grayle

I wish them the best of luck. When I end a relationship, I don't expect any getting back together again scenarios. That's because I've tried everything I could to keep the relationship together the first time, it would be senseless to hope that a 2nd time will do it.

In jealousy there is more of self-love than love. You fear being abandoned, you fear that this person is taking away what's important to you. Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy -- in fact, they're almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room for the other. Both at once can produce unbearable turmoil...

let me just add, that tapping that ass in the heat of passion is not considered "hurting women physically". Is it? If so, I'm guilty as charged. :hypocritesmiley:

Looking back, I don't think I could deal with this. The smirks I would get when I'm with my GRO/MP gf from guys knowing they know her just as well as I do physically, and the rumors that would circulate sa likod ko. I don't think I'd be able to handle that.

Unlike some guys who are just out to f#&k, virginity is the ONLY valid reason for me to respect a girl's stand of no sex before marriage. It takes ALOT of self control to make through 18 or more years without losing your virginity, and if she wishes to give hers to the man she will marry, I'd respect that. But if playing pavirgin-virgin with me, when your actually not, amp don't cross me cuz I'm really good at sniffing out the fakes.

Guys who beat up women do so because they can only push around individuals who are physically weaker than themselves. They're covering up their insecurities as men by picking on women. I give them a good thrashing when I see them, that usually sobers them up.

sang store po ung merong whips?

The one in metrowalk (Pleasure Place) has one, several actually. Pati na handcuffs, na fluffy or yung cold steel. and lots of latex stuff.

any feedback on the one in metro walk

Bought several things form that place. I've even met the owner, who's a woman btw (medjo may edad na, pero may asim pa rin) who's also a bisexual. :cool: The girls I'm with really enjoy that place because all the salespeople are women and there's a discreet dressing room where they can try out all sorts of outfits. They have everything from sexy Manolo Blahnik's to victoria secret lingerie (The type that makes cars crash on edsa when a woman wearing it is on a billboard). The atmosphere is pretty open and you can even ask the owner which product she prefers. she's had ALOT of experience with it and is not shy to voice her opinions and recomendations. Even if it's your first time to visit, you'll quickly feel very much at home.

No sexy pics right? okay....

I was in love with a girl once, she worked as one of the starlets in a big club in the South. I say love because I never maltreated her or had sex with her when we saw each other, during her work or out of it when we went out. I didn't have a girlfriend at that time. From what she told me, she didn't sleep with the customers. And she wasn't an expensive date. The most expensive thing I bought her was an oversized teddy bear so that she would hug the bear when she thought of me. I think the thing that impressed her the most about me was that I didn't treat her as an object, but as a person. This was a year or so ago.

Just found out a few weeks ago that she got a bartending job in Macau and now she's coming home to the Philippines this summer. she desperately wants to see me, even if I'm currently tied down right now. I told her I of my situation, but she still wants to see me. You guys think I should?

Definitely for me it's the eyes, then the facial features (the nose, those pouting lips that look so soft and sweet), and the radiant white skin, then the figure, most notably the legs and the ass for me. I like tall girls who show off theircreamy theighs and legs. God has blessed me with a 6'1" body and the taller and modellish they are, the better. Boobs are 2ndary to me, was never a boob man anyway.

Oh, long straight hair is a big turn on. Specially if some of it gets in their face, like draping across one eye. (rawr!)

There comes a moment in a person's life where the ball and chain isn't something that weighs us down, but keeps our feet firmly planted on the ground in a world where we risk losing ourselves to the nothingness that is human existence.

Don't give up your heart too easily, or you'll regret it when you find someone better but you already have a wife and kids.

I dunno if you can call me bad or not...

But I have this God-given talent for controlling my metabolism. I can gain and lose weight pretty fast, I guess its just the way my body's designed. Anyways, I always like putting my prospective girlfriends through this little test. I'd gain around 20-30 lbs. then try to catch her using pure charm, intelligence, anything except good looks. If I can see that she's interested in me as a person and not just because of my body or my bank account, i casually slip back to my normal weight (and they're always surprised at how fast I lost weight ). But if they're superficial and reject me because of the way I look, I still lose weight. Then after a 2-3 weeks, I try to find out where they are on a friday or saturday night. I clean up really well (a la Queer eye for the straight guy transformation), use my benz instead of my honda city, then casually pretend to bump into them and say hi. I find it so funny how most of these girls react, yung dati na hindi ka pinapansin, bigla nalang nagpapatweetums at hindi ka nila mabitawan, they're always wanting to talk to you when before they'd casually brush you aside and wouldn't take a second look. Tapos after you meet, bubuhusin cell number mo ng mga love messages at "kung kumain ka na" etc, etc, etc. (Is it so typically filipino to ask "kumain ka na ba?" kung wala ka nang ibang masabi? Out of all the things to talk about?) Well, I love these superficial girls, specially when I screw their lights out, post their pics on the net while we were having sex, then drop them like a hot potato. Serves them right, I think.

Of course I let her read my phone's inbox...

I got another phone for THOSE kinds of messages... :cool:

Hehe. As if naman malalaman nyo nga talaga kung playful yun babae. With our angelic face and demure ways?

I bet I can tell you within 30 minutes of meeting you and having a conversation if your the type of girl to avoid i.e. playing with me. Care to make a wager?

Avoid women who get a thrill out of playing with your emotions, who treat guys as playthings or as an ATM rather than as a person.

Tactically, I would say Leonidas and Maximus with an equal amount of forces would be a joy to watch.

In a one on one match with no given preparation, I would say Achilles.

In a one on one match with a good amount of time for preparation, I would say Leonidas or Maximus.

fortunately or unfortunately, kissing is a two way street. and not all women think as progresively as you do.dude.

 

anyway, you will find that out sooner or later.

Yup, I'm well aware of that fact. Just saying that I don't like girls who are like that. Sorry if you felt it was confrontational. What I was stating was a matter of personal opinion and open to debate naturally.

If you like it another way, hey, whatever floats your boat right? :thumbsupsmiley:

.................deeply touched....thanks for sharing.....

Thanks. I'm glad you were touched by it.

of course.. as long as type ko yung girl.. pero siyempre, di na aabot dun sa point na yun kung hindi hehe.. guys/girls.. where do u feel most comfortable having that "opening kiss"? kakastress kasi sa leeg kapag sa car eh..

Of course, in front of her door or the gate to their house! If you really like the girl, and you are a gentleman, diba you'd get off your lazy ass and escort the girl to her door naman diba?

You dont necessarily express your feelings with a kiss bro. if i were a girl, i woudn't kiss on a first date i find out i dont like you or think your'e an assh*le!

 

I guess its the same for guys right?

Dude, that's exactly what I'm saying. That's a good reason not to kiss. If you don't like that person, you just didn't click during the date, and you don't wanna see them anymore. By all means, don't kiss them! But if your just holding back cuz of stupid pinoy cultural PROTOCOL or you might think the guy will htink your "cheap".... neng, wala na tayo sa panahon ng mga lola/lolo natin. It's 2007, not 1907!

Mariposa Lodge, Pasig. Avoid the rooms na nasa dulo! yung rooms na nasa ibaba ng garage. I had a wierd experience there, the channels kept changing kahit tinangal na namin ang batteries ng remote. What's wierd is nung inumplug ko yung tv tapos punta kami banyo, paglabas ko nakabukas naman ulit tv at nakaplug ulit... :cry:

This is taken straight from my blog, so bear with me, it's kinda long or if it looks like I'm just posting it here to grab attention. Just wanna share this with you guys. Somethimes being mad at your ex has repercussions that you'll regret in the end...

I just found out a few days ago that the girl I was madly in love with in college was dead. In a car accident... that happened 3 years ago. She was the first girl I fell for, and I fell for her HARD. I Sacrificed every single shred of self for her. It didn't matter to me if it cost my own dignity or self-respect, or what anyone else thought about the matter, if she smiled at the end of it and she was happy I would gladly do it. But what I thought was a mutual feeling the both of us, she on the other hand, waned. But I guess she'd growned accustomed to having me at her beck and call, 24/7, that she kept me on the perpetual carrot-on-a-stick situation. She would lead me on and play with my feelings for her. She knew I loved her more than anything in the world at that time, and she did her best to exploit it. After showing inticimacy with me, for example, she would talk about another guy she was seeing or worse, invite him along when I offered to take her out to dinner. She knew how much she was hurting me, and she relished the pained look in my eyes each time she did that. I've tried to talk to her about it, to tell her how I felt, but she kept doing it anyway. It went on for the better part of a few more years after college, until I woke up one morning and told myself she wasn't worth all this heartache and pain. I decided to quit her cold turkey. When she called, I told anyone else in the house to answer it and tell her I was gone. When she sent messages to my phone or tried to chat with me, I didn't reply and went invisible. Eventually the messages and calls trickled to a stop, and I took a good hard look at the broken glass window my life has become because of what she's done to me. I remember praying to God to make her feel the same pain I felt during that time as I cried myself to sleep each night.

I have to confess, that relationship with her jaded me towards any of the other girls that followed. I realize now, I hated her so much, I was inadvertantly trying to get back at her through the others. I'm not justifying that, I know it was wrong. Although they had the best intentions for me, it was the trauma I suffered that caused me to build thick walls between me and them. No matter how hard they tried to reach me, to make me open up to them, to communicate, I built more walls, became more isolated, and I refused to meet them halfway. It didn't matter that they loved me, the only thing that mattered was that I would never let another girl hurt me that way again. Suffice it to say that it took a while before I was able to truely care about anyone but myself again. Once my exes, and yes even my girlfriend right now on occasion, learned the reason why I was acting distant or cold at times, they try to understand and do the best they can to help me through it. I am so thankful for that, and if any of them are reading this right now, I want them to know how grateful I am that they did that.

Flash forward to a few nights ago, I was talking to a college friend I haven't talked to in some while. It just so happened that she was also a close friend of her as well, so I asked her how so-and-so was. I expected the usual married, 2 beautiful kids, house in the suburbs story, but nothing could have prepared me for what I learned next. After I left her best friend's life, she progressively got worse to say the least. She was learning to smoke cigarettes and weed when I gave up (I tried to stop her, but she wouldn't listen to me, occasionally she would lash out at me because of it), but right at the end of her life she was into cocaine, extasy, and other deadly, chemical substances. Her mother basically fell in love with a poser/loser, and they suffered alot of financial problems because of that. On top of that her father, which she's never known and only recently came back into her life, tried to rape her as well. One bad relationship after the other, and add in street trash "friends" who couldn't get a job to save their lives and only relied on their rich families to get them by, and it had to come sooner or later. They were heading home from Tagaytay Highlands, her boyfriend high on drugs and piss drunk, flooring the pedal. There were five of them in the wreck. What's ironic is her boyfriend lived, I bet he's suffering bouts of heartache between his drug-induced dreams and wild parties right now. She wasn't as fortunate, she was severely hurt and commatose. After 5 or 6 months of not responding to treatments, her family decided to pull the plug. I heard about her being in an accident and that she was in the hospital a few years back, but I hated her so much I didn't care. I myself was just recovering from a deadly case of dengue (doctors said I was going to die... yes it was that bad) and she never bothered ot visit me... so I reasoned, why would I visit her?

Well, now I'm thinking about all that's happened, and I can't help but think that Revenge, if this is what you can call it isn't as sweet as I imagined it would be all those years ago. After everything's said and done, the only thing I keep thinking about is how I wished I was there before she died. How I could probobly helped with some of the problems she was going through, be it financial or otherwise. How I just stuck in there longer, things wouldn't have turned out the way it has. One song keeps playing in my head and I'd just like to post it for everyone to read it. Cha, this song's for you, wherever you are. Even through the hate and pain, I wish you well...

DIG

Incubus

We All Have A Weakness

But Some Of Ours Are Easier To Identify. Look Me In The Eye

And Ask For Forgiveness;

We'll Make A Pact To Never Speak That Word Again

Yes You Are My Friend.

We All Have Something That Digs At Us,

At Least We Dig Each Other

So When Weakenss Turns My Ego Up

I Know You'll Count On The Me From Yesterday

If I Turn Into Another

Dig Me Up From Under What Is Covering

The Better Part Of Me

Sing This Song

Remind Me That We'll Always Have Each Other

When Everything Else Is Gone.

We All Have A Sickness

That Cleverly Attaches And Multiplies

No Matter How Hard We Try.

We All Have Something That Digs At Us,

At Least We Dig Each Other

So When Sickness Turns My Ego Up

I Know You'll Act As A Clever Medicine.

If I Turn Into Another

Dig Me Up From Under What Is Covering

The Better Part Of Me.

Sing This Song!

Remind Me That We'll Always Have Each Other

When Everything Else Is Gone.

Oh Each Other....

When Everything

Else Is Gone.