sweeteenia

all my life (classic), ngayon at kailan man, Ikaw, .. and Air on the G-string by J. Bach (classical orchestra)

pls. help me.. I am an abused wife.. mentally and emotionally battered .. for 5 years ive been deprived of many things as a wife..it seems that i'm non existemt.. It is simply because... I happened to marry the man who's very wealthy and we have an ABSOULUTE PRENUP..

I didn't cause a BIG sin but why he punished me like this..How can i give justice to what he does and did to me.. Mental anguish and torture...But I want justice, rightness and fairness.. how?

FALLING IN LOVE

From the book "Letters To My Son"

Kent Nerburn, Author

It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it

happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why

some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.

You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and

causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out

of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of

the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body,

love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions

and commonalities that two people share. And just as life

itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the

coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that

cannot be questioned in its ways.

Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of

love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and

celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we

all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you,

celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.

When this happen to young people, they too often try to

grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a

gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of

love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving,

they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather

than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.

They want answers where there are no answers. They

want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other

person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change,

thinking that if some small things were different, love would

bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if

they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow.

They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But

there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they

accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.

You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to

treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in

love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with

yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't

choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't

love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your

door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not

take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love

is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same

pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,

and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to

assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a

meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All

you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it

comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,

then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person

who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it

poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you Iin any way you can.

There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long

without love, they understand love only as a need. They see

their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and

they begin to look at love as something that flows to them

rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as

their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.

They cease to be someone who generates love and instead

become someone who seeks love. They forget that the

secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to

grow only by giving it away.

Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its

own season, its own reason for coming and going. You

cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can

only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it

comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or

from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and

there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and

always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE

FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE.

If you keep you heart open, it will come again...

Sure I will as long as you are not lazy/feel like quitting sex

 

Will you still love me even if I like watching porn

No.. I am surely not lazy wwith that..

We can watch together I also like watching it..

Will you still love me even if I am a little crazy?

Surely... then would in turn take care of you.. WOuld you still love me even if i ask you to stay...

Sure.. I will

Will you still love me even if I'm a little vain..i love to wear a little makeup. dressup and be perfectly beautiful always..

Great, i like selosa women :cool: ... Will you still love me even if i such a workaholic and am always out of the country half the month?

as long as i'm in tow wih you.. taking care of you there..It's fine..I'll go anywhere you go :cool:

Will you still love me even if i feel lazy and bored and dissatisfied with my job and quit and be your housekeeper..?

Oh yeah, hell yeah ...... I like women who take ownership of their men ....

 

Will you still love me even if I as super seloso ....? :heart:

Oh yeah :cool: I love seloso guys that i love..I can relate being seloso... I want them to own me too.. :cool:

Will you still love me even if I am lazy to somethings like job and i feel like quitting and sleeping..

Dont worry about that, if your DENSE and SLOW ON THE UPTAKE,then ill lead.

 

Would you still love me even if im pessimistic?

It depends on the degree..if it's being wary.. then it's not really pessimistic.

Will you still love me even if I want you to be mine alone and no one else..

that is the great Lo Pan! (villain in the 80s smash hit movie Showdown in Little Tokyo starring Dolph Lundgren and Brandon Lee)

 

Bimbos are hot!

hemophiliac eh?

 

I'm not really into the whole same sex thing so no....

 

will you still love me even if I hated the movie Gigli and is now prone to violently assaulting people who love that movie?

A female emotional hemophiliac..

Will you still love me even if i'm an emotional hemophiliac..

ask sweetania

 

non ot:

love is just not for everybody period.

 

knowing doesn't always mean fully understanding...

and...this is just one of those things..

i won't/can't dare to elaborate on this one.

 

So who are entitled to love and to be loved?

--definitely not me

Everybody is entitled to love and be loved..It's a universal principle so to speak.. You can be loved truely at will! And be loved in return by the one you really want at your own will.. by knowing and applying the tactics ..with some psychology about men/women..Though some say it's common sense , well if you're that intuitive enough to know the opposite sex's pshyce..But if not.. read some books..about it..

I'm okey without you here.. fine..i'm fine..

to most men.. they noticed the face..particularly the beautiful eyes.. and captivating smile (beautiful lips and pearly white teeth) is a plus factor..and some basics.. are the body proportion..dress or wardrobe.. and the moves and gag(means brains)...= the totality of the woman's physical attraction

there's this secret voice inside your heart that will almost always tell you that..silence is cruel.

Yes.. I hate that deafening and nagging silence :cool:

Silence is cruel that it creeply haunts you to forever..

love... real love

Affection :cool: affection :cool:

I love bach..esp.Air on the G string and Ave Maria (prelude in C)..Betthoven's moonlight sonata and mozarts..

Okey.. never Crash diet..coz when you crash diet ..you tend to eat a little bit after the crashing.that which makes it BAD... It happens like this..your cells when you crash diet will sink abruptly ..and after your crash diet. . you tend to eat a little bit..but your cells now will get it back with vengeance in doubles and trebles.. it's a rebound thing..or YOYO dieting.. then you find yourself heavier than ever..this time..

That it's a gift that is freely given and a gift that freely moves away.. you can't coerce it or reason it into staying.....You can embrace it when it arrives..and give it away when it comes to you..But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover ..there is nothing you can do or should do..Love always has been and always will be a mystery..

And learn not to make it the one the completes you.. coz when it leaves.. you'll end up incomplete.. you must be complete yourself when you're about to jump into it..

Sometimes separation.. is the most loving thing you ever do..

We should be glad that it came to live for a moment in our life..It will come again ...

It's my heart that gives in to the emotion, it's my brain that controls the emotion.

It's always in the mind.. ,ost specially the subconcious mind..

Kumain sa Saisaki.

sulk.. give a good cry about it.. then eat and eat ..and pamper myself..and sleep like ababy..and read self help books..and try to look more beautiful ..like starting a workout and diet plan etc..

The course of true love never runs smooth..

love without hesitations and expectations... go with the flow and just enjoy the moment while its yours...

Love is a temporary insanity that can only be cured by marriage ..It's the only heart disease that is best left to " run on"-The only affection of the heart for which there is no help, and none desired. :upside:

ME!

 

the better choice!

To be loved and adored by the one i also love and adore..and that's rocks! with all that.. makes me the queen of a home.. :cool:

See just like the usual answer sa slumbook: "Many to mention"

Rocks.and .to be the queen of the home ...

Feather..