Gits

Remember we come to espas/mps and not the thera comes to us. We are also the ones who created the relation. Gagana na ang pera diyan, Considered a "bisyo" any amount small or big dapat walang panghihinayang. At the point na si thera ang nagdi-dictate, then it's time to think and decide. Remember again this may mean LOSING HER. Kaya lang kaiba ang pakiramdam ng may ibang karelasyon. Then comes the end for blames...declares has been in this situation but ended fooled...had the same experience...discourage others to avoid such relations...manghihinayang...etc, etc.

For me it's good there are lots of them to select from and FALL IN LOVE. And just like the others tuloy pa rin natin mahalin ang ating thera kahit "mapamahal". Better naman sa iba diyan na mismong si thera ang kumursunada. If married buti pang ibaling na lang ang "galit" sa asawa. Mas makakatipid pa!

Kung may asawa/gf wag na mag espa siempre para hindi magkaproblema, just saying

i shared my story here some years ago. the thera is already out of the industry, but even gawin at ibigay mo na ang lahat ginagago pa din ako. nandoon na mag pa opera ka ng kapatid, mag palibing ng kamag anak, mag bayad ng bahay at kuryente at kung anu ano pa.

she know's that im married, but she insisted na we had an affair. sabi ko lets just be friends with benifts pero ayaw mahal daw nya ako. i know i was been played. ang masakit eh yung emotional part na you gave her the benifit of the doubt. well thats life kailangan lang matuto.

to all GM's na gusto subukan, ang payo ko lang dapat kaya nyo sikmurain lahat ng kasinungalan at panlilinlang. on my experience lang the girl dosen't know the word gratitude.

i knew a thera like this it's not exactly the same as you mentioned but there were some similarities and she is out of the industry as well.

yes, kaya dapat hindi mawalan ng pagasa mga GM's. you just need to keep on searching kung seryoso ka talaga sa thera. but along the way accept mo na karamihan ay hindi seryoso. happy hunting.

"karamihan ay hindi seryoso" correct again

Maybe 1 or 2 out of 10 thera you will find one that is sincere and could be the women of your dreams.

That's right maybe 1 or 2 are sincere and serious.

 

Very true. May mga sobrang bait at mayroon ding nasa Dark Side. Isang malaking influence is kung sinong thera ang nagturo sa kanila nung newbie pa sila.

That we don't know maybe those therapists who had bad experience with a guy influence the newbies or yung matinong therapist mismo ang naka encounter ng mga guest/client na manloloko at garapal.

I was once in a relationship with a top thera 6 years ago. Shes a real stunner. Even complete strangers (mostly women nun nag vacation kami) will tell me ang ganda ng kasama ko and para syang artista. Alls well in the beginning but the reality is, madali ka ipagpalit once they found someone better looks wise or money wise. A good indicator is when she suddenly dont reply to your texts anymore and shes giving you the cold shoulder if you get her at the spa. Tapos gagawa ng away without any reason. LOL

 

Good thing, I never invested that much feelings for her. Sure I was hurt, its more of an ego thing really. After a month or two I found out she was dumped by the guy. I heard nabuntis pa sya. Karma is a real bi+ch.

Exactly! kung magalit pa akala mo sobra laki ng kasalanan mo. its good to know we share some of our experiences in the past.

Sometimes hindi lahat ng thera will go for the money and try to fool us. At least I know of one here who is special to me. She never abused me for money and kahit nga es wala. She is the only one like this and I've never met anyone like her. But as time goes by, I now know and learned to accept that we can't be together no matter what I do... its just that some things in life aren't meant to be.

agree not all therapists is up for the money and try to fool guys, but i'm not saying all are good therapists because there are some that are abusive. therapists that don't even know how to say thank you for being nice to them or helping them etc. just saying

I'm just wondering, who among those GM who had ATW with the thera before falling in love with her?

this is a good question

In my opinion cguro kaya madami akala na pera pera lang kasi mahal sinisingil sa kanila ng thera..there are theras that would not require you a standard tip..meaning kung ano iabot mo they will say thank you. I guess they charge more than the standard tip because madami request or hirap handle si customer.. For me naisip ko din na mahirap din kasi na mag stop sila kasi malaki and mabilis nga ang pera sa spa.. BUT ang kinikita naman nila sa family din nila napupunta..some theras spend it wisely.. Some spend it with their family and extended family. Let us not forget na trabhaho lang naman talaga gawa nila..pero at the end of the day kahit sa labas pwede maging tropa din sila basta they are assured na what ever happens inside the spa stays inside the spa. The trust issue for theras to be your long time friend is not to remind her what you did inside the spa BUT just to have fun whenever your with her outside the spa.

i agree to your opinion most of the women/ladies who work as a therapist in spas support their families, to finish her studies etc. however there are some therapists that are "maluho, oportunista and abusada" and that is the reality. it's okay to fall in love or even make friends with them but you have to use your head (above) not just your heart. i know a therapist (in the past) who doesn't know the value of friendship.

A little when i was in college

Someone who makes stories against you to make them looked "bida"

Ang madali mong nasusulot sa iba, madali din masusungkit sayo. Not worth the risk. Kung kaya nya talikuran yun current commitment nya ng ganun kadali, what makes you think you'd be any different?

 

See this is already reflective ng weakness ng character nung taong gusto mo sulutin. Masama yan magbackfire yan sayo. Pag ikaw naman nasulutan o iniwan, sobra kang masasaktan.

correct! tama ka jan sir kaya dapat wag mangsulot.

i like a the type of girl that is simple, pretty/cute (yung tipong masasabing maganda or cute) maputi, malinis, sweet, loyal, like kids and most of all mabait and hindi sinungaling.

ofcourse she should be a Roman Catholic like me.

NU, PUP, CSJL

I'm avoiding like a plague right now a spa near banawe. Just how can you not fall in love with those beautiful and lovely therapist?

Spas in Banawe, D. Tuazon, Retiro are the places where therapists are really, really pretty, particularly in D. Tuazon (that Spa has a Powerhouse lineup i know you will agree with me) I guess experience and learning from the past will help every GM understand the pros and cons of falling in love or even having a relationship with a therapist.

Last tine i told myself iwan ang puso sa labas dalhin lang ang utak.... eh kaso lang hinatid ko pauwi ayun nakita nnaman ng puso ko ito nnmn ba ako kelan ba ako matututo at mahal ko pa din siya kung sabagay sabi lang niya sakin maghintay lang daw ako baka isang araw magulat ako sa sasabihin niya sakin....

better not to expect to the answer that you wanted to hear. always put in mind that chances are not that high. remember there are other ladies out there you can meet too. just saying

Ok na walang #Forever (sana). Basta magka #FreshStart.

 

Thanks for your kind thoughts

Daan lang sa thread

Fresh start to a woman/lady outside the industry is better.

still i wish goodluck sa mga in love sa mga therapists.

 

Watch out, you may fall her in time, try to get other thera also.

i agree... im not saying all theras but there are theras who play with the gm's heart. same as gm who also play with the therapist's heart. so be careful.

pag nasa bahay siempre matulog, o kaya manood ng movie tapos matutulog. hahaha...

Talagang mahirap maiwasan ma fall lalo na kung maganda at mabait. I have 3 times relationship sa thera kaya lang hindi nagprosper.

twice i courted 2 therapist (hindi sabay) the first 1 became my gf but we broke up after 11 months. the other 1 did not work at all. (hindi naging kami)

The Sign - Ace of Base.

Why do i have this feeling na majority na nag post dito sa thread eh either in a relationship or have a past relationship with a thera. Mabuti naka move on na ako.... but I can never tell lalo na pag may matipuhan ulit kaya iniiwasan ko ang spa sa d. tuazon.

just sharing some insights and opinions from what we had experienced in the past. anyway marami talaga don sa may spa sa d. tuazon. ingat lang be mindful of your feelings guard your heart. hehehe...

Malaki ang posibilidad magkatuluyan.

 

Para sa akin nasa babae dapat ang mas malaking effort after nya maramdaman at makitang totoo ang GM sa kanya at susuportahan sya magiba ng trabaho o bigyan ng pagkakakitaan.

 

Ipakita rin nya na kaya nyang magbago at kalimutan ang nakaraan nya, at maging totoo.

 

Yan naman eh sakin lang, dahil tingin ko napakalaking decision din sa lalaki na magbigay ng chance sa isang babae na hindi ka sigurado.

dapat naman talaga maging seryoso at mag effort din kasi yung girl hindi yung lalaki lang. May experience na rin naman ako ng ganitong situation. may naging ex ako na thera dati. infact dalawang beses ako nakapagligaw ng thera. 3 years ang pagitan at single ako ng mga time na yun. Sila ang mga thera na naging kaibigan at naging kaclose ko noon. may balita pa ako sa isa pero things has changed i'm more on self love now. work is my priority.

Totally agree. Mas prone ang GMs ma inlove sa thera than other way around. Ang problem most theras are too young and still immature on having serious relationships but the GM are dead serious on it.

tama! isama mo na din yung dahilan na paiba iba kasing GM ang na memeet nila sa ganyang trabaho, tapos may mga gm pa na magaling gumawa ng storya tipong binabaliktad ang storya para masira yung isa para sya naman ang mapalapit kay thera.

posible naman talaga na magkatuluyan yun nga lang mababa ang successful rate compare sa failed relationship.

seeing an old photo. reminds me of my student days.