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I come to this section upon the request of GM edwinT ==>>> http://manilatonight.com/index.php?showuser=385192

He asked me if I can share some of my thoughts about the topic "Falling for a therapist".

 

I do not find it impossible for a GM to fall in love with a therapist and vice-versa.

In fact, I think it is natural that when two (2) people see each other a multiple

number of times and perform partly or in whole the act of romance (I say this

with a very conservative manner of thinking ), it will not be hard for them to

pursue this further by conveying affection for each other.

 

A GM and a therapist who sees each other often at the latter's work place, gives

an opportunity for them to speak about personal things that will allow them to

know each other quite very well. They continue to do this by texting or calling

each other. If their biological and emotional vibrations resonate at the same

frequency , it will certainly be a happy experience to pursue a relationship with

each other.

 

But.......the only problem lies when one or both of them become possessive. Mostly

I believe this happens to GMs. They become wary of the thera's job and become

jealous of other clients. Specially of those who writes very good field reports .

This goes both ways, the thera becomes jealous of other theras who may have

been part of his GM's past. But I believe most of the time it is the GM who become

very demanding of the thera's attention. Making certain requests like;

 

1.) Do not post any more of your pictures at the spa thread

2.) Do not do this type of ES anymore

3.) Do not wear this kind of clothes when you come to work

4.) Do not reply to PMs and txt messages from clients

5.) Let me have your mtc password

6.) Let me have your FB password

7.) Do not go to work, just have a date with me

8.) Resign and find another job

9.) etc., etc. etc.

 

Just a few simple questions for those who fell in love with

their theras:

1.) Are you still single?

2.) Why not ask her to retire and marry her?

3.) Why not help her to find an alternative source of income?

4.) Can you help her support her child/children?

5.) Can you help her support her parents and siblings?

6.) Are you willing to accept her past?

7.) What if you have a best friend who was once her client?

-Will you make that person your best man at your wedding?

8.) Can you build a future with her without considering her past?

 

We therapists work in spakols for a reason. If we can find better work

which pays the amount we need to support our family, don't you think

we will do all your requests above in a heart beat?

 

We want to be loved whole heartedly and genuinely. Of course we want

you our beloved BF-GM to be proud of us. Do you think you can be

proud of me if in case we fell in love? Will you be willing to bring your

thera-gf to a private function which is probably filled with discreet lurking

mtc members? Are you willing to take the risk of marrying a former

thera where it is possible that your male principal sponsor at your wedding

was a former client?

 

Think about these things before falling in love with a therapist. If almost

all of your answers to my questions above is "NO". You run the risk of just

hurting the therapist's feeling in the end. It is probably a good idea to stay

to just being a good client.

 

May I add this please:

We need you guys but I am sure you need us too. Please help

us continue serving you by patronizing your favorites spas and

therapists. There is no denying that we are here because of all

of you.

 

Support all mtc spas and put the FR system to good use. Do

not waste your time and resources. Read the FRs, I am sure

you know which ones are useful and which ones can be discarded.

 

Thank you all.

 

this is nice. i like those questions

Sabi nga nung thera, single ba kayo?

 

Maraming kwento dyan hindi natin alam, maraming nalokong o mas lalong nagkalokoloko ang buhay na mga babae.

 

Pero alam ko marami din nasirang pamilya siguro at maraming lalaki rin ang naloko at nasira ang buhay dyan.

 

Mahirap tanggapin na may kahati ka sa babae man o sa lalaki, pero pag kayo na at malalim na ang relasyon mahirap hundi magselos, sabi ko nga nun may mag text lang may tumawag lang ano na iisipin mo.

 

Mas dapat siguro kung may nagugustuhan ka ialis mo muna dun bugyan mo ng ibang pagkakakitaan o ihanap ng ibang trabaho bago kayo magsama o bago mo ibahay. Kung magkahiwalay man kayo atleast may alam na syang ibang pwedeng gawin at pagkakitaan.

 

That way nasa babae na rin yan kung paano nya sisimulan ang pagbabago at kung paano nya itutuloy ang bagong buhay nya.

definately agree with these statements particularly the one in bold letters. its going to be difficult if your gf (who is a thera) still works in spa, may selos kang mararamdaman. kaya nga dapat maialis o makobinse si thera na magibang trabaho.

What if you were in this situation now, what would you do? Just a random thought..

i've been in this situation before. i have an ex gf who was a therapist. but that was a close book now. tapos na yan and like the great gm said spa is not a place to look for love and relationship.

goodluck for those who are falling inlove to their therapist.

Ahh meron naman talaga, pero mas marami yata ayaw umamin para ang dating eh libre sila kahit anong gawin. Pag tinawagan mo or ano ipagawa mo eh pwede.

 

May mga restrictions lang na the usual na hindi ginagawa.

may mga ganyan din siempre.

May alam akong thera sinasabing may bf sila kahit wala kapag ayaw nilang gawin ang es na gusto ng gm. So di na sila pinipilit ng gm sa es na gustong pagawa.

may mga ganon talagang thera, lalo na kung ayaw nila yung gm. so hayaan na lang.

Dami yatang ganyan, tanungin mo kung may bf syempre ang sagot wala. Yun pala syota na ng bayan enjoying everything sa trabaho at sa labas.

 

I guess ang thinking nila eh sa trabaho at sa labas pareho lang trabaho lang para kumita.

meron din namang mangilanngilan na honest kahit papano inaamin na may bf sila.

Ahh syempre may kunting pagbibigay paminsan minsan, pero pag may customer yan na malaki magbigay gagawa ng dahilan yan manghihinayang eh.

 

Kung na experience mo na I suggest tama na, alam mo na pakiramdam at alam mo na rin ano pwedeng problema kaya ibang experience naman, hehehe!

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Problema kasi yung iba papayag para lang makaaais sa trabaho pero walang feelings sa lalaki, sa huli ma realize nya malungkot at wala na sya magawa hanggang sa magkalabuan na lang ulit.

yun ang problema pag wala feelings sa lalaki, kaya dapat meron nararamdaman si thera sa guest, mahirap kasi kung napilitan lang si thera na sumama kay guest na hindi naman pala nya talaga gusto.

 

Yung iba hindi pa rin humihinto kasi may pride na ayaw nila maging financially burden lalo na kung sinusuportahan pa ang family. Tamed na lang daw ang ES

yup tama may mga ganon pa ding thera. pero siempre mas maganda na maialis pa din yung thera sa ganong trabaho at makahanap ng mas ok na trabaho. ipon ipon bawasan ang luho

Problema dyan kung inlove sila pareho, kung tatanggapin nung babae offer na umalis tapos hindi naman nya talagang gusto yung lalaki, baka magkaron ng problemang mas malaki later on.

 

Mahirap din hindi alam yung trabho nila kasi pag nalaman mas malaking gulo, at pag ipinakilala mo sa kaibigan mo at naging customer nya kaibigan mo, naku gulong malaki yan.

with regards with "inlove pareho" kailangan talaga malaman kung totoo love ang isat isa kasi pag hindi problema talaga mangyayari pag ganon. dapat totoo yung nararamdaman ng bawat isa hindi isa lang ang seryoso at inlove.

kung magkaka gf ng thera dapat handa ka at kayang ipakilala sa pamilya at sa mga kaibigan, kung sakasakaling yung isa sa kaibigan mo e naging client/guest nya awkward yun siempre. pero mahalaga huminto na at umalis si thera sa ganong trabaho.

If you fall in love with a thera, you have to be above average in terms of financial stability her quit or change industries. Otherwise, you will just hurt yourself knowing that she provides her services to people other than you.

 

I have chatted to my regular thera/gro regarding this issue, they always give the same answers. They prefer (not a requirement) to engage in a romantic relationship with someone who does not know their line of work. However, if a client offers them to quit and they know that they will be financially secured, they will take that opportunity. The sad part is that if they take the offer from the client it normally leads to "sumbatan" because of their work.

agree.

Is this really happening?

Yes it is. there were some guys who admitted and share there stories about this.

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One more thing, hindi pwedeng hindi ka magseselos kung hindi pa umaalis sa trabaho nya ang babae.

 

May mag text lang or tawag na hindi maiiwasan sigurado gulo na yan, and what do you expect pag pumasok na alangan naman hindi magpagalaw. Syempre ang dahilan eh customer kailangan bolahin at makisama pero mahirap tanggapin.

 

Pinaka mahirap pa nyan malaman mo na kilala mo yung mga naging customer.

Exactly! kaya nga mahirap ang ganitong sitwasyon. megseselos at magseselos ka at kaya nga dapat din maialis si girl/lady sa ganong trabaho.

Yung mga salitang "acceptance" at "trust", nilalagay din yan sa tamang lugar. Because trust and acceptance is something you need to build and earn most of the time. Kung nandito pa sa trabaho itong babaeng ito, then hindi sya handa magnurture ng isang healthy romantic relationship. Dahil bilang babae, obligasyon nya maging exclusive para sa lalake. Maakbayan nga lang girlfriend mo nagagalit ka na, ito pa kaya?

 

 

ayan na si sir edmund. hehehe... anyway agree ako sa part na eto sir edmund. dagdag ko lang kung maging kayo man nung thera dapat priority mong maialis sya o maconvince mo na umalis, magresign at wag ng bumalik sa ganyang trabaho.

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