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You broke the code, dude.
So uncool.
anyare pre?
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Hanggang kailan kita mamahalin
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Return to your mother units within 24 hours after this notice. If not, I will have the entire armed forces and the police hunt you down.
SUTUKIL!!
IT HAS TO STOP!!!
Hindi lang pala sya sa droga at corruption applicable
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been dreaming about him for the last 4 days straight na. not the usual dream ko about him before where my dreams are my memories of us.. these past 4 days been dreaming of him trying to win be back... been dreaming of him crying, telling me he miss me, the dreams are not clear but i always woke up crying. kala ko it's just because somehow i miss him padin. pero just receive a message sa facebook from the woman she super love before... and it really breaks my heart... how is he doing na kaya... ok lang ba sya... bakit nagkakaganun nanaman sia... haist i wanna be with him but i know he wouldnt let me . i know he will just push me away. i waana hug him. i wanna cry with him.. we will just cuddle all night kakalimutan namin for a while yung mga bagay bagay. i just know him too well alam ko whatever he does my reason sia for it.. maybe he's faliing apart again.. haist.. he will alwasy be my cuddle bug.( the client who i gave my everything )
WOW!!! I don't know the circumstances of this, obviously, but he's lucky he has someone like you feeling that way about him.
It's sad we sometimes take the simple things for granted like the gift of someone's presence. The feeling of belongingness
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hahahaha hindi na ako objective sa pag nagcomment pa ako dito.
About the topic, kung ano nalang yung sinabi ni Han Solo re the force and the jedi dun sa The Force Awakens, yun na ang opinyon ko dito.
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ugly nga pero mabango naman!! haha quits lang
tska mabait at totoo.. tska loyal.. tska hindi out there masyado..
pag kailangan lang. kung kailangan lang..
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When she misses you back when you miss her
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its been long since i last posted in this thread.
it's so hard for a thera to trust a gm ( vice versa ) but once the walls are down and she completely let you in. just imagine how long it will be for her to build it again once you leave her. yes in some cases or in most cases yung mga gms lagi yung parang naaargabyado. kasi they invest 'financially' . but we, (theras) we invest our reputation, our emotions, binababa namin yung defense namin. some may be monsters. i personally know some. pero nag cross kaya sa mind nyo na that 'monster' was once a princess, a damsel in distress, imagine how being in this industry can suck the life out of us. nauubos din kami. nag dedeteriorate. only time can tell when we will start to lose our self respect. or even ourselves. then we become numb. and when that 'prince charming' finally comes. will a prince charming be able to love a monster that we become..?
i agree na yes mas malaki yung succeeding level if you fall for a thera na bago pa lang sa industry. kasi di pa sia durog eh. maybe di pa sia nasasabihang p#ta ng harapan ng ibang gms. maybe di pa sia nababato sa muka ng pera. maybe di nia pa naeexperience ma pin sa wall.. maybe it's easier for her na makaalis sa industry kasi di pa sia nakakain ng sistema. maybe that thera still believe in happily ever after. then came this gm na lalaruin lang sia. will make her fall. then wooshoong will break her heart.. then the outcome..? another monster.
paulit ulit lang paikot ikot lang. yung bagong thera sasaktan ng gm. then yung gm sasaktan ng thera. paulit ulit na cycle. then they will hate each other. hayst i really dont know what im trying to say. this thing just crossed my mind. but the bottomline. spakols are just a place where you should relax and temporarily forget your problems in the outside. and we should only provide the service na pinunta nyo. you didnt go here for love. we also didnt work here to find love. just let things be what they should really be.
sa mga nasa sitwasyon nato. just think about this. for gms, isipin mo muna if totoong kaya mong tanggapin yung past nia.. yung totoo ha. hindi kunwari lng. and if she really love you to the point na she's willing to leave the 'comfort' or lahat ng luho that this industry can give . and have a decent job without you asking. for theras, loving with your heart, and 'loving' with your mind are two different things. if you love a client with your heart, then do what you should do i know your heart knows. but if you love a client with your mind, please stop. and just work hard. you can leave this industry without hurting anyone.
just my two cents.
On the overall, the whole post really does make a lot of sense and offer a lot of perspective from the other side.
2 areas struck me especially
1. Trust - since i have been harping on it very recently
2. Acceptance of the past and loving with either mind or heart
Kaya pala yung trust e namention sa isang movie na "BIG WORD." It's a vital to any relationship. Especially from the ones that originate under these circumstances. Mahirap lang din siguro mag expect since nabanggit din sa post na GMs come here for one thing and theras work here for another. Then something would unexpectedly find one, if not both, parties. Minsan, trust nalang panghahawakan mo talaga considering e. But if that aspect of it is shaky, ano pa yung sense dba.
Accepting the past is one thing, the present is something else, and the future is quite another. Personally, I don't mind the past since ano pa yung sense to dwell in that. pero the controllable ones like the present and future, well, respeto at dignidad naman sana ang consideration for both parties.
The last big eye opener for me was loving with the heart and loving with the mind. May ganito pala. It's a simple concept but may be true in some cases. I thought it was the only the heart but I do see the other part of it na pwede nga naman. and kung may mismatch pala between the 2 parties on which loves which, then malas nalang I guess. Time to lick your wounds and live your life.
Miss S.I.T.T.I, thanks for offering this insight. I picked up a lot (no pun intended).
IMO, this is worth a hell of a lot more than just the 2 cents that you're peddling. MIght even be worth millions in the hands of the right person.
I'll value it as mga 143,440 in my book. hehehehe
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that no matter how you try to pretend like it didn't happen, it did. and it was purely your choice. and i knew about it. and despite all that, you still had the unmitigated gall to rub it in. ever so eloquently like it was nothing
any sane and normal person would've called it for what it is but hey, who's normal and sane anyway
I would still choose the high road but when push comes to shove, I will choose accordingly and that choice will be delivered with the same swift eloquence befitting of how you chose
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sadly, sa condoms nalang ata applicable ang TRUST
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hey, BP good evening.
hahaha! patience goes both ways.
i have to be patient and he should learn to be patient with me as well.
*anyway, today i learned that love does defy logic at times.*
That, I couldn't have said better myself. AMEN Ms, DE
Probably for me, it would be "most times." Basta mas marami sa "60% of the time, it works all the time." hahaha
I learned recently that "it catches you off guard, by surprise, when you least expect it, by chance, by pure stroke of luck, and all like terms."
No complaints here
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hahahahaha strike 3 ka na pala sakin walangya ka!
pasalamat ka yung 3rd strike e "reported" lang hehehe
kung ako mismo nakaspot nung 3rd strike, I will personally and cordially invite you sa kangkungan namin. bwahahahaha
ay selos thread pala to. kala ko poot e. hahaha
minsan lang naman ako nagseselos. Kalma lang naman ako for the most part.
Non-violent and good natured naman ako
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a certain song that made its way to me which encapsulates how I feel for the sender
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that i have to be patient
Good evening, madam DE.
naks. hindi ba sila, or siya for that matter, ang dapat maging patient? hahaha
hope you are well
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Today the darkness has taught me two things:
That you can love science,
But you can't science love.
P.s.
That bacon is unadulterated desire
haha pards, pansin ko parang madalas ka na sa darkness ah.
Nagiging sith lord ka na rin ba kagaya ko? hahahaha
tama ka. mahirap nga naman i-science yun.
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send to many, group text!
part ka na po ng list nya...
hahahah spoken like a true dark lord of the sith.
haha walang alinlangan sa pagsagot.
But most of the time, tama ka paps.
Mahirap mabiktima nyan. But then again, there are exceptions. but then again again hahaha, you have to play the percentages.
pagalingan lang magbaraha yan
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Can we take this from a woman's perspective naman?
Here's a situation that I have been years ago.
I had a boyfriend and we rarely saw each other. We were both busy, he was working as a dental assistant/technician then, I was in HS. Six years age gap just to make it clear.
Anyway, a guy courted me. He knew I had a boyfriend and he still insisted on doing so. His reason - we weren't married yet. He knew about the situation I was in. He persisted, insisted and courted. I told him straight out that he won't get anything out of it.
My boyfriend came back from a med/dental mission and I told him about it. Told him everything.
He just smiled and gave me the best response I've heard to the question, what are you going to do about it?
"I know about it. My cousin told me about the guy. I'm not going to do anything about it. If you develop feelings for him, I guess it's because something's wrong with me and us. But, I have complete faith and trust in you. I'm confident that you love me. I'm confident that you know how much I love you even if we're apart at times. I'm confident at where I stand in your life. Who I am to you. I will not do anything except to prove to you that I am the better man, the better choice. That I love you more than he does. I can give you the love you deserve and more than what he can offer and give. I am very confident and sure of myself. I am confident that you will choose me. That our love is stronger than the temptation of being physically and geographically close to each other. And because you told me about it, I'm very sure that I won. That I have you in my life."
It may sound cheesy, but the fact that he was so confident and sure not just of himself, but he was sure of our relationship and our bond as well made me realize that I did love him and that we can't just be shaken. Open communication and honesty, a great foundation to stop insecurities.
I know this long winded, but here's the moral of the story.
Guys, be honest with your GF and you will be surprised at how honest she will be to you. TRUST each other. Form a bond that's deeper than any physical or sexual attraction, it's longer lasting. Let her decide and make her see that she will lose the best man for her should she decide to pursue the other.
Don't brawl it out. Take the higher ground. Just show her that you love her and the other guy courting her will not come to par with you. Effort? Yes. But if she's worth it, why not?
Maam DE, this is truly an excellent piece of perspective.
Sometimes it's really just a matter of confidence combined with trust.
Siguro isipin ko nalang na pogi din ako to compensate. hahahaha
But in all seriousness, reading this entire post really hit me. HARD
I was once lacking in perspective then I matured and became someone like your once BF. For the longest time I was like him but then again, there comes a time when you would lose your way and fall into old, seemingly forgotten, habits.
Reading this reminded me of how I should be again. How to screw my head back on.
Thanks for this, madam DE. Kahit matagal na pala to. hehehe
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melodious (not the place) shennanigans.
words would suffice at this point in time
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severe thunderstorm ahead
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May crush akong thera ngayon, pinipigilan kong mainlove.
Mahirap yan pre. hahaha
Parang ihi lang yan.. pag hindi mo nilabas, kahit sa pader lang, sasabog ang pantog mo. hehhehehe
Just be forthcoming but objective at the same time. Especially kung deserving naman yung kabila which Im assuming is oo.
Sayang lang din kasi, pre.
Good luck
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that no matter how amazing you are, to everyone for that matter, you still find the little things that would mean the world to me and that I alone would understand and appreciate.
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meron bang juice na kahit kalahati nalang yung bote, malasang malasa pa rin? hahaha lahat ng tinanong ko, wala ang sagot e.
for those shopping for juices in vapemix BF Ruins, anong ok sa juice stocks nila? Looking for something outside of viscocity, bakes and vapes, and iClouds. Maiba lang.
Looking for pastry juices and creamy fruity flavors.
Thanks guys
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that i won't disappoint you because.......
circumstances
perhaps the more appropriate topic for this is: What is your biggest fear and why?
and while we're on the subject, my fear is losing you because......
circumstances
Going back to the orginal topic, my wish is I won't lose you.
Not for a day. not for a minute, not for a second
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that patience is a virtue
that trust is its foundation
that there's an explanation for everything
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I love you, Tita
That's really all there is to it