need space', it usually means they need to work out certain issues on their own. It may or may not involve you, as it could be personal in nature. This is temporary, so if you wish to be supportive, then it would be a good idea not to pry. However, if it lingers indefinitely, it's time for you two to discuss how it's affecting your relationship. At least, you've demonstrated respect for their needs this way.

hahhhaha good one manticore!!!!!

 

go pisces!!!!

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Hip, hip...hep, hep. heheheh. Hoo-ray!!!

^hehehe! manticore. that's for 2006.

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Yeah, SunflowR. That gives us plenty o' time to complete our own calendar. heheheh.

feb 19 jason_lee

feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

feb 23

feb 24 Raine

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

mar 7 missmanners

mar 8 mistaj

mar 9

mar 10 Joyboy

mar 11 Ennzo

mar 12 Google, sidlopez_x, maldita

mar 13 George Estregan Lives

mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon

mar 15 awo

mar 16 djrumble_316

mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

mar 18 mini_me18

mar 19

mar 20

Still 6 more slots to fill. Keep 'em coming, peeps! heheheh.

i'll not actively court the girl or even try something that may be percieved as leading to something more intimate.

 

friends? maybe. more than friends? i wouldn't even dream of it.

 

though if she's the one who decides to break up her current relationship and i soon end up being with her, that wouldn't qualify as me going after somebody who's spoken for, right?

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If she broke off her relationship because she was interested in you, even if you never hinted on one, then that wouldn't be your fault. My ex's present husband approached her as a friend at the time. In the course of our conversations while we were still together, she gave away details which led me to believe he was interested in something more than friendship. I pointed them out, but she refused to attach meaning to his gestures. From a guy's point of view, his moves were pretty obvious. I suppose she never wanted to put malice into them, which was why she was comfortable sharing such details. As he ingratiated himself to her with all his favors, it came to a point wherein she even wanted me to befriend him. I knew where this was all leading to, so after telling her that he would confide his true feelings in due time, I decided to avoid playing the jealous card. While I was still in the process of making travel arrangements to spend some time with her, all I had going for me then were our conversations over the phone and the internet. Rather than being confrontational about the whole matter, I just said my piece whenever appropriate, and left it at that. True enough, he eventually proposed. The decision fell on her shoulders...it was out of my hands. It was rather unfortunate that being practically alone in the States left her emotionally vulnerable; otherwise, I think we stood a pretty good chance. She's been through quite a lot, really. That decision was a heavy burden, and I tried to do my part to ease it. All's well now. Her close friends speak of how happy she is with her married life. I'd do anything to make her happy; I'm glad it all worked out for her.