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I just backread on some of these and I found a lot of perspective among all parties.

Simple lang naman. like the old adage goes, "if you play with fire, you get burned." Or magpapapaso paso ka lang muna. hehehe

pwera nalang kung FLAMETHROWER yung nilalaro mo. e ibang usapan na yan.

Para sakin, rule of thumb is be nice but do not expect. Best foot forward lang lagi. Im sure most, if not all, appreciate something that started with a whole lot of good will. Taking the time to know the person is the most underrated/underused aspect of relationship under these circumstances imo. Daming complications na pwede maiwasan if people just took the proper amount of time to think about what they're doing, what they are after, and why although I do understand it can be very difficult sometimes for some.

Relax lang tayong lahat and treat everyone as a person first without any prejudice and preconceived notions.

These trade require the girls to be "EXTRA" sweet, caring and oh... yeah, say it - loving.... to every client.

 

This is how 'her business' will live longer, thus earn more.

 

So for the question how would you know if the girl is really interested in you or just after the "business"?

 

Eh di ligawan ninyo. If she's not fine with it, use ur hunting skill. Us, even in this business ( and sharing bed nightly, with a special "dinner") still need to be wooed.

 

And after the normal ligaw, FOR YOU TO KNOW IF THE GIRL NOW FINALLY LOVE YOU, Syempre, ASK!

 

We are still human! Babae pa rin kami. It doesnt differ us from your girlfriends/wives!

 

Even we're on this business, we change hats rin, you know!

 

 

IN EVERY THING, EVEN ON A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP/COURTSHIP : Do not assume.

Madam, yung nabanggit mo, dalahan na ba to ng mga sibat? hahaha

Kidding aside, yup, you did offer a very straightforward response.. Rektahan na kumbaga although there would still be some that would be harder to gauge based on your recommendation but Im guessing most are still traditional.

 

So much this.

 

It's hard because siemrpe there's an idea that monogamy is super important, and to some people it really is. Maybe that's your priority, and ayaw mo mag share ng "love" mo sa ibang tao... or baka may mga personal beliefs, or may mga religious beliefs, etc.

But it seems like the heart is capable of loving multiple people - just in different ways. Like just because you love one person, doesn't mean you don't love another person. Pero iba iba ang love mo sa kanila. You don't (usually) just love 1 brother or 1 sister or 1 parent, cousin, friend, food, music, movie, etc. We're always growing and adapting as humans. Yes we stay the same in some ways, but change in others.

 

kaya don't feel bad if you fall in love with someone new, they're someone new to share new experiences and new memories with - good and bad.

But the heart is capable of loving multiple people.

Well said. Marami tayong maraming pagmamahal na maibibigay.

Since the expectation for this room is more from the ladies' standpoint, might as well ask it here.

How do you differentiate someone who's just a genuinely nice, and perhaps thoughtful person, to someone who might have a legit interest in a GM? Is there a surefire sign that someone is really going out of their way to let the GM know? Minsan it's a fine line and although I've gone through some of this with regular ladies (sorry lack of a better term and not saying that Im God's gift to the world) but Im just curious on how this goes given the circumstances with theras. Ano ang expectations nyo and consequences in case the GM does not conform to your expecations?

Thanks and more power to you ladies. Especially to those who have bared their stories here and given their insight.

Interesting read as this is the first time I've ventured into this topic. As a matter of perspective, and I believe this is true for a majority of the time, the job does not define the person/thera. Most are honest to goodness persons who deserve to be treated like you would treat any other lady. They are persons you can laugh, cry with, and in some cases even go home to and share your life. They deserve to love and be loved without pre conceived generalizations and stereotypes. At our core, we should aim to be good persons and see the best in everyone. Not everyone will get good experiences with everyone but a little respect and good will goes a long way into developing relationships be it the casual ones or if you venture into the more serious ones. This seems to get lost on some since may expectations and generalizations agad.

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