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    Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

    in Matters of the heart

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    More often than not, relationships that HAVE WORKED usually entail these parameters:

     

    The GM puts up a spa of his own, the therapist becomes the receptionist/manager - some still massage but offer very LIMITED ES and they live happily ever after. At least that's what l have seen in this life of mine.

     

    At this age l have seen a lot, believe you me :)

     

     

     

    If it were me and my favorite client falls for me? It would depend on the situation still.

     

    If I feel the same way towards my client, like I feel like it could brew into genuine love, I would tell him how I feel. And if he doesn't mind that this is my job for now, we can move on from there.

     

    If I don't feel the same way towards my client, I would tell him I can't reciprocate his feelings, but in the gentlest way that I can, and that if he'd let me, I can still service him. I'd rather be honest with him than lead him on. Isn't it easier when everyone is honest about how they feel?

     

    But that's me, and I'm pretty simple when making my decisions. Of course, therapists' lives aren't as simple as ours. They might have people depending on them financially. They might have boyfriends/husbands already. Or they might think they are being played as well. They might not want to reject clients that fancy them for fear of lost profit. There are a lot of things they need to think through.

     

    I'd just like to add that there is a difference between a client claiming that he's in love with a Thera and a client actually going a mile further to show her that he's in love with her. Just saying that a lot of men go to spas because they're lonesome. In that circumstance, falling in love with a Thera is inevitable. What are therapists to do when GMs are confessing to them left and right? Should she reject them all and feel bad after breaking all their hopes and perhaps also sabotaging her profits? And what about those other GMs with less than good intentions? Those GMs that played theras for the fun of it? So in a way, I understand why some theras have walls built so high around them. I understand why they they are afraid to trust the wrong person. They are already vulnerable.

     

    The side of the GM and the side of the Thera when falling in love, both have consequences. There are those rare few couples that have managed to conquer these consequences, and are happy together now. They found love where they shouldn't, but they made it work. Good endings are possible. I just don't want to rule out that possibility. It's very rare, but there are relationships in this industry that have actually worked. Both parties just have to be willing to make it work, both the GM and the Thera.

    Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted · Edited by Zarbor

    Not a reply to the above posts:

     

     

    Honestly try switching places - what if YOU are the therapist? And your fave Client falls for you?

     

    No judgment now, just take in real time, in real life.

     

    The ES part is just part of job to therapists - l know that, and l also know that if they fall in love, it's real. Just like yours, and mine.

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    Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    Thank you Sitti. Informative topic, eliciting interesting but some quite provocative responses. I for one have been frequenting spas since 2003 l believe - but have been quite selective and careful. So for almost 13 years l have seen it all. Falling in love was not in the equation, am not sure if it will ever be.

     

    More on this topic please! :)

    Sogo

    in List of Motels

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    Attn SOGO OWNERS : please replace your air conditioners regularly as the sex fest always turns into a sweat fest!

     

    Well that's actually good for the heart but please, listen!

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