Manticore

This and "Random Thoughts" are two of my favorite threads. Even if I rarely post here, I get a better appreciation of how people feel deep down when they are being totally honest with their feelings. I've posted a few times before, and reading them again makes me want to shake my head. Oh, well. Perhaps I'm better at being senseless, after all. heheheh.

ahoy!! mga isda! mukhang busy tayo sa paglangoy ah. lapit na ang oras natin, oras ng mga isda. lika na kayo at magtipon tipon tayo.

 

bro manticore, dami ko ring absent. hehehehe! ito ang unang post ko ng 2006.

 

'am glad to be back.

 

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Good to hear from you again, SunflowR! Yep. It's just around the corner. heheheh. So, to our fellow Pisceans peeps,

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Happy Birthday, y'all!

I used to go to just about any barbershop, until I accidentally got a semi-kalbo cut. Were it not for this 'accident', though, I wouldn't have enjoyed having such low-maintenance hair. heheheh. I now have a select (though not pricey) group of barbershops close to where I live. I make it a point to confirm if they heard my instructions correctly nowadays.

(As you may have guessed, no celebs anywhere in sight. heheheh.)

bro manticore, haven't seen u for a while here. can u pls include lndindy's bday in ur list? thanks!!

 

hope u  r ok. 

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Hi-ya, SunflowR! Sorry for my absence. I'm fine, thank you.

feb 19 jason_lee

feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer, spumante

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

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feb 24 Raine, enki

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka, xuaeenr, PrettyboyPOPOY

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3 TipsyBoi, dixiewhiskey

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

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mar 10 Joyboy, lndindy

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mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon, arkitekto

mar 15 awo, rainercdo

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mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

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Welcome, fellow Pisceans lndindy and rainercdo!

i guess i can relate to what you said dude.. i am guilty with this...

but di ko pinagsisisihan kasi masaya ako and besides i am happy now with the current but the only prob is how can i get away from the first one... i dont feel anything na but we are still toghter its just that wala naman siya problem kundi ako ang may problem kasi wala na ako feeling sakanya now i met this guy <actually nagulat ako mtc member din pala siya> and i am so happy and inlove with him...

 

how can i break the news to my bf na its over na talaga noon pa ako wala na feelings.

clueless lang po talaga... sino ba pwedeng magnominate ng sarili niya para batukan at umbagin ako para magising can now start the nomination to do that. hehehe

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Just tell it as it is. As the saying goes, "The truth shall set you free." It's but fair that you make it clear to your former love that there are no more feelings left, because this will make it easier for him to move on and find someone who can reciprocate his love. It would be far more painful if he were to find out that you're just keeping up appearances because your conscience won't allow you to be true to yourself.

Oh, I do hope this song never rang true for my ex at the time. That'd really hurt. (ouchie!) heheheh.

I guess there is no stopping fate from intervening if it was really meant to be, so there shouldn't be any hindrance to falling in love with someone else while in an existing relationship (unless we're talking about something more permanent, like marriage, for instance.) That's the true test of fidelity and the foundation of the relationship itself, methinks.

I had a girlfriend of four years; of which, only one year was spent together.  On her first year after leaving for the States to practice nursing, she mentioned a colleague who was being nice to her.  They have already become friends, by virtue of the barkada of Filipinos at the nursing home where they worked.  I can completely understand her need to form new friendships, especially because she had no friends or family to turn to in the States at the time.  I explained that it's natural for guys over there to try their luck in courting her, knowing that I, the boyfriend, didn't have the power to prevent it.  This was kind of an acid test for our relationship, because I had no means of visiting her yet.  I told her that if the loneliness was too great for her to bear, that she should at least end our relationship before entertaining another guy.  The result?  She chose to discourage him, though it was difficult because of the peer pressure and incessant teasing she had to deal with.  Give your girl the chance to earn your trust.  If she fails, then at least it didn't happen when you're already married to her.

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Looking back at this post reminds me that things happen because they had to, for some reason or another. Insisting on what I wanted (which was to keep her) may have been detrimental to both our lives in the end, and I find comfort in the fact that she is better off with the other guy. Had she been worse off, however, that would be an entirely different story.

Another microcosm of society. The flipside of which is I can be more open with my thoughts and feelings. Yep, and even commit mistakes I'd never even imagine doing in real life. heheheh. (That's freedom of speech to the nth power.) I just love how the truth can sometimes just hit you hard...but in some strange way, you're sort of insulated from it's full effect. Kewl. (Plus, of course, there's the 'Edit' and 'Delete' buttons. heheheh.)

The thought just crossed my mind a few moments ago (although this pertains not to a relationship, but to an embarrassing situation.) I was tempted to say in my best Keanu Reeves impression, "Operator, I need an exit." heheheh.

Para hindi OT:

Honesty may be the best policy when breaking up, but I suppose it wouldn't hurt to soften the blow a bit. After all, this is a rather delicate situation. Tell her the specifics. The decision to break up is never an easy one, and you must have the best intentions in doing so (that pursuing the relationship further would only cause more harm than good, especially when your heart is no longer into it---if this is the case.) Tell her you carry the weight of this decision, because it was your choice---not hers. Make her know that she shouldn't blame herself why you feel this way. Words of consolation may be out of place, since you'll be the source of her grief, so it's probably better not to try and comfort her. Once you've broken the news, if she asks to be left alone, respect her wishes, but if she wishes to discuss it, then answer her questions as truthfully as possible. Once all is said and done, try to part ways as friends. If she's too hurt to accept your offer, don't force it. It's the toughest thing to do, I agree. But it's even tougher to pretend that you still love her when you no longer feel that way. That's even more unfair to her (and yourself) if you think about it.

Just did something spontaneous today, although I guess I'd much rather not have done it in retrospect. I felt like I was intruding. Man, what was I thinking? My sincerest apologies for barging in like that, fellas. Please don't mind me, k? Just one of my weird days. heheheh. Moving on....

This "double standard" is called the standard of NATURE.

 

When men make babies with other women other than his wife, as long as nobody finds out, he sends his love and support, and is more than capable of doing so (rich), everyone is still happy.

 

When women make babies with other men and tries to pass of this baby as her husband's baby, this is a grave and terminal injustice not only to her husband, but to her husband's WHOLE FAMILY.  The baby is not of the blood of the father, not of the grandparents, not of the uncles, not of the aunties, not of the cousins.

 

Any of you try being in the position as GRANDMOTHER or GRANDFATHER and you will cry WAR when you find out the grandchild you have been loving all these years was nothing but a FAKE.

 

Bullshit if anyone says napamahal na... blood is always thicker than water.

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Physiological differences do put women at a disadvantage where infidelity is concerned. If she chooses to keep the child, there is no way to conceal the fact of her pregnancy. That men typically assume the role of breadwinner often renders women completely dependent on their husbands for financial support. If women had the luxury of keeping the whole affair a secret (and were not prevented from ending their careers in lieu of motherhood), then perhaps both genders would have an equal footing. As you pointed out, however, this is simply not the case.

Passing off one's baby as her husband's when it is not is a terrible thing to do, but the same goes for having an illicit affair or an illegitimate family. The erring party still has to answer for their actions...if they were ever found out. Forgiveness is still up to those who've been wronged. It's a matter of pride and understanding.

Sounds like a topic straight out of the Jerry Springer Show. heheheh. We seem to have a double standard in our society about infidelity. Men get to do so with more frequency, and are often held in great esteem by their peers for demonstrating their machismo, while society tends to tolerate their behavior because it's considered 'typical'. Women, on the other hand, are condemned once they are found out. Truth is, anyone is capable of making mistakes. Whether one is able to forgive depends not on common sense, but on how much you truly love your partner. Of course, all bets are off when the relationship wasn't serious to begin with, or was more 'convenient' than romantic in nature. The saying, "to err is human, to forgive, divine," rings loudly in such cases.

HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH?

 

IF...

 

...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED

 

... YOU HAVE KIDS

 

... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER

 

... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF

 

... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH

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If one's conscience (and will) is strong enough, then this wouldn't present too much of a problem. If you're not happy with your marriage, work it out first. Having an affair only complicates things. If you indulged yourself and find that you're in too deep, just remember what you stand to lose. It has now become a choice between your family and the other woman. She also deserves to have someone all to herself. You can't have your cake and eat it, too. You just end up hurting more people, that way.

We have a knack for justifying our choices, even when we know that they do more harm than good. Your hands are not tied. Know in your heart what is best for all, and have the courage to do it.

Great pics, SunflowR! I wonder when hockey'll take-off here in the Philippines. Most of our ice-skating rinks are found at SM malls, where they hold figure skating competitions and hockey tournaments. On some rare occasions, children get to marvel at popular kid's TV show characters on ice (although they're more likely to stage it at the Araneta Coliseum.)

bro manticore!!! hi there. congrats! malapit na mapuno ung list mo. 2 more slots. yehey!

 

sa muntinlupa city nakalagay ung bahay namin. sa labas ha? we are neybors pala dyan.

 

kasalukuyang nasa amin ngayon si hurricane wilma. hinahagupit ng kanyang buntot ang lugar namin pero paalis na siya papuntang atlantic. we are ok naman. sanay na ako dyan sa atin.

 

btw, napanood ko na ung hockey. natalo ung team namin. nanalo ung ottawa senators vs tampa bay lightning. next time na mag log ako, mag post ako ng pics dito.

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Still five slots to go, actually. I'm betting this will take at least another year or two to complete. heheheh. Nice to make your acquaintance, neighbor! Glad to hear you guys weren't harmed during the hurricane. Look forward to the pics. G'day, SunflowR!

8826366!

Funny how I still have that in memory, though I've completely forgotten my High School and Elementary ID numbers. Kailangan pa bang i-memorize yan!?! heheheh.

eh, bro manticore, lapit na nga ung nov. 4. how i wish i can get near mr. pure energy. babantayan ko siya.

 

eh, it's ok if ask u where's ur location?

 

i don't play hockey. 'am just a fan.  the other year, tampa bay lightning won the stanley cup. after resting for a year, hockey is back. on friday, we'll watch live the lightning vs. ottawa senators here in our place in st pete times forum. 'am a fan of khabibulin but he is not playing with the lightning now. so, i think i'll cheer for grahame instead, the goulie.

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I'm from Paranaque. 'bout you, SunfowR?

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feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

feb 23

feb 24 Raine, enki

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka, xuaeenr, PrettyboyPOPOY

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3 TipsyBoi, dixiewhiskey

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

mar 7 missmanners

mar 8 mistaj, pogs109, master t.d.(Jethro)

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mar 10 Joyboy

mar 11 Ennzo

mar 12 Google, sidlopez_x, maldita

mar 13 George Estregan Lives, kissassers

mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon, arkitekto

mar 15 awo

mar 16 djrumble_316

mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

mar 18 mini_me18

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Welcome to our fish pond, kissassers! Dive in. The water's fine. heheheh.

Calling the attention of all Pisceans born on February 23, March 5, 9, 19 and 20...please sign up! (I wonder what the odds are that the people in question will be able to read this. No harm in trying, though. heheheh.)

gandang umaga mga kapwa fishda

 

sencia na now lang nakapost ulit hehehe.

 

hello bro manticore

 

hello sis sunflower  huwow pati bowling hehehe naku kinakarir ko yan dati. sarap magbowling lalo na kung ang kalaro mo ay ang mtc strikers hehehe kaso ngayon di ako nakakapaglaro at medyo yung free time ko ay napupunta sa scuba diving hehehe. miss ko na magbowling hehehe laro tayo pag uwi mo ha

 

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Hmmm. Is bowling another thing Pisceans have in common? I wonder. Haven't tried diving, but I'm sure it's something I'd enjoy, as well, Marilen. G'day to you, Sis!

oh, really, bro manticore? 'am beginning to love bowling, too. every wednesday here, 'am at d bowling lane watching my friends play. they have a league. 'am not joining. mahina ako. hehehe. just that, i need to practise more. i'll check my pics. i'll post them here.

 

'am excited na. wish it's nov. 4 na for the concert of gary v. if i have a chance, i'll pose with him for some pics.

 

eh, bro, u love hockey, too?

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I enjoy bowling a lot, but I'm no contender. heheheh. I just enjoy the feeling of getting a strike once in awhile (and that's rare, indeed!) I've been told by more experienced players to take up lessons, but one other thing I love about this game is that you can do it your own way. Look forward to the pics, SunflowR!

Nov. 4 is just around the corner. Hope you get to pose with Mr. Pure Energy, too. :thumbsupsmiley:

Not too many hockey courts, I'm afraid, so this sport is still in its infancy here. Haven't tried it, though. You play?

hi there, bro manticore! how's ur ball? is it football, hockey, basketball, baseball?    kidding!! 

 

have to log at this time since our pc crashed. it's ok now except for some softwares which haven't been yet uploaded.

 

u know martin nievera? he had a concert here last friday. haven't watched it but it's a superb performance daw. many pinoys were there. gary v will be here this nov. 4. i'll be there. i have a ticket now.

 

kumusta na mga pisces people.

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My ball? Bowling, of course. heheheh. Good thing your PC's up and running again. Martin Nievera and Gary Valenciano are two male performers/recording artists who reached the peak of their popularity sometime between the 80's and 90's. Martin's forte are ballads, while Gary V is best known for his song-and-dance routine (along the lines of Michael Jackson, although with his own patented moves. heheheh.) You'll enjoy the concert, as Gary V's a versatile performer. G'day, SunflowR!

hehehe! bro manticore. how i wish 'am peter pan. anyway, age is just a number. i don't know how to count. ahayyyyyyy!

 

just enjoy life to the fullest.

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The moment is all we've got. Age is a number that defines how much time has elapsed in our lifetime (and the meter doesn't stop until it breaks. heheheh.) I'm having a ball. Hope you are, too, SunflowR!

Clever Sleuth,

You are as sharp as a tack,

which is why so many think twice

before they 'attack'.

Many men start out meek as mice.

They are taken aback

with ladies they can't keep up with, so it's no surprise

that they let their insecurities get the better of them, and they stop playing nice!

I hope you don't mind if I make a suggestion.

Don't rule out the possibility of finding a worthwhile companion,

for a diamond in the rough may escape your attention.

It takes patience in finding one. I'm sure you understand what I've just mentioned.

Never say die! I'm sure you have a similar affirmation.

You've reached great heights with the mindset of a champion.

Relationships may require a more delicate approach, because you're not in competition

with the potential object of your affection.

Go over your list of respondents.

Try them out one by one, until someone makes a dent.

(or should I say lasting impression? That's probably what I meant.)

I'm sure one will meet or exceed your expectations of a fine gent!

I wish you the best of luck in this endeavor.

Pursue it with everything you've got, and don't lose your fervor!

Great rewards you shall soon savor

once you've allowed yourself the luxury of patience in the arena of amor.

Respectfully yours,

Manticore

bro manticore, hi there. thanks!! as always.

 

there's the list. 2006 is fast approaching and few more slots to be filled up.

 

watta life. ung bilis.

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Aye, SunflowR. Where'd all the time go? heheheh. Time flies when you're having fun, eh? (Or is it when we're too preoccupied with many things? heheheh.) I'm feeling older by the minute. (argh.)

Beautiful pic, SunflowR! May our Filipino heritage live on for many generations of FilAms. More power to all of you! :cool:

feb 19 jason_lee

feb 20 lllklllolllblllelll

feb 21 Manticore, Joel, Warhammer

feb 22 mental_boi, spot

feb 23

feb 24 Raine, enki

feb 25 sweetpsyche, SunflowR, J888Cool

feb 26 jason bourne

feb 27 Marilen, freeboracaytrip

feb 28 Shizuka, xuaeenr, PrettyboyPOPOY

feb 29 freezer

mar 1 Ecko

mar 2 Mayella

mar 3 TipsyBoi, dixiewhiskey

mar 4 Kenzji

mar 5

mar 6 CHIPESTERKHAN

mar 7 missmanners

mar 8 mistaj, pogs109, master t.d.(Jethro)

mar 9

mar 10 Joyboy

mar 11 Ennzo

mar 12 Google, sidlopez_x, maldita

mar 13 George Estregan Lives

mar 14 purple_ink, pajamazzon, arkitekto

mar 15 awo

mar 16 djrumble_316

mar 17 cruzader, Steel17, Sgt. KaMoTe

mar 18 mini_me18

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Welcome back, dixiewhiskey! Care to add yours, phagers? heheheh. 5 slots are a-waiting!