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you are brilliant..you really are an expert.. I think you knewm me better than my psych.. Yes, I read books a lot..And it influenced me.with my life..I can't help it but see my self as powerless..I tend to compare what a good life should be for me....
It is love really that's making me depress.. coz when I have it.. i never felt any depression at all.. I've been so happy before..It's love believe me.. Coz when i'm in a relationship before..I always feel so happy and contented I don't even go out from the house.. coz i was contented being a housewife.... by the way I am married to a rich businessman.... but i am now separated..I'm sorry but i'm not going to tell you the details.. If who's the reason for my pseudo bipolar like behaviour..I won't say if it's my husband.. But i wantb to tell you that this feeling has started recently..I've been separated for 5 years but we still live in the same building.. I l;ive in a very big house,..one compund.....but i felt like this just recently.. I know it's because of pressure..that at my age of 30 i must have kids already,I am childless..and I don't have a love one with me.. That's making me crazy.. really.. Coz before,I was okey.. i was really happy and contented before..I know it's love and my repression to have a family or kids..It's my greatest frustration ..Not to have a family i am childless.. And I am not like this before..I was so happy and contented before.. So what is this?
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Well, kung your not taking meds na and you feel a sense of control over yourself na. It might be a good sign and it might be not.
Unless your told to stop your meds, then you should stop your meds, but when you are not asked to stop it, then dont stop it. It might be for your own good and the bad part is, if you stop med taking, wouldnt it be bad since you might slowly regain back the depression since the medication is already stopped? You might be buying time for the depression to stabilize and for it to find a antidote to be stronger than your med. You know that our bidy is a self healing mechanism. Our bodies find ways to adapt so therefore dont stop your meds if you are told to continue it. Diba better that way? It would be best if you could talk this out with your doctor para everything would be cleared out or you could share this with your family and have them listen and tell you whats on your mind. Diba its better to have them understand you rather than being misunderstood all your life? Pangit tingnan diba?
In terms of love, its just your mind playing mind tricks, do not use love as an excuse for depression. There is such a thing as moving on and finding another path to find your happiness. Thats why you cant move on, something is there still na you are feeling that drags you down. Better rid of it and get a new sense of belonging. You might try working out and maybe helping up with your friends or fasmilies. Lose the negativity and always go for the postive things. You never know that it would work wonders to finally have a sense of belonging like when you start working, you would feel like a person who became a functioning member of society. It fuels you to work harder and go for goals that you want to attain.
Always have a goal.
For example. today I want to have a sense of belonging. So try talking to your friends or family and ask what you can do to help them.
Tomorrow, I will talk to my psych and tell him/her what I feel and you ask on ways to move on.
Everyone has a chance to have a better life. Its all in our head naman e I mean the state of happiness and we just dont know how to utilize those to become a better person and achieve your goals. I trust that you will find the right path after reading this. All I can say is that, everything has a possibility. Iba yung life we are living in compared to the books you read. It is the same as studying and working. Work life is different since the text books in school doesnt mention about the other things you will encounter. It is just guidance but its all up to you in the end. Go for your dreams.
Your psych might be wrong as well since there is such a thing as classroom based learning and hands on training. He / she might be going by the book but he / she doesnt know what is really going on with your mind. Try opening up more and the psych might find the right solution for you. Its takes two to tango you know.
Hope this helps.
you are brilliant..you really are an expert.. I think you knewm me better than my psych.. Yes, I read books a lot..And it influenced me.with my life..I can't help it but see my self as powerless..I tend to compare what a good life should be for me....
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What will happen if i stop.. i stopped already.. coz i hate it.. I feel the depression.. but I can control myself now ..I can recognize the mania..and down depression.. I have a psychologist who supported my self-help without meds..The Psychologist won't recommend a medication.. they want otherways than medications.. she encouraged talk therapy and behavioural.. I am self -aware too....You know that I doubt if this is really bipolar.. coz i didn't tell my psychiatrist about my love life.. is it because of my depression with my love life... Is a love one can be cure for this disease? I believe so.. no medication can cure me.. but the one i love. ..Coz when i'm with my love one.. i felt okey..I'm not into mania or depression when i'm with him..Maybe this is not bipolar ..i bet it's a love sick..even my psychologist said.. that it could just be a love sick..
I know it's a love sick..it's not bipolar.. A bipolar is you feel it even if you're with your love one.... A bipolar is a bipolar ,.,..whether you're with your love one or not.. But in my case i think i feel like a bipolar because there is a reason ...if that love one will be with me I believe i'll be alright..
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I suggest you take Xenical and drink Biguerlai tea and start walking for 30 mins Everyday.
Mood stabilizers are just there to calm you down so more or less trimmed down na yung suicidal tendencies so more or less concentrated ka na sa weight gaining. It works diba? So dont forget your meds
Thats all.. Easy diba?
What will happen if i stop.. i stopped already.. coz i hate it.. I feel the depression.. but I can control myself now ..I can recognize the mania..and down depression.. I have a psychologist who supported my self-help without meds..The Psychologist won't recommend a medication.. they want otherways than medications.. she encouraged talk therapy and behavioural.. I am self -aware too....You know that I doubt if this is really bipolar.. coz i didn't tell my psychiatrist about my love life.. is it because of my depression with my love life... Is a love one can be cure for this disease? I believe so.. no medication can cure me.. but the one i love. ..Coz when i'm with my love one.. i felt okey..I'm not into mania or depression when i'm with him..Maybe this is not bipolar ..i bet it's a love sick..even my psychologist said.. that it could just be a love sick..
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Many Bipolars have been "Suicide Lovers"... Case after case.. a manic depressive (another name given to a Bipolar) ends his/her life. Some during their mania and most during their depression.
Yes, trauma, life's stressors, concussions, or blunt force to the frontal lobe can trigger the initial cycling of Bipolarity.
There is nothing to be ashamed about being Bipolar. Many famous personalities are.... i.e. Alexander d Great, Winston Churchil, Sally Fields, Lord Byron, Edison, Napoleon, Van Gough and many more greats. You are in good company. Bipolars' extreme creativity and superior intelect have helped change the world we live in.
To answer your question, Dr Kelso of UCSD/VA San Diego has recently isolated the "bipolar" gene and narrowed it down to chromosome 22. There is now a big push on how we develop better medications as a result of this isolation. In the near future we will have far more effective medications for you.
For now, one who is Bipolar, must liken his/her condition to "metal diabetes". As a severe diabetic has to take insulin everyday; so does the bipolar needs to take his/her maintenance medications "Everyday". Unfortunately many Bipolars do not. They either can't afford to fill their RX or they try to save money by skipping days, or when they are in their manic cycle; they feel invincible and do not feel the need to take their medications. "They go off their meds". You can not be highly effective (or high functioning) without your medication.[/b] Your medication is your "mental insulin". "Do Not Go Off Your Meds!"
There are a number of medications and combinations there of that your therapist may prescribe. One has to give his/her therapist honest feedback on the effects of the medication he/she is taking. It is from this feedback that your therapist will adjust your dosage and RX combinations (Mood stabilizers, antidepressants, and or anti-convulsants). Once you get the right cocktail of meds and dosage specific to your biofeedback then... you will do just fine and have a happy normal life. :thumbsupsmiley:
To all manic-depressive suicide lovers...."CHERISH LIFE"! If you feel that you want to take your life for whatever reason... Just remember that you are cycling and this compulsion or feeling shall pass. Just hang in their.... IT WILL PASS! :flowers:
I bet you're a psychiatrist..are you a doctor? I have a problem with my meds coz it's making me gain weight.. that's the culprit//.I gained weight with my mood stabilizer.. That's why i was tempted to stop.. coz i don't want to gain weight..and i'm mildly bipolar lang..It's a mild case..I hate the weight gain..what will i do..?
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well said... :cool: you sound like an expert! :thumbsupsmiley:
Is there a cure for it? I have it .. I am bipolar..and i am not ashamed to disclose it..because I am not denying it.. I wanted to be cured or treated..i am Under treatment for 1 year of meds..then after that half tabs only.. I took Mood stabilizers.. I'm mildy bipolar...
P.S. I didn't have it..before.. I just had it lately.. because of the overwhelming life situations..I still look fine.. I'm not the worst bipolar..Marilyn Monroe, Princess Diana ,Vivien Leigh( star of Gone with the wind) have it too.. in the local .. My psychiatrist said that Gretchen Barretto is having it..and the like..
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our mind is responsible for logic and emotions, not the heart
so obviously, the BRAIN
Yeah.. emotions are controlled in the amygdala...of the brain..You can even prove your love thru MRI(magnetic resonance imaging) .. the amygdala remarkably swells when the person in love sees the picture of a love one..
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Not if you have a prenup! :evil:
A prenup does matter in some way though for the rich..but as I said.. Can you still stay in a mansion with a rich husband that's making you cryy everyday?..No amount can pay such turmoil.. But the hope here (in divorce) is ..even there is a prenup.., hindi parin pinabayaan ang babae..The law will obligate the husband (much more if rich ) to give an alimony to the wife..And besides.. the Philippine divorce will be different.. It's not just a way out to be free if you've found another prettier girl to marry.. it's more stricter ..
and again ..It's more advantageous to women..and the children as well..
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Definitely its the heart.. :heart:
" The most interesting about heart transplant is that one completely loses his own heart and be replaced with someone else's ..yet still has feelings for the same person he loves.This proves that love works in the MINDS of people but NOT in their HEART... Bottomline is..Love is a state of Mind..Esp. the subconcious mind..the instiinct"..
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Hey guys just want to share with you all here... Yesterday i got home from my ojt in pampanga, and arrived at our village around 6:30pm, It was the usual day... children playing, joggers rounding the village. home owners arriving from work. As I pass by the usual rouad i take i notice a couple that looks like having an L.Q. Nevermind its not my business anyway... Got in our hose and payed a rest, by 9 in the evening i walked my dog going out the village so it can poo and pee... As i near the gate, i was wondering why there are so many pipol in one area. I didn't mind at first, after my dog was done with its deed and we are on our way back to our house thats when i realized its no poke... a man was killed inside our village. I dont want to indulge much, but according to reports it was due to a love triangle, Similar to a Bantay-Salakay... It was so grime... I couldn't even explain how it feels seeing those blood splatered around... I have no idea if the victim was the same guy i saw having a L.Q. with a girl.
Few ticks later i went home placed the dog in to its house, then went back to the site, I finally got to see a little clearer on whats on the scene, Suddenly i felt a twinged pang on my spine, what if i was the victim? I realized poor me just because of a girl, i fast forwarded my life to its last hours on... Later that night as i sleep i still could feel the pang on my spine, i am shivering... My cheeks felt numb, I was having a hard time sleeping...
Anyway The bottom line is I think its just fine to go after someone provided that one won't endanger thier own life or another ones life...
It better to be safe, than later when its too late one will realize he/she just ended his/her own life...
i must avoid him atb all cost..and if things can't be avoided..and h's already separated..then why not? that if he's really separated..and not in love anymore with his wife..But..if he's still very much married and is in love to his wife with no plans of leaving her..then it's a no win game,,it's a dead end thing.Never waste your time and youth foir this man who has the best of bothe worlds and you only have a piece of him.,.Never allow yourself to be with a man that you have to share to.. :thumbsdownsmiley:
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I totally agree with TipsyBoi, Even Sigmund Freud, Karl Jung and a million and one pyschologist
and medical doctors out there can confirm this information. ITS ABSOLUTELY TRUE
When a guy sees a beautiful girl ------> first thing in the mind is SEX with that Girl PERIOD !!!!!!
*** those guys who don't have this reaction have Erectile Dysfunction, Prostatic Hyperplasia, Prostate
cancer, Pathetic Religious Followers who are brain dead, Guys who are denialists. An alien perhaps
There are pathetic guys out there who don't admit na paganakita sila ng girl sex agad ang unang
puamapasok sa kanilang isipan. Wag ninyong iisipin na pervert ako or womanizer coz
hindi ako ganyan. I am a monogamos very loyal na BF and i get a lot of respect from women but
honestly talagang ang reaction ng guys pagnakita ng beautiful girl is always sex. Now, it depends
on the guy kung ano ang gagawin niyang action kung sakaling SEX agad ang sumagi sa kanyang isip.
Rick Warren the author of "The Purpose Driven Life" even mentioned this sa book. Sinabi niya dun na
hindi daw kasalanan yung bigla kang mag-isip ng sex when you see a beautiful woman coz he
explained na natural and "automatic reaction" daw ito ng normal brain ng lalake, built in program designed by GOD para magkaroon ng better and more beautiful children. Magkakasala ka lang daw dun sa mga actions or thoughts na ikaw mismo ang responsable hindi ang automatic brain reaction, for example
See beautiful woman -----> SEX ( no sin here coz automatic reaction ng brain ) -------> RAPE the Girl ( SIN Here coz may option kang hindi mang rape )
And here is the more interesenting part "SEE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ----> SEX ( sa isip ng guy ) ----> LIGAW ( instead of rape to avoid death penalty,lethal injection and hell )-----> SEX ( physical act )
Ladies, Yung pagiging romantic, sweet and etc. ng guy is a means to have sex by avoiding death penalty,lethal injection and avoiding eternal damnation sa impiyerno. Now, the good part is during courtship most of the time na-iinlove na yung guy sa girl before the guy can have sex with the girl so it is very important na i-reserve ng babae ang virginity niya. There would be a problem if the guy had sex with the girl before na-develop yung love niya sa girl, in this case babu beyotche!!! the when the guy sees another beautiful girl, the cycle starts again.....
You're right :cool: That's why i'm wary about men like this :thumbsdownsmiley: or generally men are :thumbsdownsmiley:
That's why..to women..the greates bargain you can have to motivate a man to commit and of course love you enough to commit is not to give sex..It must be the greatest motivator.. A price to be won..
Girls..Never ever give too much Give him only "patikim" bits of pieces of your sweetness..to hook him up to you for the price..keep them in tenterhook..never give your all. Be Love smart! -
I Love You From the Bottom of My Brain: The Neurobiology Behind Love
Miranda White
You're at a typical weekend party. You spot someone across the room. They look over in your direction. "Wow, they're so beautiful," you think. You want desperately to go over and talk to them, but at the very thought of it, your heart starts racing and your palms begin to sweat. Looking over at them again, you see that amazingly enough they are coming over to you. Even before speaking to them, you feel like you have just fallen in love. Is this feeling really love at first sight? Or is it merely the release of hormones in the brain? What causes the feeling of being in love? How can we know for sure if we really are in love?
Love is one of the strongest and most elusive emotions. Nearly every person seeks to experience the feeling of being in love. And once it is achieved, one's life is forever changed. Yet, most people would have extreme difficulty describing what exactly love is, how they know for sure that they are in love, or why love is so universally important. Understanding the neurobiology behind love might help to give us a more clear perspective on social bonding and raises the question of whether love is nothing more than the release of certain chemicals.
The hormone oxytocin plays a significant role in many animals' instinct to love and form social bonds. In fact, it has been called jokingly, "the cuddle hormone." (1) Oxytocin is a small protein composed of nine amino acids. It is produced in the hypothalamus and is released by the pituitary gland. (2) Oxytocin is also produced in the ovaries of women and the testes of men. However, the hormone's most well known function is specific to females. (3) First, it plays an integral role in the delivery of a baby. When a woman goes into labor, oxytocin levels increase. This stimulates contraction in the smooth muscle of the uterine walls, thereby facilitating delivery. Secondly, oxytocin plays a role in milk letdown in nursing mothers. Milk is initially released into small sacs, called alveoli, which are surrounded by smooth muscle cells. Oxytocin stimulates contractions of this smooth muscle, causing the milk to be released to the mouth of a nursing baby. (3) Lastly, and most importantly, oxytocin causes the formation of maternal behavior. Successful reproduction and survival for many species relies upon a mother's attachment to and caring for her offspring. There is a drastic increase in the levels of oxytocin in the body and brain of a woman who is in labor. This upsurge is the main cause of the establishment of the strong bond of love a mother initially feels for her child. (4)
is very strange to think that mothers nurture and care for their children mainly due to the release of a hormone at the moment of birth. We tend to believe that the relationship between a mother and a child goes beyond biology - that there is something much deeper than merely instinct or the release of chemicals that causes a mother to love. However, there is very convincing evidence that proves that hormones like oxytocin are largely the cause of maternal behavior. A number of experiments have been done, showing the importance of oxytocin in the formation of the mother-child relationship. In many species (for example sheep and rats), blocking the release of oxytocin caused mothers to abandon their young. Similarly, when virgin female rats were injected with oxytocin, they exhibited mother-like behavior. They cared for and cuddled with the offspring of other females as if they were their own. (1)
Oxytocin does not only play a role in the bond between mother and child but also between two mates. The attachment formed between sexual partners is predominantly caused by the release of oxytocin during sexual intercourse. Oxytocin is intricately tied with the biology of sex - it causes penile erections and shortens both the time for ejaculation and the refractory period after ejaculation. (4) The release of oxytocin can be learned. In other words, after repeatedly having sex with the same partner, simply seeing him or her could set off the release of oxytocin. As a result, one becomes attached to that particular partner and learns to prefer them to other possible mates. Thus the monogamy practiced by humans and other species is also the result of the release of oxytocin.
To prove that oxytocin creates monogamy and social bonding, an experiment was conducted using a mouse-like rodent called a prairie vole. Prairie voles, much like humans, form life-long monogamous relationships. Both parents live together and meticulously care for their offspring. Both males and females show a strong preference to their mate over other voles, and the male aggressively guards the female from possible harm. On the other hand, montane voles do not form lasting bonds nor do they protect and care for their young. They are promiscuous maters, showing no loyalty to one partner over another. Researchers blocked the release of oxytocin in prairie voles to test if it was the key ingredient in their monogamous preferences. Not so surprisingly, mating pairs formed no lasting bonds. In a similar experiment, scientists did not allow the prairie voles to mate, but they administered oxytocin to the females and vasopressin (a hormone much like oxytocin found mainly in males) to the males. Even without sex, the voles still created monogamous social bonds and strong preference to their mate over other voles. (5)
Unfortunately, there has been no real data regarding oxytocin levels in humans in relation to the formation of relationships. And there are, of course, some very significant differences between voles and humans. Obviously the vole brain and the human brain are not identical, nor are their mating habits or reasons for forming social attachments. (5) However, studying the biology behind love and social bonding in other animals could help us in understanding our own species. The vole experiments show how extraordinarily important oxytocin is in the formation of social relationships. (6)
Knowing that love is so chemically influenced and based brings up many interesting issues. It is strange to think that motherly love and romantic or sexual love are so intricately related, both caused by the release of the same hormone. We tend to see our mother's love for us as completely different from her love for her husband. In much the same way, there is something uneasy about that thought that merely one hormone could be the reason behind our most intimate social relationships and one of our most intense emotions. Is love nothing more than instinct? Does the way we feel about the people we love really have anything to do with that person or is it simply connected to hormones? Are there really no emotions that are beyond the brain? Understanding the role that hormones like oxytocin play will be very instrumental in our figuring out just how much neurobiology dictates the perception of our emotions.
I aggree in the Science of LOVE or Attraction.. :cool:
In addition to that..it's also about our brain's so called LOVEMAP too.. The 7year old CHILD stage is crucial..in there at that age love maps has started to form..Like the scent of a woman the sight of a red hat whenthe child was 7 years old..then there's this woman who's kind to him..and making him feel good.. has eventually given enough love maps in his brain..That's the reason why the grandfather of Paris Hilton fell in love at first sight by the woman under the red hat - the grandma of Paris Hilton..When Mr. Hilton saw a red hat in the church.He didn't see the girl under it.but.he fell in love with it(the red hat)..and he has this strong urge to go after the girl under that red hat..After the mass...he followed the red hat..And have the powerfuful urge to marry the girl under it. ..and under that is the girl indeed he married..the grandmother of Paris Hilton.. It was found out that when Mr. Hilton was still a child , a lady in a red hat was so kind to him .
That's why most men..subconciously want to marry a girl closer or almost like his mom..or if his closer or attached to his yaya. or nanny ,he would most loikely marry a girl who looks are has the same trait as her nanny..Coz..it's in his childhood formed love map i his brainthat has his strongest influence in love..It's in our subconcious mind which is purely instinctive..and instinct is the most powerful drive of a human being..
Look how Prince Charles have proved his love to Camilla, and psychologist have studied the reason why Camilla..over the much beautiful and younger Diana..Now , it was discovered that Prince Charles YAYA or NAnny looks very much alike to Camilla..or Camilla resembles the face of Prince Charles beloved Nanny..Yes.. I saw it in the BBC channel.. at the eve of prince Charles and Camilla's wedding in 2005 ..they've featured about the striking resemblance of Prince Charles Nanny's Pictures or Portraits to Camilla Parker Bowles...Now see how love maps influence is.. :cool:
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reminds me of this song by the beatles - when i'm 64
http://manilatonight.com/index.php?showtop...p;#entry4253045
love is stubborn and unconditional..
but let me love you alone ..I don't want to share you 
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i know sweetie. been there, done that.
The road of true love..never runs smooth. :hypocritesmiley:
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Very creative idea. However, that is actually the essence of a divorce. You can do away of your marriage if you dont want to continue with it.
Besides, a driver license is an item you own while a marriage is neither a thing nor a posession. Moreover, there is no complications called "CHILDREN" that may arise if one doesnt renew once license but with marriage, thats almost always a big issue that needs to be settled too.
Yes.. it's complicated than owning a thing..We must realize here.. that the best way to love anything is that it might be lost.
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If someone tells you they are thinking about suicide, you should take their distress seriously, listen nonjudgmentally, and help them get to a professional for evaluation and treatment. People consider suicide when they are hopeless and unable to see alternative solutions to problems. Suicidal behavior is most often related to a mental disorder (depression) or to alcohol or other substance abuse. Suicidal behavior is also more likely to occur when people experience stressful events (major losses, incarceration). If someone is in imminent danger of harming himself or herself, do not leave the person alone. You may need to take emergency steps to get help, such as calling 911. When someone is in a suicidal crisis, it is important to limit access to firearms or other lethal means of committing suicide.
Absolutely.. this must be taken seriouisly..reinforce the will to live of the person!The suicidal person must be closedly watch 24 hours a day..and no access to weapons, high buildings,sharp objects even pencils and ballpens..
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People like that are borderline personalities( disorder)..The BPD consist of fear of abandonment.. even imagined abandonment..they do body mutilations ..because they feel numb that's brought about by the overwhelming emotions..and they want to feel alive by body mutilations..- slashing the wrist..,cutting the ears like Vincent Van Gough,shooting self,cutting fingers or nipples, hanging.. these are forms of body mutilations..that is to divert the pain that is unbearable emotionally into physical pain.. And to see blood and pain is to feel being alive...They are an emotional basket case..marilyn monroe and princess diana are BPDs..and the artist Vincent Van gough... they spli- they idolize and then hate... they see people as black and white...they can't see the gray areas..they turn love into great hatred.. they have poor impulse contorl..Angry outburst is quite common..They have strings of failed deeply attached but chaotic relationships ..They hate to be alone..In their childhood they experienced abandonment from their mothers..like Diana and marilyn Monroe..
On the other hand Vincent Van Gough's childhood was being away from home at an early age in order to attend an exclusive school, he used to live in the dormitory, he spent most of his childhood in the dormitory..agonizing the homesickness he felt for his parents,brothers and sisters ..and he hated being away from home .. 
:(these are making these famous people into BPDs).Sometimes they use body harms as emotional blackmails..To make you feel guilty of the consequences that he/she might bring.
BPD's are experts in manipulations..they subconciously shift or revert to become monster from a helpless innocent child. :hypocritesmiley:
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People like that are borderline personalities( disorder)..The BPD consist of fear of abandonment.. even imagined abandonment..they do body mutilations ..because they feel numb that's brought by the overwhelming emotion..and they want to feel alive by body mutilations..like slashing the wrist..,cutting the ears like Vincent Van Gough,shooting self,cutting own's fingers or nipples, hanging.. these are forms of body mutilations..to divert the pain which is unbearable emotionally into physical pain.. To see blood and pain is to feel being alive...They are an emotional basket case..marilyn monroe and princess diana are BPD..and the artist Vincent Van gough... they spli-they idolize and then hate... they see people as black and white...they can't see the gray areas..they turn love into great hatred.. they have poor impulse contorl..Angry outburst is quite common..They have strings of failed deeply attached but chaotic relationships ..They hate to be alone..In their childhood they experienced abandonment from their mothers..like Diana and marilyn Monroe..
On the other hand Vincent Van Gough's childhood was being away from home at an early age to attend an exclusive school he used to live in the dormitory he spent most of his childhood in the dormitory..agonizing the homesickness he felt to his parents,brothers and sisters ..and he hated being away from home .. :(these are making these famous people to have BPD).Sometimes they use body harm for emotional blackmail..To make you feel guilty of the consequences he/she might bring.
BPD's are experts in manipulations..they subconciously shift or revert to become monster from a helpless innocent child. :hypocritesmiley:
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k*ll herself/himself due to some affair of the heart, when she/he is otherwise healthy and functional?
Let them do it. Good riddance.
This country needs less weaklings as these,
People like that has borderline personality disorder..The BPD disorder consist of fear of abandonment.. even imagined abandonment..they do body mutilations ..because they feel numb of the overwhelming emotion..and they want to feel alive by body mutilations..like slashing the wrist..,cutting the ears like Vincent Van Gough,shooting self, hanging.. this are forms of body mutilations..to divert the pain also that is unbearable emotionally into physical pain.. To see blood and pain is to feel being alive...They are an emotional basket case..marilyn monroe and princess diana are BPD..and the artist Vincent Van gough..They're an emotional basket case.. the idolize.. they see people as black and white..they split..they can't bear the gray areas..they turn love into great hatred.. they have poor impulse contorl..Angry outburst is quite common..They have histories strings of failed attached relationships ..They hate to be alone..In their childhood they experienced abandonment from their mothers..like Diana and marilyn Monroe..
while Vincenmt have been sent to exclusive school living in the dormitory in his childhood days..and he hated being away from home .. : -
Just wanna comment on this topic.
Back when i was in college, a teacher brought this topic in one of her class. The class went on berserk on whose right / whose wrong. The sanctity if marriage / what the heart really wants. I know you get the picture. At the end of the class no one won the issue wasn't resolved. On my way home i pondered on the subject and realized a solution...
Renewal of marriage contract / marriage license. If we need to renew our driver's license every 3 or so years, why not our marriage license as well. What do you think people will this work?
Man , what brought you to such an ingenius and innovative idea :boo: :cool:
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girl that is deep...
What do you mean?
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Love is not the answer to our needs. SEX Matters.
Is a temporary insanity that can only be cured by marriage..
it is a heart disease that is best left to "run on"-the only affection of the heart for which there is no help, and none desired.
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We broke up bcoz she doesn't want to have SEX with me....
Nyahahahaha!!! :mtc:he didn't love me enough
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I agree that we should have divorce in the Philippines. It was deliberated during the framing of the 1987 constitution but was deleted when it lost by a very small margin during the voting process. If you get to read the family code, it pretty much favors the women.
Divorce is more an advantage fo women coz men are obligated to pay for the alimony.. That's why it's pro- women. Unlike sa annulment..the financial support of the husband to the wife must be contested first..and it depeneds on the wife's status or the husband's status or income..and whether there are children involve.. But in divorce..there will be no contest or debate on the financial support issues.. coz men or husbands are obligated by the law to pay for the alimony..That's Grand
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I am married and separated in room.. he built another house at the other end of a very big house..He's a rich guy..My husband is very rich.. that's why he's so controlling and matured than me.. I am a legal wife.. and I don't know if he has other women..Wala na ako pakialam..But I won't tell you if he's the main reason for my pseudobipolar.,.May Obssessive compulsive husband ko..napaka perfectionist grabe!..Kaya kami nag kahiwalay.. It's his nature na he can't stay with a woman.. he has past live-in partners before.. na di nag work out nasa kanya ang diprensya.. inamin nya..Obssessive..perfectionist cya.. and very abusive..mentally abusive.. grabe mag control sa mind..I was a dependent housewife of a richman before.. now i started to stand on my own feet.. i have a good job ..But i still live in the same big house and dahil sa laki ng house di na kami nagkikita.. really i'm telling you the real story here..I won't tell you if he's the reason for all of my pseudo bipolar..But Mayu nagyari na another impact sa buhay ko lately..dun nag start..and sorry.. i won't disclose it here ..And yes, i think I love that way..sa past BF ko..wala naman masyado.. of course i feel bad if mag hiwalay kami before sa mga past bf ko..but okey lang yun, di ako nakafeel ng sobra na ganito,.,...parang goin crazy talaga.. i am overwhelmed now..with all of these impacts of my life..
I do feel so depress and i think it's normal to be depress everytime mag break tayo sa BF natin ..right... but now is really different.. kasi siguro.. sa pressure ng age ko.. i'm 30 and i must have a kid at this age.. and i must have a family and a life partner..Di ako papayag talaga na wala yan..Di pwede..I need that to sustain me..I can't live living alone..no way!