CardingTigas

 

Kasi nakakataas levels ng testosterone broccoli.

 

Basta para sakin, ang bisyo talaga na ieenjoy ko sa holidays ay tsibog! Ill be sure though to get a good afterburn muna before enjoying the new years eve

pre, ang sexy time malakas maka burn ng calories =) hahahahaha

 

 

Tsibog na lang pwede? Dun game ako! Ilang buwan na akong puro chicken breast at brocolli, wala pang coke huhuhu

 

 

yan ang problem pag mag clean carbs and protein tayo mga boys, broccoli is a good source of clean protein, unfortunately, nakaka baho ng smell ng semen, kaya ako puro pineapple juice and fruits =) hahahah

 

Walang sabit yan ha!

 

 

hmmmmm Spa lang talaga ha.... sige na Im open to meet halfway lol

 

 

To the Batcave!!!! Pili ka, Site A or Site B, promise, hindi to MP, clean fun with them ladies...gusto mo ba maging part ng #TeamCarding ??? Pakilala kita sa mga Angels ko they're nice

Good for you. Although, personally, I'm still cynical about these types of relationships.

 

Anyway, CT, I know it's OT pero wala ng negative button so wala ng magnenegative sa atin. Hindi kaya iiyak ang mga stalker natin kasi wala ng button na pinagkakasabikan nila?

sayang nga, wala na un negative button, ang lakas din maka bad boy effect nung negative points. chicks digs bad boys hahahahaha..

I respect your opinion bro about sa mga ganun types ng relationships =)

Paki PM na lang sa amin kung ano ang preference mo sa isang thera

Wag ka mag alala EDantes, SPA lang un pupuntahan natin at hindi MP...

Para maiba naman, ikaw yung nasa other side of the coin. hehe

Onga, E.Dantes, sama ka samin, may papakilala ako sayo brother, one time lang

 

OK good! Thats you chewing on that shame sandwich. Does you good doesn't it. Pero what I am really wondering is if you properly defended yourself emotionally noon? If I may share something, yun ang realization ko noon sa sarili ko. Dahil masaya ako, dahil mahal ko, I failed to emotionally look after myself. Hence I attracted the wrong women. See its not even always a case of them leaving, sometimes it was a case of them sticking around longer than they were supposed to. I guess what I am trying to say is sa lahat ng relasyon na papasukan mo, be fair sa sarili mo. Dont make compromises that will make you feel insecure sa sarili mo. See when all this said and done parekoy bros before..... well ayoko na gamitin yung salitang yun at may magagalit. Basta sa mga ganitong usapin syempre tayo tayong mga may Y-chromosome dapat nagkakampihan.

 

 

 

Lets hope it stays that way, kasi tingin ko malaki laki emotional investment mo sa taong ito. Kung di sya magbabago, dude, durog sigurado pride mo bilang lalake nyan.

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if I may reiterate brother, yes SPA therapist sya, and yes she have other clients way back, but then again, we don't have that client-therapist relationship to begin with, we were friends from the start, it so happen na dun lang kame nag kakilala sa work place nya, yung relationship namin goes beyond the four corners of the spa.

hindi ko na sya pinapag duty sa work nya...I want her to focus on things that would improve her life. When I asked her na tumigil na sya sa work nya, it was not my sole decision to make, sya din mismo ang gusto ng tumigil.

How do i know na talagang tumigil na sya? technology brother, Skype call every now and then, kahit nasa office ako, she makes it a point to make a video call, and checks up on me every now and then. gusto rin nya syempre na magkaron ako ng peace of mind, pero hindi ako ang nag impose nun sa kanya. ginagawa nya un, out of her own free will, may be i have proven something to her. something na nagpabago sa kanya.

May be our relationship is another proof that we should not loose faith in humanity.

Happy Holidays Brothers!!!

There you go. It's understandable why the others left you. The way I see it, you were drawn to your gf who is a therapist because therapists can also be de facto psychiatrists. They listen to your problems and part of their charm is lending an ear to their clients which is why it is easy for the clients to be drawn to their therapists.

if I may reiterate brother, yes therapist sya, and yes she have other clients way back, but then again, we don't have that client-therapist relationship to begin with, we were friends from the start, it so happen na dun lang kame nag kakilala sa work place nya, yung relationship namin goes beyond the four corners of the spa.

hindi ko na sya pinapag duty sa work nya...I want her to focus on things that would improve her life. When I asked her na tumigil na sya sa work nya, it was not my sole decision to make, sya din mismo ang gusto ng tumigil.

How do i know na talagang tumigil na sya? technology brother, Skype call every now and then, kahit nasa office ako, she makes it a point to make a video call, and checks up on me every now and then. gusto rin nya syempre na magkaron ako ng peace of mind, pero hindi ako ang nag impose nun sa kanya. ginagawa nya un, out of her own free will, may be i have proven something to her. something na nagpabago sa kanya.

May be our relationship is another proof that we should not loose faith in humanity.

Happy Holidays Brothers!!!

There you go. It's understandable why the others left you. The way I see it, you were drawn to your gf who is a therapist because therapists can also be de facto psychiatrists. They listen to your problems and part of their charm is lending an ear to their clients which is why it is easy for the clients to be drawn to their therapists.

 

Oo therapist nga sya pero, Hndi naman nya ako client, and pinatigil ko na sya. =)

And maybe we can invite Sir Edmund sa mga batcave natin and refer him sa regular natin (Idamay pa sa kalokohan natin, B.I.)

you guys should be meet my ladies up here sa QC...E.D. pasyal ka d2 sa QC introduce kita sa BatCave Prime ko =), ang bumangga sayo, gigibain ko!!!

 

Man,

 

This may not be something that youd like to hear, but truth of the matter is may kasalanan ka din most likely why those relationships failed or why you became so attractive to women of poor character. Again di ko sinasabing masama ka, ang sinasabi ko its healthy din kasi to sometimes chew on that shame sandwich paminsan minsan. Kasi dyan tayo matututo eh, pag tinanggap natin na may mali satin na dapat ayusin. Pag nagawa mo yan, hindi ka paulit ulit lang ng pagkakamali sa mga darating pang relasyon mo di ba?

 

Lahat naman ng babaeng dumarating sa buhay mo, at one point prinsesa sila, napasaya ka ng sobra, at "special". Higit pa dyan, hindi mo naman inakalang sasaksakin ka sa likod ng mga yan di ba?

 

Let me ask you this since naungkat naman, were you going to her place of work nung time na kagagaling mo lang sa isang breakup? Parang on a rebound course ka then nagkakilala kayo?

nope, un rebound ko nuon, activity based eh, Gym tsaka wakeboard, tapos beach, out of town most of the time, pag stressed out lang ako nuon kaya ako napapadpad sa batcave, and yun primary therapist ko nuon dun sa batcave ko eh, hindi sya un woman na sinasabe ko =) and she's out of the spa scene na din sya lately, I've finally convinced her to stop na. every time na umuuwe ako sa kanya, its like a normal setup, she cooks dinner, prepares my shirt for work, I got stuff at her place para kung dun ako mag spend ng gabi, at least sa umaga may gamit ako pag pasok sa office, ayos naman tulad din ng setup ko with my previous girlfriends, but now ine-evaluate ko din un mga past mistakes ko para hindi na maulet.

Maybe my major flaw way back is that I'm a career driven person before, to the point na neneglect ko un mga past girlfriend ko because I'm pursuing my career lalo na nung na second ako sa New York Office nung Firm namin dati. pag balik ko ng Pilipinas, wala na ako binalikan dun sa Apartment ng X ko. only my stuff were left. badvibes noh??? well ang lalake kasi parang Government Treasury Shares, it will take a significant amount of time to Mature...hahahah. pero lesson learned from all of it, is that, "Never Neglect A Woman's Feelings" sure sometimes that it may seem irrelevant, but if you add up every issues left un resolved, it would create a ripple that may ruin everything and you'll realize that everything is lost. Hopefully, Wag na mangyare ulet yun =)

Okay lang yung ulo down there basta pagka release wala na Wag lang pumunta sa puso. Mas mahirap pag ganun. Misinterpreting your sexual desire/accomplishment to love.

oo naman!!! minsana kasi pag nag rreach ka na sa peak mo during the act itself, may mga words na hindi dapat sinasabe =) dun nag kaka mindf#&k, there's a very thin line between romance during sexy time and love itself.

I agree with you sir, kaya nga mas maganda is gamitin muna utak, then puson lastly ang puso.

 

ang major challenge kasi talaga ay pano mo lalabanan un pangalawang Ulo mo, minsan kasi if you get excited and overwhelmed, blood rushes down to your head down there, in effect na wawala ng oxygen un brain mo and hindi ka makapag isip ng derecho!!! hahahahaha

Kidding Aside my friend, sa mga pinagdaanan ko before, I can say that i can handle things much better now

There is nothing wrong in falling in love with these girls but reality check is mas lower % of success rate compare to others. Mostly kasi sinasamantala lang ng mga theras yung vulneraibility nung guy or sometimes the other way around. But love don't care about statistics, they always say they can do anything in the name of love. They can move the world as they say. Those with better resources have higher chances though.

not all my friend, yes the risk that you may get f#&ked up and maka encounter ng mga hustler ay malaki, that's why this kind of setup is not for the weak of heart and you still need to be in control of your own Heart and Mind and even your Bird =) kung hindi ka din ready, and have a conviction to filter out those who only care for your bank account, eh, wag ng tumuloy dahil crash and burn lang ang ending nyan.

Again my friend, I'm not selling the idea that one should enter this kind of relationship. Protect yourself, wear and emotional condom =)

Whew! It's been a while since I read this forum... Simply browsed through most posts.

 

To those people like C.Tigas:

 

If you put yourself in an objective state of mind, meaning, it's not you in the situation but someone dear to you like a brother, or maybe your son in the future. What would you advise them to do? If it's your son, what would you tell him to do?

 

Your answer to this question above will prove the right course of action.

 

 

Simple lang, Message to my Future Son : That is how your mom and I met, I know that It's not perfect, and definitely its not an ideal setup, we live in a judgmental society, people would say a lot of hurtful things, they may seem to know you better than your own self, but this I say to you my Son, you have my genes, my blood runs thru your veins, and I know that you have the balls and courage to Man Up and stand for your woman I know it's not perfect but its worth it, and you are the living proof of our love for each other.

 

 

OO relationships are case to case. Pero healthy relationships in all forms require some level of maturity and being fair to your partner as well as to yourself. Lahat tayo basta masaya willing to make compromises na di natin naiintindihan ng gaano. Everything looks different kapag emosyon na ang nagiisip. Yung pangit nagiging maganda, yung baluktot nagiging tuwid. Ito na lang si Carding, will make naive sweeping generalizations na mas may prinsipyo pa pagdating sa pagibig ang mga babaeng ito kesa sa mga babaeng may office work.

 

yun kasi naman talaga na experience ko, wrong choice of words lang hahahaha, as I have said, I had several girlfriends before na tulad ko na CPA din, may Nurse, Marketing Officer, Call Center Agent...lahat sila may matinong trabaho, but unfortunately, it didn't work out, some of them nag cheat, some of them hindi lang talaga kame compatible, pero they all have one thing in Common na medyo ouch, hindi ko alam kung coincidence lang, pero lahat sila, Nag Asawa after ko naging GF. That how f#&ked up may past relationships were. yun pala un kulang dun sa mga kwento ko E.D.

Note: Linawin ko lang, Hindi ko ako nag ge-generalize ng work, it so happen lang that before all of this roller coaster ride with my current woman, I had a life before na at one point ay naging masaya din ako, but it all went downhill for some reason na hanggang ngayon iniisip ko pa din what went wrong. =) Water under the bridge, I'm happy with this woman right now, settling down somewhere in the south by first quarter of next year.

hello guys ano ang MPA? just curios lng... and psp narin,, thnx !!

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Spread love this christmas season =) un love n hindi romantic

Lets just be happy for them whoever they maybe. Respect their decisions. Di natin alam kung ano ending pro at least they are trying...

kikala ko ba yan boss carding?

Nope =)

Hehehe eto nanaman ako masyadong contrabulate.

 

Lahat gusto ng happy ending. Pero being realistic, hindi totoo ang mga romcom at fairy tale happy endings. Ang ibig ko sabihin kung sa totoong buhay nangyari kwento ni Cinderella, taon matapos yung kasal magaaway malamang sila ng prince charming nya. Pwedeng malosyang din sya pagkatapos manganak at magkakabilbil si Prince Charming. lol.

 

I am not trying to sound pessimistic here. Ang punto ko, happy endings in real life are not all rainbows and sunshines all the way through. Dadaan kayo sa mga pagsubok at maraming away. At kung yang infatuation lang na meron kayo sa isat isa panghahawakan nyo, eh hindi kayo magtatagal. kahit sinong beterano na sa maraming cycles ng paguumpisa ng relasyon at pagtatapos nito sasabihin na hindi sapat yung happiness na nararamdaman mo to say its a relationship worth having. Ang key talaga dapat is matibay yung foundation ninyo. Matagal yung naging evolution at solid.

 

Sa kaso ni Cardingtigas, of course we all wish him the best. Sana yung babae eh totoo yung sincerity at sana din pareng carding, kaya mo panindigan ng mabuti desisyon mo. Sana at sana talaga na kung dumating na yung panahon na past infatuation phase na talaga kayo at nandun na sa puntong hindi lagi sumisikat maganda araw eh hindi na mauungkat nakaraan nung babae. Kasi masakit yan sa babae pag biglang bugso ng damdamin masusumbat mo yan. Ngayon oo tanggap mo at balewala kasi masaya ka pa.

Lifting a Quote from one of my favorite movie actor on one of his films "The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place... and I don´t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as life. But ain't about how hard you hit... It's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward... how much you can take, and keep moving forward. That´s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you worth, go out and get what you worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits. And not pointing fingers saying: You ain´t what you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain´t you! You´re better than that..." - Rocky Balboa

Ahehe onganoh, di ko napansin double meaning pla happy ending dito. Yung mas makabuluhang happy ending nga ibig ko sbhn. Hehehe

ayus lang yan, mag gusto ko naman un happy ending na pang normal na set up =)

Congrats idol. Good luck sa inyo at sa mga plano nyo sa buhay. Kakatuwa mgbasa ng happy ending dito.

ibang happy ending naman this time =)

 

Mabuti kung ganun then. Sana lang she appreciates the help she is getting

Don't let it run your life or else it will burn you so much.

kaya nga dapat in command ka pa din sa sarili mo kung hindi crash and burn ang ending ng mga ganitong setup...

ending neto crash and burn if you are not in command of your own feelings

Kung ayaw mo ng kalyo, use gloves. Pero mas maangas pag wala, callouses are like your battle scars!

chicks dig battle scars =)