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Gits

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    Sorry I didn't phrase that properly. I am saying, kung ikaw yung babae layasan mo muna trabaho na yan tapos saka ka magnurture ng romantic relationship. Its a reasonable condition naman. I dont understand why so many people have to contest it. Pag lumabas na sya dyan, di at least mas magiging managable na relationship

    It's ok sir, no worries and i understand your point :)

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    Then do everything in your power to get out of that business and start a new life. With that new life start a healthier relationship ng walang sabit o problema. Kung kaya tanggapin lalake nakaraan mo, then good luck. Let yesterday be the past.

     

    Anybody can fall in love, but it takes certain maturity and preparedness to enter a serious relationship. Like I will always say, hindi pinapasok ang isang relasyon dahil lang masaya ka. Only teenagers do that.

    Sir Edmund lalaki ako :) ako ang isa sa mga nagka gf ng therapist before. mali yata tong post mo :) well anyway i did asked her and convince her to leave this kind of job, but it's up to the girl pa rin naman diba. yung ex kung yun ang huli ko lang balita sa kanya tumigil na nga daw sya sa "spa" yun lang ang huli kong balita sa kanya noong 2011 pa yun. so i hope ok naman sya :)

  3. The scenario I see on this is pati libog nawawala kung na-inlove na ang guy. They will have respect sa girl and they rather be with her doing kwentuhan or dine together rather than have sex. Sometimes walang choice yung guy pumunta sa work kasi yun lang ang chance na makasama yung girl but usually wala pang serious commitment ang girl kaya di nila pinapaalis sa work. Siguro pag serious na talaga on both sides then dapat tumigil na ang girl sa ganyang line of work.

    tama si sir Sephirot pag naiinlove na yung guy nawawala na rin yung libog, napapalitan na eto ng respeto at hiya don sa girl. tapos unti unti na ding tumitigil yung guy sa pag papagawa sa kanya yung tipong massage na lang and wala ng "extra" hanggang sa totally hindi na talaga nagpapagawa, kung pupunta man yung guy sa pinagtrarabahuhan ng therapist dalaw na lang. lahat naman tayo gusto natin sila tumigil sa ganyang line of work. don naman ako agree kay sir edmund kanina sa post nya. :)

  4. Interesting answers so far.

     

    So far sa akin kung di pa siya ready na mag-retire up to her, nagustuhan ko kasi siya in-spite of what she does. I know what she does and if she said it's all work so be it. Siguro nga medyo naiba na din panananw ko kasi medyo nagtagal din ako sa ibang bansa. Now kung makipag-date siya sa labas medyo iba ng usapan yun.

     

    Ika nga alang basagan....

     

    Peace.

     

    well sir marami kang makikitang advises, answers dito and opinion na din na helpful. may mga nag sashare ng experiences nila. like me i share yung naging experienced ko before. yun nga lang wala na akong balita sa "kanya" last time na narinig ko lang hindi na sya nageespa. tagal na din kasi 2011 pa yun :)

  5. i'm new in this thread but i wish to share my experience in 2009. I frequented skyline (macapagal) and got hooked with one of its top theras, bridgitte. almost fell for her. But she had a bf (who was also a client) who was just a few years older than her (so the bf was also in his 20s)

     

    i heard from bridgitte's friend that she left the espa scene in 2010 and is now living (or married) with the same bf (and they already have a child).

     

    but this kind of successful relationship between client and espa therapist is probably very rare.

     

    thanks for sharing this :) anyway maraming advises dito na helpful :)

  6. Ang consistent stand natin sa issue ay simple lang.

     

    OO lahat ng klase ng babae kahit ano pa background nya may karapatan magmahal at mahalin. Pero ang pagmamahal, ilalagay dapat sa tamang lugar para umusbong ng tama. Hindi lang puros kilig at lib0g dapat yan para magwork. Dapat may respeto, tiwala, at higit sa lahat loyalty.

     

    Kung gusto ng babae magmahal at mahalin, di talikuran nya ang trabahong ito. Iwan nya nakaraan nya at sikapin magbagong buhay. That way she can offer more sa partner nya other than mga nakaw na sandali. Kung kelangan maghanap buhay talaga, eh mamili sya. Hanapbuhay o pag-ibig. You can't always have both and make compromises. Life works that way. You need to make sacrifices and choices. It is what it is.

     

    Para sakin, entertaining a relationship while the girl is still active in the game is kalokohan talaga. Alam ko I will tap nerves again saying that. Pero tingin ko yung iba dito kasi sobrang in denial. Kaya nga, be emotionally mature naman. Kung konting kilig at lib0g lang pinagbabasehan mo ng katwiran walang mangyayari sa inyo.

     

    Ill be counting negative votes later lol

    tama ka sir. i agree with you :) meron din naman nagbagong buhay na din :)

  7. Whew long thread...

     

    Tanong ko lang po sa mga nag-karelasyon at meron on-going relationship. Do you or Did you ask her to change work?

     

     

    i was one of the guys who had a relationship before with a therapist (spakol) that was back in 2011. my answer to the question is YES. remember these ladies only engage to this kind of job not for them, but for their family, sometimes for their studies na din.

  8. for my family. i wish good health for my parents and siblings as well as abundant graces for them
    for "her". I wish also good health for her and for her mom and that God will bless there business with a lot of customers. and most of all i wish for her to have a happy normal life.
    for reviewees: i wish for a 100% passing rate for you, my future colleagues in your recent licensure examination.
    for myself: i wish for good health din, more earnings (from work) and stable businesses and sana ako na :)

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  9. Dude, kahit sinong nilalang may kakayahang magmahal at mahalin. GIven naman yun. Kahit nga aso pwede rin magpakita ng affection. Pero it takes an emotionally mature individual to nurture a healthy kind of love that transforms you into a better person.

     

    Hindi naman issue dito yung respeto. Sure they are human beings and sinners like you and I are, they are also citizens who deserve the same civil rights we enjoy. Pero ibang usapan ang pagtitiwala ng pagmamahal at paguumpisa ng relasyon.

     

    Love can either bring the best and the worst out of you.

     

    we have different views when it comes with these issues, but i respect your opinion sir. i have no problems with it :)

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