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Hmm, how do I answer this without inadvertently revealing the identities of the involved parties?

 

The first year that I took her wasn't because of attraction. It was out of guilt. I wish I could say more but lets leave it at that. Later on, it was starting to feel like an obligation. She would call me up asking if I would come over and I would drag myself over to the club even if I didn't feel like it. Through all that time, we never flirted with each other. I never gave any her indication that I was trying to get into her pants nor was she affectionate towards me (at least most of the time). What I didn't realize was that I was slowly falling for her, and when I did realize it, it was too late.

 

Regarding the time and money I spent, I guess a quote from "The Little Prince" sums it up quite nicely...

"It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important."

-- The fox from "The Little Prince" Chapter 21

maybe its just because that time your vulnerable... you should have a choice when to say no... in my case, i simply said i'm busy. most the time women think that we are trying to get in there pants... since they are working in this industry. but when they know that we are falling in love, its either we win or lose.... there no such thing a late... because we decide on which path we will go through...

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GOODBYES hurt you more than anything... Especially deep down you know...

You will never say HELLO AGAIN...

Ako mabagal din. Ayun, naunahan tuloy ako ng isang guest niya kahit na mas matagal akong regular (by about a year in fact). Ngayon, sila na at wala na siya sa club. Ako broken hearted.

bro sa pakiramdaman din yun, kung feel mu na yung right time sabihin sa kanya, sinabi mu na... in my case alangan pa eh, pagsinabi ko sya kanya agad yun maaring magbago sya or biglang umilag, kumbaga hit or miss...

even though my story here has ended, i'm still addicted to this thread.

you know why? it's the romantic in me, men!

 

i'm still waiting to read that story from a fellow member with the much-coveted "happy-ever-after" ending.

 

inspite of the cynicism offered by this world,

i still would like to believe that LOVE DOES, INDEED, CONQUER ALL.

 

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that's very true, kaya andito rin ako coz i also experienced it twice, ended in good terms... thanks for my bro, who always tug me along and taught me some lessons experience wise... kung hindi mu feel or gusto yung babae, palit agad no more why or reason... first rule enjoy lang... kasi babalik ka rin kinabukasan sa real world. added bonus na lang kung nagka-gustohan kau ng babae, but don't blame anybody even the girl on what happen to you. because we had a choice.

right now... im seeing someone that i like, but she's doesn't know about it, all that she know i'm her regular... hindi ako kumukuha ng iba kahit gustong gusto ko na... the reason that i like her, she's straight to the point.. although already a veteran at her young age, but she doesn't apply it to me... knowing her bit by bit, mahirap kung makahalata eh, that the sign kasi that im in to her, and its a sign of my vulnerability... when im there we talked about anything, hindi lang namin pinaguusapan ang work nya, which means she already got the idea, that im not interested in her work. its only time consuming, sabihin natin mabagal ako... mabuti na yung nagiingat...

she is quite a stunner, isn't she?

she was only 17 when i met her... unang kaso ko ng statutory rape.

 

kaya nga malakas ang loob nya - even if she gets dumped by her current bf,

marami pang nakapila na manliligaw sa kanya.

 

but, the question is: how long can she keep this up?

in five years time, may maghahabol pa kaya sa kanya?

yup... lethal injection pala yan...

you said, last 10 years that would be 27? pwede pa siguro not unless mukhang na sya

losiang. somewhere, sometime she has to stop... mahirap pa naman ang panahon ngayon

because of the dreaded disease... hindi alam nakapag hawa na pala...

bro, buong panahon at oras ko iniukol ko sa kanya. minsan pa nga ginagawa kong straight duty sa trabaho para lang makita siya. as in walang lunch break. siya tong ayaw makipagkita sa kin. for the reason she would never tell to me. yung mga materyal na bagay pwede at madali yang pag-ipunan. (depende sa presyo....hehe) but seriously, she would have given me a small time of hers even if she is busy. yun ang hirap eh. yung foundation na gusto kong buuin para sa aming dalawa di masimulan at di na talaga nasimulan. am i bitter? wala namang mangyayari kahit magalit ako di ba? i'm just keeping myself happy. it's not the end of the world anyway. i had plans in the future and i frankly told her that she is a part of it. hanggang ngayon siya pa rin naman ang dahilan eh. yun nga lang para na sa ibang tao ang pangarap na yun....

pero dapat magtitira ka ng oras para sa sarili mo... yun ang sabi sa team building, mahal mo nga yung tao... pero dapat mo rin mahalin ang sarili mo... siguro kaya ayaw nya sabihin dahil sa nahihiya or something stopping her to say it to you... yung time talaga minsan mahirap ibigay yan... kung sa atin meron tayong binibigay na oras... pag sa kanila minsan talaga mahirap sila magbigay ng oras, dyan na yung nagiingat dahil sa ganitong trabaho, hindi pa sila willing mag give up, base na rin sa nababasa ko dito sa tread... may masasama ang loob at sukdulan ang galit, pero tama ka bro, ano magagawa ng galit... yes tama naman talaga may plans tau kahit walang pang ipaguukulan... kasi hindi naman natin masasabi kelan dadating yung right person para sa atin... mabuti na yung handa.

malay ko ba naman na ganun mangyayari. eh sa kin jacket lang naman kasi yun. plano ko nga ibili na lang siya tapos ibalik na lang niya jacket ko. di bale may vest pa naman ako. hehe! :thumbsupsmiley:

pwede nasa atin din naman kasi yung choice eh... sa akin lang kasi hindi naman importante yung material na bagay ang ibigay ko sa kanya... yung time ko, kasi paguukulan mu sya ng oras at panahon, without the guarantee of loving back...

hindi naman niya sinabing akin na lang tong jacket eh. sabi pahiram daw muna. "nakukyutan" daw siya sa jacket na panlalaki. eh nagkaroon kami ng sagutan sa text. lumabas yung usapan sa jacket na ipinahiram ko. ended up giving it to her....TSK! :cry:

dapat at the end of the day kinuha mu, hindi mu talaga pinaabot dun... i already learn this from experience from my bro, diba

uso dati yung mga american football jackets? yun hiniram lang yung jacket, met her daw sa mall, working in a club that my

bro didn't tell where... yung nag set ulit sila magkita, sinama na ako, magdadala daw sya ng friend na taga club din. ayun

namuti ang mata namin sa kakaintay, sa wala... tried to call, out of coverage probably change number... ended up buying a

one yung kuya ko, with my half of the money with it, kaya simula nun every time na pupunta ako sa club or something, i

make a habit, kukunin ko gamit ko at the end of the night. kahit sabihan ako madamot, patibayan lang ng loob yan...

well, whatever it is, the experience made you a wise person, ako naman if the girl said may chance ako, i would have pursued her but i will still think it out..hahaha

 

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exactly, experience made us Wise... paano kung hindi pa natuto ano tawag dun?

Master TWB you have far more experience when it come to this situation... kahit siguro pagsabihan ka ng chance ng babae, hindi ka pa rin kakagat, heheh

di bale. ilang swelduhan lang naman to eh. may jacket uli ako bago. tsaka summer na. di muna advisable bumili ng jacket. wahehehe!

mura ang jacket ngayon bro, haha discounted kasi summer... good for me, never heard a hint na akin na lang tong jacket,

ilang swelduhan din toh pagnagkataon hindi kasi one time salary toh at may sukli pa, no return policy. t

tama na naman we need to set boundaries... lalo na kung may sarili tayong pamilya, mahirap makuha ulit ang trust. we need to have self control para na rin sa sarili natin, hindi natin hawak ng buhay ng taong mahal or minahal natin... it really come from ourselves, sariling desisyon. sadyang may ganitong mga tao na sanay na sa ganitong kalakaran, lahat siguro nangpambobola alam na nila, kaya in the end tau yung nagiging vulnerable... pero hindi ko naman nilalahat meron pa rin talagang tunay na tao.

tama rin naman, pagnakakaramdam ka na... nag hint na kesyo ganito ganyan... at kailangan ng pera. or manghiram ng gamit hindi na sinoli, yun na ang isa sa mga hint that she's not into you, leecher yan. pero kung emergency maari mu naman pag isipan, nasa iyo yun kung bibigyan mu or hindi patibayan na lang ng loob at konsenya... malay mo nadapa lang or talagang need ng pera para sa med, hindi masama ang tumulong, wag lang labis.

baby whisper...

just a while ago she came home from a trip with her long time friends

when was the last time you spend quality time with your parents?

she's a beauty, Master Itto.

it really sad... sa nangyari, lalo na napamahal na sau... you could not help, but to feel sorry.

wonder what she looks like now...

this my opinion on this...very messy ito.....psp gro mp etc- client love....

 

well if a guy gonna fall for such a girl....siguruhin nya muna na sincere person yung girl and hindi liar....malay mo binababoy na sha nun psp and tanga tanga yung in love na lalaki....

bro medyo messy nga yung opinion mo... pero isipin mu din kahit paano tao rin sila, yun nga lang napunta sa ibang landas...

just my 2 cents

caps...

what would like to eat tonight?

galing nga. kelangan niya ng pera pero di siya nag-aask. ako magpiprisinta na magbigay. kinukuha naman niya. haaayyy. langya pati jacket ko. nakuha! hehe! :cry:

ayun lang... nag prisinta ka sa kanya... tried it once but with a valid reason... hindi kasi sya pinasama ng nauna sa akin na guest nya sa dance number nila, thought she was absent... yung nakita ako hindi na umalis, even though hindi pa tapos yung oras nya sa nauna sa akin... i got a habit of waiting, pahabaan talaga ng patience... hinihiram nya ung jacket ko pero binabalik din naman nya...

pambihira di ko nakita itong post na ito ah. hmmmm......pero nabuyo niya kasi ako sa pagbibigay eh. tsk! haaayyy..... ang masakit nito, sinabi pa sa kin ng magulang ko na sabi sa kanya ng utol ko na "nay, parang di ko yata nararamdamang sumusweldo si kuya...." pati kapatid ko nakalimutan ko dahil sa kanya! dinamay niya na ako....pati pa kapatid ko! am i sourgraping? nah. masakit lang na pati pamilya mo naisakripisyo mo para sa kanya.

good thing hindi pa nangyayari sa akin yan... she never ask for money.

yun lang hindi na ako nakakabili agad ng gusto ko para sa sarili ko, natuto ako mag budget... :thumbsupsmiley:

musta na mga bro? what's up? tell you what. i already ended things up with her. that's it. ang masakit lang ako pa nakatuklas. but hey! it's a risk right? i have to accept it. but i'll still be lurking here in this thread. i love it here. hehe! ang problema, wala na kong date sa valentines. hehe! :cry:

that's life bro, you can never tell what happen in the future... its a good thing that you discovered it early, rather than late...

its really takes time to know the person behind the mask... if there's person behind the mask.

right now im also in the oblivion, tryin to hold back what i feel, because i don't even have the idea who she really was... i know its just the tip of an iceberg, good thing im good at hiding what i feel...

sound like a fairy tale

pero sometimes it works... i do agree there's no guarantee

and don't expect anything in return...

kung takot ka masaktan... hindi ka na dapat nagmahal ...

that's half true... hindi natin pwede husgahan ang isang tao dahil lang sa kanyang line of work... ibig ba sabihin pag ganyan klase ang work, perahan na ba agad? or lagay natin sa ibang profession, pag sinabi bang sa rank and file ka hindi ka pwede umibig sa middle management? justified na ba agad pera lang ang habol?

kung pera lang talaga ang habol, nalaman mu naloko ka, by all means babawi or gaganti tau diba? initial reaksyon,

kung kaya ng konsensya.. go

kung genuine pala yung feelings ng girl, pero sa isip natin... pera habol nito... wala toh...

but in the end, nalaman mu totoo sya sau... diba mas masakit? kasi naniwala tau sa sinabi ng

ibang tao kesa sa sarili natin desisyon... tapos sa huli kasi sabi ni ganito ni ganyan, ang sisi sa iba

pero kung sariling desisyon natin, mali man or tama... we have to accept it, kahit ano mangyari

just my 2 cents

right now.... suplada type... don't know why it keeps in my feet on the ground hahah

each day pass... it makes me love you more...